Hello Chastity Mansion ,
There has been a lot of talk lately about being more welcoming to vanilla ladies. I couldn’t find a specific thread with suggestions so if there is one, I apologize for opening a new one.
All this talks made me wonder… Why did I never invite my lovely wife to check this website?
Perhaps I thought unconsciously, that it would not really be tailored to her needs.
But I have made my mind. I will propose her to have a look!
This said, I would like to use this opportunity to make some suggestions.
Although I am not sure the Mansion will ever be Vanilla friendly, as Chastity in itself is quite intimidating to Muggles, it could be more “soft kink” friendly, and also more woman friendly.
Issues in my opinion:
1. Dedicated sections
2. Controlling the language
3. Separating kinks
4. Improving navigation
1.. Although many aspects of chastity are of interest for both the locked boys and the lovely Key holders, it is not always the case. Two things come to my mind:
I think Ladies should have a dedicated space, a sort of lounge, where they can talk about their views and experiences of Key holding without being interrupted. Boys would be able to read and get informed, but not to post. I know it sounds a little crazy on a forum, but this is a chastity forum! Caged boys listening but not having the right to talk on the dedicated KH space should be logical, perhaps even sexy !!
On the other hand, I feel there is a lot of trivial conversation about fitting devices, health or hygiene concerns and so on. The Mansion should definitely allow those questions, as we have all needed answers before, and experience users should make it their responsibility to help new comers. But there should be a clear dedicated section for these not very sexy subjects, that KH can feel free to ignore.
2.. I find that the language used on the forums is sometimes appalling.
Now, I understand locked boys (I am one) can often feel very horny, and that it might feel sexy to use some dirty language full of cocks, cum and so on. However, I also recognize that Key holders, and also some other chaste boys might not be horny or in the mood to have such foul language in every sentence, if not every post... I know my wife and KH would be quite turn off by it...
I Imagine it is not an easy thing to control the language used by people on a forum. But maybe there could be dedicated “soft” language sections (penis, vagina…), and some uncensored hardcore ones (cocks, pussy, cum…)
3.. As I said, I'm not sure 100% vanilla people will ever find Chastity to their liking. However, there is definitely a soft Chastity kink, for beginners, or simply less Kinky people, and then a harder one, with a lot of other kinks associated to it, that might intimidate or straight up scare off new people.
Again, I think it would be nice to have a section in the forum that is only about Chastity, teasing and soft servicing; and other section about hard Chastity and associated kinks.
4.. As a final word, I realize that apart from the language regulation, and the "Ladies & KH only" section, many of the things I talk about already exist in a way or another.
However, I feel there are either not clear or not respected by the users. I like the ambiance titles like "Piédestal" or "Boudoir"; but maybe people get confused by it and don't really know where to post.
Also, I think there are too many sections on the forum, which makes individual ones not frequented enough. If a specific section about this or that Kink has little activity, then users will be tempted to post in another section, to get views and responses, even if it's the wrong section for it.
Perhaps there should be less than 10 section on the entire site.
That's it
I realize nobody asked for my opinion, so I hope it is not offending any one. It's just the honest thought of a caged boy who wouldn't mind if his KH would enjoy it here as much as he does !
There has been a lot of talk lately about being more welcoming to vanilla ladies. I couldn’t find a specific thread with suggestions so if there is one, I apologize for opening a new one.
All this talks made me wonder… Why did I never invite my lovely wife to check this website?
Perhaps I thought unconsciously, that it would not really be tailored to her needs.
But I have made my mind. I will propose her to have a look!
This said, I would like to use this opportunity to make some suggestions.
Although I am not sure the Mansion will ever be Vanilla friendly, as Chastity in itself is quite intimidating to Muggles, it could be more “soft kink” friendly, and also more woman friendly.
Issues in my opinion:
1. Dedicated sections
2. Controlling the language
3. Separating kinks
4. Improving navigation
1.. Although many aspects of chastity are of interest for both the locked boys and the lovely Key holders, it is not always the case. Two things come to my mind:
I think Ladies should have a dedicated space, a sort of lounge, where they can talk about their views and experiences of Key holding without being interrupted. Boys would be able to read and get informed, but not to post. I know it sounds a little crazy on a forum, but this is a chastity forum! Caged boys listening but not having the right to talk on the dedicated KH space should be logical, perhaps even sexy !!
On the other hand, I feel there is a lot of trivial conversation about fitting devices, health or hygiene concerns and so on. The Mansion should definitely allow those questions, as we have all needed answers before, and experience users should make it their responsibility to help new comers. But there should be a clear dedicated section for these not very sexy subjects, that KH can feel free to ignore.
2.. I find that the language used on the forums is sometimes appalling.
Now, I understand locked boys (I am one) can often feel very horny, and that it might feel sexy to use some dirty language full of cocks, cum and so on. However, I also recognize that Key holders, and also some other chaste boys might not be horny or in the mood to have such foul language in every sentence, if not every post... I know my wife and KH would be quite turn off by it...
I Imagine it is not an easy thing to control the language used by people on a forum. But maybe there could be dedicated “soft” language sections (penis, vagina…), and some uncensored hardcore ones (cocks, pussy, cum…)
3.. As I said, I'm not sure 100% vanilla people will ever find Chastity to their liking. However, there is definitely a soft Chastity kink, for beginners, or simply less Kinky people, and then a harder one, with a lot of other kinks associated to it, that might intimidate or straight up scare off new people.
Again, I think it would be nice to have a section in the forum that is only about Chastity, teasing and soft servicing; and other section about hard Chastity and associated kinks.
4.. As a final word, I realize that apart from the language regulation, and the "Ladies & KH only" section, many of the things I talk about already exist in a way or another.
However, I feel there are either not clear or not respected by the users. I like the ambiance titles like "Piédestal" or "Boudoir"; but maybe people get confused by it and don't really know where to post.
Also, I think there are too many sections on the forum, which makes individual ones not frequented enough. If a specific section about this or that Kink has little activity, then users will be tempted to post in another section, to get views and responses, even if it's the wrong section for it.
Perhaps there should be less than 10 section on the entire site.
That's it
I realize nobody asked for my opinion, so I hope it is not offending any one. It's just the honest thought of a caged boy who wouldn't mind if his KH would enjoy it here as much as he does !
