Well, my relationship is almost two years old and we often play with accessories (as you can see in my avatar), but nothing too kinky and still far away from chastity (unfortunately).
Although my gf is assertive and dominant in very aspects of our life, when it comes to the bedroom play she loves when im in charge. She's open to mostly everything and we already did some crazy things that i loved, like streaming our play session/sex to the internet, flogging, collar&leash, etc, but once i've asked her to be in charge in the bedroom, she quickly became bored. Also, her sexdrive is way faster than mine, if we dont have sex for two days she doesnt stop asking for it. Even if i start with some oral sex and she reaches orgasm 2 or 3 times, she asks me to put it in. Is this normal?
Also, one other thing that she has little interest is my ass. I can play however i want with hers (rimming included), but she only rims mine, she tells me that she doesnt want/has no interest in putting fingers, dildos or whatever in my butt.. I dont know why because she doesnt has interest in discussing her point with me.
Even though i'd love it, unfortunately, i dont really think that she could turn into a KH. One of my ideas is showing her some websites or books regarding the subject, but eventually she'll just ignore it or something like that.
Any advice?
Sorry for bad english, its not my mother-tongue
Although my gf is assertive and dominant in very aspects of our life, when it comes to the bedroom play she loves when im in charge. She's open to mostly everything and we already did some crazy things that i loved, like streaming our play session/sex to the internet, flogging, collar&leash, etc, but once i've asked her to be in charge in the bedroom, she quickly became bored. Also, her sexdrive is way faster than mine, if we dont have sex for two days she doesnt stop asking for it. Even if i start with some oral sex and she reaches orgasm 2 or 3 times, she asks me to put it in. Is this normal?
Also, one other thing that she has little interest is my ass. I can play however i want with hers (rimming included), but she only rims mine, she tells me that she doesnt want/has no interest in putting fingers, dildos or whatever in my butt.. I dont know why because she doesnt has interest in discussing her point with me.
Even though i'd love it, unfortunately, i dont really think that she could turn into a KH. One of my ideas is showing her some websites or books regarding the subject, but eventually she'll just ignore it or something like that.
Any advice?
Sorry for bad english, its not my mother-tongue