OK, my Beautiful Wife / KH is taking more control. Weekend before last we had an outing at a benefit gala, I went unlocked as we didn't know what to expect and that was Her request; that evening I was I instructed to bend Her over and enjoy! Flash forward to this past weekend. Kept locked Friday night to Worship Her. Brought Her to an intense orgasm and then allowed to 'gently' worship her some more (She's VERY sensitive after an O). Gently sucked, licked, and rubbed her body for a bit; closed the night spooning with Her as the big spoon and holding me (Her property) in Her hand - It was bliss. Saturday night was a play night. Started w/ some Worshipping for a bit, ultimately stretched TIGHT w/ cuffs & rope on the bed and tormented (I Love) and apparently punished a bit for an under-the-bus comment I made during Thanksgiving (not bad, but uncalled for) - She cupped/stretched my balls and gave them a pretty good beating w/ the crop along w/ an intense flogging of my (Her) cock. I definitely felt crossing the line into punishment. Moved on to an intense hand job (told me I could cum) - Right at the pinnacle She stopped and gave me a perfectly Ruined-O. Quote: "You had an orgasm just last Saturday, so. . . " It was a BEAUTIFUL weekend. Don't get me wrong, I'll still want a real O when the time comes but so enjoy putting Her first. She want's to successfully milk me but have not had success yet; I'd also like to succeed - I'm wondering if an extended lock up time would help? Btw, last night I apologized for my comment and asked if She enjoyed punishing me; to which She grinned and said yes . . . I know She enjoys pushing me (not harming) and I deserved it.