I am curious if it is important to you to see your Key Holder wearing your key and if there is a preference as to where she wears it. Since moving my key to my ankle it seems to have drawn more attention.
Wearing your key
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I wont do the mailing service, because its only exciting if a Woman is holding them
I like the idea of the key being somewhere she see's it occasionally. On her keys, or some other place she is at times, hanging in the bedroom, etc
Having it on the ankle isnt the most common, so that could add to the excitement, as opposed to a simple necklace. And if a foot fetish is present it could add to it even more
I love pussy worship, so having my key on a belly chain is hottest of all, but everyone is different.
I like the idea of the key being somewhere she see's it occasionally. On her keys, or some other place she is at times, hanging in the bedroom, etc
Having it on the ankle isnt the most common, so that could add to the excitement, as opposed to a simple necklace. And if a foot fetish is present it could add to it even more
I love pussy worship, so having my key on a belly chain is hottest of all, but everyone is different.
Depends on the setting!
The belly chain for pussy worship is awesome. The ankle for harder D/S scenes.... because that's generally the only thing a submissive can see in those scenes.....
But in day to day life i like the classic of the necklace or on a bracelet because it puts it somewhere for the Domme to play with it, fiddle or fidget and such. The more they do that, the more intense everything becomes.
The belly chain for pussy worship is awesome. The ankle for harder D/S scenes.... because that's generally the only thing a submissive can see in those scenes.....
But in day to day life i like the classic of the necklace or on a bracelet because it puts it somewhere for the Domme to play with it, fiddle or fidget and such. The more they do that, the more intense everything becomes.
Yes, for me it is important and also for her.
My Mistress and ex-girlfriend, when she wears a skirt, she carries the key on her ankle.
She knows that makes me more compliant and submissive
I wish my Mistress @Destiny103181 could wear my key. She lives several states away.
It's a hot idea but when my partner actually did it any we lived in the same house I absolutely hated it for reasons I couldn't actually figure out.
For most men, I imagine that their partner wearing the key helps keep the man engaged with very little effort on the partner's part. If the partner doesn't have a problem keeping him engaged otherwise, the returns would be less but possibly still substantial compared to input required.
It might be more important or even flat out necessary in vixen/hotwife/cuckold scenarios to assure the man that he's never completely forgotten and to signify both that their partner owns him and that he owns them as well.
It might be more important or even flat out necessary in vixen/hotwife/cuckold scenarios to assure the man that he's never completely forgotten and to signify both that their partner owns him and that he owns them as well.
I get aroused when I feel the cage. Its an arousal thing for my KH when see sees it. Wearing it keeps the kettle boiling..
It’s very important to me to see my KH wearing the key to my chastity cage. It’s like that classic heart necklace where each person wears half of the heart that connect like a puzzle piece. For me, it’s an outward symbol that we’re in this together and she’s the yin to my yang. And It’s a constant reminder that I’ve given her complete control over that part of me and all that goes with it. Of course I’m reminded of that constantly because I’m wearing the cage, but when she’s wearing the key, I know she’s being constantly reminded of our special bond as well. And it’s just hot to see her play with the key on her neck; she knows it’s hot and she does it to tease me.
we’ve tried three of the major places to wear it, necklace, belly chain, anklet. I agree with a previous poster that the belly chain is hot during pussy worship especially, but she lost it one day. I think with regular body movements, the waist chain is pretty easy to lose if worn that way often. The anklet was ok, but it didn’t really do much for either of us. She wore the regular key there for awhile when she didn’t want an “ugly” utilitarian key on her neck.
That all changed when I made her the working silver key as seen in my avatar. She now wears that on her neck as a working piece of jewelry and she no longer has any reservations about wearing a key at any time. She wears it all the time, at work, with family, etc. She’s outwardly very conservative, so this is a really big deal that she feels so comfortable with it. I gave her a long adjustable chain, so she can instantly adjust it from a choker to hidden between her cleavage. And she can easily remove the necklace over her head if/when she desires to actually use the key.
Finally, I just asked her this question and she replied that wearing the key is important to her, it’s become part of what she wears and it reminds her of me and our journey together.
A serious message for the chaste men here, if your KH is the vanilla conservative type, if she’s on a chastity journey with you, if she’s ever complained about how ugly the normal key looks wrt wearing it, and if you desire her to wear it regularly, then you need to get her a piece of real jewelry that is either a symbolic key (I first gifted her a silver Tiffany’s key) or a real working key. There is at least one company that is linked here often that makes them. And I posted a DIY on the key I made here in CM.
we’ve tried three of the major places to wear it, necklace, belly chain, anklet. I agree with a previous poster that the belly chain is hot during pussy worship especially, but she lost it one day. I think with regular body movements, the waist chain is pretty easy to lose if worn that way often. The anklet was ok, but it didn’t really do much for either of us. She wore the regular key there for awhile when she didn’t want an “ugly” utilitarian key on her neck.
