Apparently my wife did some reading about chastity online and decided that giving me no orgasms would not really change anything as she would have no control over me. Instead she informed me just now that I will be given daily tasks like clean her toilet every day, get her something to drink, clean her dishes and little stuff like that.
However, the big change, other than finally her feeling comfortable with making me call her Mistress or Ma'am, is to give me tasks like vacuum all the rugs in return for a full orgasm. There are others like dusting, polishing, etc., that I can accept or refuse to do. However, I only get an orgasm if I accept a task she wants me to do so the choice is mine. She also had me wear a dress all day today and liked it so much she just told me to order more so I can wear them every day. She likes how I look in a dress. I think I look silly but she gets a kick out of it. She is finally understanding the power of humiliation of how it turns me on. Her ex girlfriend was a natural dominant and had no problem in ordering me around and loved when I called her Mistress. My wife never felt comfortable being in charge due to her very demanding dad making her do everything in the house.
Been trying for years to get my wife to be more in charge but she kept on saying it is not in her nature. I think she finally understands that it is a game we choose to play and in reality we are still equals. Only big difference is wearing a dress all the time and earning my orgasms. I am retired and quite frankly all my friends are dead and lots of free time on my hands so now I will have things to do that result in me having an orgasm rather than none at all.
I guess our always adjusting and adapting is why we have been at this for 15 years. We try this and that until we find something that works. Some things work for a few years but grow stale so we find new things to do. The big breakthrough for me is that my wife is finally getting comfortable telling me what to do. The last time we had sex she told me to get the bedroom ready and lay down with a hood on to wait for her. Thought she would be right in as usual but she waited an hour before she came into the bedroom and simply laid down and came with her vibrator and then left. Did not touch me or talk to me. That was weird but highly arousing for me.
Time will tell.
However, the big change, other than finally her feeling comfortable with making me call her Mistress or Ma'am, is to give me tasks like vacuum all the rugs in return for a full orgasm. There are others like dusting, polishing, etc., that I can accept or refuse to do. However, I only get an orgasm if I accept a task she wants me to do so the choice is mine. She also had me wear a dress all day today and liked it so much she just told me to order more so I can wear them every day. She likes how I look in a dress. I think I look silly but she gets a kick out of it. She is finally understanding the power of humiliation of how it turns me on. Her ex girlfriend was a natural dominant and had no problem in ordering me around and loved when I called her Mistress. My wife never felt comfortable being in charge due to her very demanding dad making her do everything in the house.
Been trying for years to get my wife to be more in charge but she kept on saying it is not in her nature. I think she finally understands that it is a game we choose to play and in reality we are still equals. Only big difference is wearing a dress all the time and earning my orgasms. I am retired and quite frankly all my friends are dead and lots of free time on my hands so now I will have things to do that result in me having an orgasm rather than none at all.
I guess our always adjusting and adapting is why we have been at this for 15 years. We try this and that until we find something that works. Some things work for a few years but grow stale so we find new things to do. The big breakthrough for me is that my wife is finally getting comfortable telling me what to do. The last time we had sex she told me to get the bedroom ready and lay down with a hood on to wait for her. Thought she would be right in as usual but she waited an hour before she came into the bedroom and simply laid down and came with her vibrator and then left. Did not touch me or talk to me. That was weird but highly arousing for me.
Time will tell.
