An integral part of my sub's training, in addition to wearing a cockcage, is spanking. He is a very willing submissive and understands that restraints and spanking are for his own good. We only started spanking a week or so ago as he is fairly new in training. I had received some advice from another domme I know well.
The first time I spanked R., I ordered him to take his jeans off and bend over my desk. My plan was to give him 10 strokes with the strap over his panties and another 10 with his panties down. I had him bent over the desk. I then waited for him to ask to be spanked and gave him the first three strokes. At that point he told me that being over the desk with his cock cage on was very uncomfortable. I got a couple fluffy pillows and put them under him. He said that was much better. I then resumed the spanking. He thanked me after the first ten as he was supposed to do then asked for ten more with his panties down. I had him stand and pull the panties down then we finished the spanking. He agreed that if he keeps the cock cage on he needs to have something to cushion the cock cage.
My girlfriend told me another way is to put the sub in leg shackles first as well as a waist chain with handcuffs at the side. Only then remove the cock cage. We tried that several times then I bought a special spanking bench from a friend. It is already padded but I add the pillows when he has the cage on. If its off he's in leg shackles already or I use the ankle shackles that go with the bench. Then have him stretch out his arms and I secure him with the wrist restraints the attach to the bench. I always keep him in shackles and cuffs when he is not caged. Anyway, he tells me that this position with or without the cage is comfortable and allows him to concentrate more on the spanking and why he is getting it. He has often said he much prefers to be retrained for the spankings though sometimes I anticipate if we are not at home an its necessary I may have to whip him without restraints.
By the way, I use a belt or a leather strap and am thinking of getting a switch.
He now gets a maintenance spanking weekly. Its always the same day same time. He knows he must bring me the handcuffs and leg shackles and either the strap or belt, whichever he chooses. The standard is 20 strokes.
The first time I spanked R., I ordered him to take his jeans off and bend over my desk. My plan was to give him 10 strokes with the strap over his panties and another 10 with his panties down. I had him bent over the desk. I then waited for him to ask to be spanked and gave him the first three strokes. At that point he told me that being over the desk with his cock cage on was very uncomfortable. I got a couple fluffy pillows and put them under him. He said that was much better. I then resumed the spanking. He thanked me after the first ten as he was supposed to do then asked for ten more with his panties down. I had him stand and pull the panties down then we finished the spanking. He agreed that if he keeps the cock cage on he needs to have something to cushion the cock cage.
My girlfriend told me another way is to put the sub in leg shackles first as well as a waist chain with handcuffs at the side. Only then remove the cock cage. We tried that several times then I bought a special spanking bench from a friend. It is already padded but I add the pillows when he has the cage on. If its off he's in leg shackles already or I use the ankle shackles that go with the bench. Then have him stretch out his arms and I secure him with the wrist restraints the attach to the bench. I always keep him in shackles and cuffs when he is not caged. Anyway, he tells me that this position with or without the cage is comfortable and allows him to concentrate more on the spanking and why he is getting it. He has often said he much prefers to be retrained for the spankings though sometimes I anticipate if we are not at home an its necessary I may have to whip him without restraints.
By the way, I use a belt or a leather strap and am thinking of getting a switch.
He now gets a maintenance spanking weekly. Its always the same day same time. He knows he must bring me the handcuffs and leg shackles and either the strap or belt, whichever he chooses. The standard is 20 strokes.
