Well today is January 10th.....

We're all different. I've averaged zero for three years now. I don't expect 2025 to be any different.

(But it's not like that's anything to be proud of, since the goal of me being in chastity is to focus my sexual desire on my Wife and use my libido to power me across the awkwardness/embarrassment/humiliation/trepidation gap to initiate sex with Her, and it doesn't. I think my sex drive is one-tenth what most men's are around here.)

So keeping the little bit of dopamine flowing that i can by staying denied is probably best for me.

Good luck with the reset!!
 
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Seems like a simple question, doesn't it? It's not. Well, to just answer it without any elaboration it's simple. 0. Actually 7 month 0. As a guy, I like to have a plan. Everything is planned. But I don't have a plan for an O. It's a debate in my brain. I want one. Real bad. More than one. I want one a day. On the other hand, I get a down from it which I don't want. We can't figure out whether I should or shouldn't. It'd be great if it were a game. I feel like the robot that spews smoke from it's head when faced with a question that it cannot answer.
 
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atxmtb said:
Seems like a simple question, doesn't it?
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I thought so when I thought of it yesterday, laying in bed, desperate AF
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It's not.
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I am realizing this

atxmtb said:
As a guy, I like to have a plan. Everything is planned.
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And isn't this one of our main issues/downfalls? Lack of spontaneity?
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But I don't have a plan for an O. It's a debate in my brain. I want one. Real bad. More than one. I want one a day. On the other hand, I get a down from it which I don't want. We can't figure out whether I should or shouldn't.
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See my most recent journal post ...the real quandary we face at times lol
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It'd be great if it were a game.
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But it's not, is it?
 
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Before the new year, I realized that I was starting to like the tension of being locked in a chastity all the time, with only occasional opportunities for relief. It gives me so many other sensations that are better than a few seconds of orgasm in a cage, and I miss the tension when the tension disappears after orgasm.

I want to talk to my Governess/KH about starting this year without the possibility of orgasm, only having the option of the occasional milking, which I want to try.
I know she would definitely be happy to take away my ability to orgasm, but I don't know if she would agree to milking and other things I'm curious about, because of the non-sexual nature of our relationship.

I wanted to talk to her about it the week before, when we talked about not having periodic breaks during our meetings. However, I didn't have the courage to talk about it because I was afraid that I might regret it after some time. However, I realized that at first I also regretted giving her the keys and control of my chastity, and now I think that despite the inconvenience, it was the best decision I made.

So today I'll dare to talk to her about it.
Keep your fingers crossed for me.
 
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denied_one said:
How many of you still average zero ejaculations for 2025, to start?
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This question confused my analytical brain at first. Since the denominator is 2025 = 1 year, the question could be phrased "How many of you still total zero ejaculations for the year?" since any number divided by one is equal to that number. Is that what you intended?

I'm still at zero and will probably remain that way for the foreseeable future unless my quarterback calls an audible!
 
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Zero since mrch 2023, and she hasn't used the key since October, so 12 weeks today.

Oh how I miss erections, but how full of glee she is, waaa.

We're also doing the "no touching each others junk" this month and she is like a little humpy puppy haha.
 
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Im sitting here, almost in pain from the pressure of the bars on my squashed cock, absolutely desperate to come,
and knowing thats not happening. Icant get out, i cant manipulate this cage to orgasm, and the wand is hidden away
Wife needs and wants myself totally chaste, for her its the only state now that is acceptable
So, no, no reset, just chastity.............probably for a very long time.
Usually chastity is a low level bubble, a nice frustration, but maybe today, the realisation that a full year at least lies ahead with no
release at all ...............ugg, think I have to go for a walk!
Blue balls, crushed cock, my oh my.........
 
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I have had One but i would say its more due to a late start for the new year. After the first, we had a sit down and renegotiated our chastity play and made a big step forward. I got a caged O more as a last hurrah or a beginning of the end. That was 5 days ago.
 
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I've had 0 orgasms in 2025 so far, and my last orgasm was November 10, more than 8 weeks ago. I was supposed to get an orgasm on my birthday in February but my wife thinks it should be carefully considered (she's an analyst and that's all I'll say). My wife believes we can't be serious about chastity play and orgasm denial and then have me get frequent O's. This is a serious push she's agreed to engage in for chastity and denial. My wife has finally warmed up to it.
 
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Anon Husband said:
I've had 0 orgasms in 2025 so far, and my last orgasm was November 10, more than 8 weeks ago. I was supposed to get an orgasm on my birthday in February but my wife thinks it should be carefully considered (she's an analyst and that's all I'll say). My wife believes we can't be serious about chastity play and orgasm denial and then have me get frequent O's. This is a serious push she's agreed to engage in for chastity and denial. My wife has finally warmed up to it.
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Daaaamn!!!! BCWYWF ground here!! Nice!!
 
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