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Up Until Now

Discussion in 'The Vault' started by owndbywife, Jan 4, 2017.

  1. I thought to get started with this group after my introduction it might be fun to start a blog/journal. This first post will be about my wife and I, our relationship, how we met and where we are with chastity. then we can move from that point forward, sound good? here we go:

    My wife, Stacey, and I met when we where in our early 20's. I am 6'1 and she is 4'10 and she is a fiery redhead!! we where set up on a blind date and i knew instantly she was the one. 9 months later she became my wife. She knew i had a submissive side and she has a dominant side but at the time due to past relationships and her own body image she was very reluctant to take on that role. it took three years of our marriage: learning how to communicate, learning how to live with each other and learning what each other needs in a relationship before we even started to explore a domme/sub relationship.
    I enjoy cross dressing and she wants nothing to do with it so it took a long time for me to get over that aspect and not be selfish. Our sex life was vanilla and things where not looking that best. I stumbled across a caption one day on the internet that had a chastity cage in it. this was year 5 of our marriage. she was surprised when i mentioned it and said she had always wanted to lock up a guy. So, and this is honestly the truth, reluctantly and wanting to add spice to our marriage, I agreed to it and we purchased a CB6000s.

    we will start back up here, gotta run and will post a little later
     
  2. *5 years into our marriage
     
  3. So we bought a cb600s and i tried it on. We kept it on for the weekend and I liked how it was a new form of "Bondage" but yet i wasn't convinced it would help our marriage and after we discussed it, we took it off and didn't talk or think about chastity again for about a year. Our marriage was still not on the right track, sex was infrequent and rare. I now know that I was holding a major grudge against her for the cross dressing and she was so upset with the fact that we where not having normal sex that we just did not engage each other. I kept masturbating and I didn't think of the ramifications it would have in our marriage. on our 7th wedding anniversary we had a long truthful talk about where we where in our relationship and about what we wanted from each other. This conversation lasted for two days and it was the savior of our marriage. we recommitted to each other and i felt a renewed love for my wife. Sex was great for about a week and then i went back to masturbating more than tending to her needs. When I realized this i surprised her one day with the key to the chastity cage. I had put it on, gave her the key and told her i really wanted to try and see what chastity could do for us.
    We tried it for two weeks and I started to feel more affection for my wife, I desired her more and we knew this was a great path for us. At the time she didn't want to have a female led relationship and i wasn't comfortable with total power exchange. we kept it in the bedroom and it went like that for about a year. i would be unlocked for a week or so at a time after she would give in and let me out, I would go back to masturbating and we would lose what we have and then i would lock back up. The first cage broke and we didn't buy another for two months.
    When it arrived, my wife and I recommitted and i have been in chastity almost 24/7 since then. Our life is amazing, halfway through last year we switched to a FLR TPE relationship. I love serving for her, i love and desire my wife more than ever. We recently decided after cage 3 broke that the plastic was done. we are ordering a steel cage and once locked there is no chance of it breaking so no chance of an early release. We committed that 2017 will be our year to fully live like she wants us to , she controls everything now. i have no clue how much money we have, she is teaching me to cook, I clean the house, do laundry, and now i am starting to work out. I feel like we finally have embraced who each other is and we will have an amazing year. She is also talking about, since we want kids, she is thinking up ways that she could make me cum in my cage and inseminate herself as the "ultimate control".

    So this has been a very brief history up to now. and i hope to write in this blog various scenarios and things we might do that we can share with you guys.

    please feel free to ask anything or post any comments as I welcome all of y'all to our story
     
  4. Great start hope to hear all about it

    Good luck
     
  5. By the way, my kh once actually said the very exact thing that is on your avatar lol
     
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  6. I really enjoyed your post. Look forward to more of your posts.
     
  7. we just purchased a metal version of the HT2 for 100 dollars. I hope it works well and makes Ma'am happy. looks like i will truly be spending 2017 completely locked
     
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