So I thought up this new game. It incorporates a bit of financial penalties (something which I have never tried but sounds very interesting) with teasing and denial. It also incorporates a goal we have of trying to limit our spending to a budget.
I am into orgasm denial and teasing, and she doesn't have a huge sex drive. Our bedroom life has been a bit dead recently. So the goal here is to encourage her to tease me but deny my orgasms while I have to try and cum, and also incentivize her to be more interested in sex even at my expense.
Here are the basic rules:
It seems like a pretty light and fun way to add some spice and maybe introduce her to a d/s dynamic...we can slowly add / change the rules and restrictions to either make either of us more submissive or dominant as time goes on or lower the penalties to make it less intense, or raise my penalties to limit the number of orgasms I can have a month.
You can see there is almost no way for me to earn money from her initially. This is to avoid turning her off the idea. If she is interested we can add some penalties for her later. What do you all think?
I am into orgasm denial and teasing, and she doesn't have a huge sex drive. Our bedroom life has been a bit dead recently. So the goal here is to encourage her to tease me but deny my orgasms while I have to try and cum, and also incentivize her to be more interested in sex even at my expense.
Here are the basic rules:
- Both of us get an "account" with a $250 allowance each month from my paycheck. We can only buy non-essential items (shoes, purses, electronics, gadgets, toys, gifts, etc) from our accounts. Any leftover money from my paycheck after essentials and allowances goes into savings and can't be spent by either of us. The allowance accumulates every month and we can take our money out at any time and spend how we choose.
- If I give myself an orgasm I pay $25 to her account.
- The "Satisfy Her" Rule: Every time she orgasms in my presence she wins $25 (15 from me, 10 from the bank). If we have any intimacy and I leave her unsatisfied I pay a $25 penalty. She can say she is satisfied even if she doesn't orgasm. So basically it is a win-win for her any time we do anything.
- If she gives me an erection and I don't cum she wins $1 per minute of teasing, otherwise I win $10. If I make myself cum not only does that mean she wins, I pay the self orgasm penalty (this continues to apply for 24 hrs). Anything goes here (restraints, etc). The Satisfy Her Rule applies.
- If I initiate intimacy and she makes me cum, I don't pay an O penalty. Otherwise she wins $1 per minute from when I started to when we stop. If she allows intercourse and I still don't come I pay an additional $10 penalty. The Satisfy Her Rule always applies.
- Accounts can go negative which means that said person cannot withdraw any money until they earn it back or wait for the next allowance.
- Chastity belt modifier (to be applied later if she is comfortable with it): Any of my penalties are cut in half while I wear a chastity device but I must pay her a $20 penalty every time I ask her to unlock it and she is obligated to unlock it, but I am not obligated to remove it (this eliminates any kind of begging). If she wants to remove it she pays me $10 and has the option to put it back on within 24 hrs. So once I lock it on, the only way it is coming off is if one of us caves.
It seems like a pretty light and fun way to add some spice and maybe introduce her to a d/s dynamic...we can slowly add / change the rules and restrictions to either make either of us more submissive or dominant as time goes on or lower the penalties to make it less intense, or raise my penalties to limit the number of orgasms I can have a month.
You can see there is almost no way for me to earn money from her initially. This is to avoid turning her off the idea. If she is interested we can add some penalties for her later. What do you all think?