That all changed when I made her the working silver key as seen in my avatar. She now wears that on her neck as a working piece of jewelry and she no longer has any reservations about wearing a key at any time. She wears it all the time, at work, with family, etc. She’s outwardly very conservative, so this is a really big deal that she feels so comfortable with it. I gave her a long adjustable chain, so she can instantly adjust it from a choker to hidden between her cleavage. And she can easily remove the necklace over her head if/when she desires to actually use the key.
Finally, I just asked her this question and she replied that wearing the key is important to her, it’s become part of what she wears and it reminds her of me and our journey together.
A serious message for the chaste men here, if your KH is the vanilla conservative type, if she’s on a chastity journey with you, if she’s ever complained about how ugly the normal key looks wrt wearing it, and if you desire her to wear it regularly, then you need to get her a piece of real jewelry that is either a symbolic key (I first gifted her a silver Tiffany’s key) or a real working key. There is at least one company that is linked here often that makes them. And I posted a DIY on the key I made here in CM.
I wouldn't say it's important, but I do love seeing it when she does wear it. And yes, it's usually around her ankle.
Mrs Chaste has "the key to me" secured in a keysafe! Now something she has done which is very exciting/frustrating or both is "accidentally" forget to take with her if we go away for a break! Not that she would unlock me anyway! But when your a hundred miles or more from home it certainly feels a lot more real!
Nicoftime
The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts
For me it’s very important that she wears it.
1. That thing represents and literally is, the only access to my penis and any sexual gratification, it would bother me if it was tossed in a drawer or lockbox.
2. As much as I am ok with this, it’s also a big sacrifice. I am proud of that sacrifice and would hope she would be proud of it enough to show it.
3. This biggest reason is opportunity. I know every minute of every day, the boy reason I’m locked is because she has chosen not to unlock me. It’s not because the key is in another room, in a lock box, or at the bottom of her purse. It is always right there, within reach, always hanging there ready to be of service. I love the fact that she can unlock me any time she wants and that her not doing so is always her choice, not being dependent on whether it’s convenient or difficult to access the key.
1. That thing represents and literally is, the only access to my penis and any sexual gratification, it would bother me if it was tossed in a drawer or lockbox.
2. As much as I am ok with this, it’s also a big sacrifice. I am proud of that sacrifice and would hope she would be proud of it enough to show it.
3. This biggest reason is opportunity. I know every minute of every day, the boy reason I’m locked is because she has chosen not to unlock me. It’s not because the key is in another room, in a lock box, or at the bottom of her purse. It is always right there, within reach, always hanging there ready to be of service. I love the fact that she can unlock me any time she wants and that her not doing so is always her choice, not being dependent on whether it’s convenient or difficult to access the key.
sissydavenport
Locked sissy sub / spouse of Mistress Davenport
I agree with all of the above sentiments. It is critical that W/we are both wearing a reminder when I am in the chastity device. M. Davenport will admit, when I'm locked and She doesn't wear the key, it tends to slip Her mind (while it is impossible for me to forget). As for preference of key wearing, I like all of them, but a nice long silver necklace is both of O/our preference. Try a box chain or snake chain for ease of wear / durability / less hair tangling.
Madam Doesn't wear my actual key, she says it is bland, but she does have several key necklaces and chokers she wears a lot of the time, when we’re going out.
I agree that the idea of a belly chain while worshiping her pussy is super hot. For regular wear, a necklace that allows the key to nestle in her cleavage would be my preference. I can certainly see using a symbolic key, as the real ones don't have much visual appeal. But seeing such a key, on a woman in public, would be a special thrill.
Miss A always wears the key when I am locked, and is very willing to answer questions on the rare occasions that they are asked.
Neither of us has yet seen any other woman wearing a key.
Neither of us has yet seen any other woman wearing a key.
I have mentioned this before but I had a pendant made for my Wife / KH years ago. It consists of a thin silver circle, with an outline silver heart inside that and then a stylised, solid, silver keyhole inside that.
She wears it all the time, one a chain around her neck, sometime along sometimes with other necklaces / jewellery,and whether I'm locked or not. It often gets comments and people often ask 'what is it ?' She just tells them that I had it made for her because:'I hold the key to his heart'. No one has ever gone any further.
We are both 'mature' and have been at this for years. She sometimes wears the actual key around her neck and occasionally on an anklet - depends a bit on the key and lock
She wears it all the time, one a chain around her neck, sometime along sometimes with other necklaces / jewellery,and whether I'm locked or not. It often gets comments and people often ask 'what is it ?' She just tells them that I had it made for her because:'I hold the key to his heart'. No one has ever gone any further.
We are both 'mature' and have been at this for years. She sometimes wears the actual key around her neck and occasionally on an anklet - depends a bit on the key and lock
I prefer that she wears the key in a publically invisible place; on a necklace with the key hidden under her clothes.
It's our secret and I love it that way!
i love when Lady Kat wears " the key " or a gold / silver key charm on a necklace that is visible for all to see
I was under the impression that a key worn around the woman's neck was symbolic of having her man locked in chastity. But... Once that man had been cuckolded, the key was then worn with an ankle chain. I don't know why I hold that impression - but I was surprised no one else mentioned it, so perhaps it's my imagination?