What is something you wish you knew before starting with chastity?

[LoveIt]

The title says it all. Of course, I will start. For me is it:

- It's more addictive than it seems. Did not expect to crave the cage.
- Correct cage size is crucial. It makes the difference between sleeping well, feeling well on the next day and being productive during the day or sleep really bad, feel like zombie on the next day and not being able to do anything during the day.

May add if something else comes to mind.

What is your(s) something you wish you knew before starting with chastity?

 

[CuriousMR73]

The reality is much more real that you can fantasize in your fantasy.

The real experience has so much more dimensions of pleasure and denied pleasure, that you may be overwhelmed when your KH really takes controll of your sexual urges.

If you have a potential keyholder who loves you. Go for it and talk to her/him. It is time to make your fantasy reality and get flashed by the overwhelming experience of true denial.

 

[Jail Bird]

The love/hate of wearing a cage 24/7 The love overrides the hate.

 

[Servant2LadyDeath]

I wish i knew about chastity...

sooner.

that it was going to benefit my mental health like it has.

that denial is not just a river in Egypt, but it is something that feels so good despite what you at think before you try it.

that being locked up provides sustained pleasure, and not just a couple seconds worth.

that the pleasure has no refractory period, you are simply pleasured constantly.

that despite what the caging practice seems to some ask offbeat or deviant, it would be the thing that would give me serenity from my situation.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

That it would become an enduring rest of our lives thing that I'd lose a say in without major repercussions.

 

[denied_one]

That it would become an enduring rest of our lives thing that I'd lose a say in without major repercussions.

This...same exact thing.

That is the rest of my life and that I cannot "call it quits" without a pissed off Wife!

 

[SissySchoolChrissy]

I never thought it would be this addictive. I never thought I would crave smaller and smaller cages. I never thought it would open up my sexual horizons. I never thought it would make me enjoy the sexual pleasure of others as much if not more than my own

 

[sissymaid_dulcie]

how much time and trouble it took to find the right sized and secure device.
how much better a companion i would ultimately become
explainng this, and explaining my being a sissymaid

 

[Mr_anonymous]

This...same exact thing.

That is the rest of my life and that I cannot "call it quits" without a pissed off Wife!

Do me the favor of not replying to me or being on my posts. While you're so immature to be on the second edit of my name. Thanks.

 

[denied_one]

Do me the favor of not replying to me or being on my posts. While you're so immature to be on the second edit of my name. Thanks.

Well since Ive heard similiar, "You can't tell me what to do"

"You aren't the posting police" etc .

I will respectfully do whatever I want within the bounds of the rules of the site.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

Well since Ive heard similiar, "You can't tell me what to do"

"You aren't the posting police" etc .

I will respectfully do whatever I want within the bounds of the rules of the site.

That's fine just do it publicly for all to see how you really and not in my mail. I realize you lack the maturity to help yourself.

 

[denied_one]

That's fine just do it publicly for all to see how you really and not in my mail. I realize you lack the maturity to help yourself.

Said the pot to the kettle

 

[Kiesela]

i never expected that after being locked for a while i would have a need to crossdress, like an overwhelming urge.
I's no longer just for fun for an hour or two once every couple of months.
It's changed the way I live.

Hadn't expected that!

 

[Mr_anonymous]

Said the pot to the kettle

I'm always me, certainly don't mail people at all, much less acting one way in mail and another in public. I also don't bring wives and kids into things vainly trying to get a reaction. I won't feed your immature emotional nonsense anymore however. Life would just be much easier if you quit trying to act like you didnt say some horrible things in private. Then attempt to befriend me in public. Don't be two faced.

 

[Kiesela]

I'm always me, certainly don't mail people at all, much less acting one way in mail and another in public. I also don't bring wives and kids into things vainly trying to get a reaction. I won't feed your immature emotional nonsense anymore however. Life would just be much easier if you quit trying to act like you didnt say some horrible things in private. Then attempt to befriend me in public. Don't be two faced.

Ok I don't know about anyone else but I would certainly feel much happier if you kept this sort of thing in private between you and whoever is irritating you rather than venting it in public and spoiling peoples enjoyment of this lovely website.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

Ok I don't know about anyone else but I would certainly feel much happier if you kept this sort of thing in private between you and whoever is irritating you rather than venting it in public and spoiling peoples enjoyment of this lovely website.

I didn't reply to me starting this nonsense. Take that up elsewhere.

 

[cogman]

Stop it, your like two cats hanging by their tails on a clothesline.

For me it’s the compulsion to be locked, I never anticipated how much I needed it to be part of my life. Very fortunate to have a partner who for the most part keeps me locked. I wish she was more strict and then again I don’t wish too hard lololo

 

[denied_one]

Ok I don't know about anyone else but I would certainly feel much happier if you kept this sort of thing in private between you and whoever is irritating you rather than venting it in public and spoiling peoples enjoyment of this lovely website.

I'm so sorry for all of that

 

[Locked_Koala]

How much effort it takes to find a good fitting cage. And then, even after finding a “good” fitting cage, how much you’ll wonder if there’s a better fit out there

 

[tightlockup]

I wish I had known that I was going to need a custom device to fit my anatomy.

 

[IB-Chaste]

that it was going to benefit my mental health like it has

That it would become an enduring rest of our lives thing that I'd lose a say in without major repercussions.

For me it’s the compulsion to be locked, I never anticipated how much I needed it to be part of my life.

Mostly, I wish I knew not to convolute being caged with all my other kinks.
Over time, my wife has taken to it in her own way… and her way is better than I had planned out.

 

[Existential]

i never expected that after being locked for a while i would have a need to crossdress, like an overwhelming urge.
I's no longer just for fun for an hour or two once every couple of months.
It's changed the way I live.

Hadn't expected that!

Same here. I want to buy stockings, suspender belt, crotchless tights, suspender tights so much it's killing me. I really want to be a sissy in a lot of ways. I think this has been in me my whole life it's only now coming out accentuated by the cage.

 

[Kiesela]

Same here. I want to buy stockings, suspender belt, crotchless tights, suspender tights so much it's killing me. I really want to be a sissy in a lot of ways. I think this has been in me my whole life it's only now coming out accentuated by the cage.

Yes the cage can bring all your femme side out if youre that way inclined.
Like a seed in you thats been buried and kept on the dark has sprouted and is flowering in the light.
Thoughts start to be all connected together by emotions too.

I don't think i will every be a sissy though. I hate pink stuff, frills, lisps and giggles, Ugh.

Give me a sharp looking pencil skirt suit and some patent slingbacks any day!

 

[tiny69]

The love/hate of wearing a cage 24/7 The love overrides the hate.

So it’s not just me that hates wearing the cage and moving around and suit pants that seem to not flow with you??

 

[Existential]

Yes the cage can bring all your femme side out if youre that way inclined.
Like a seed in you thats been buried and kept on the dark has sprouted and is flowering in the light.
Thoughts start to be all connected together by emotions too.

I don't think i will every be a sissy though. I hate pink stuff, frills, lisps and giggles, Ugh.

Give me a sharp looking pencil skirt suit and some patent slingbacks any day!

Yes same here i'll never be a full on sissy but want to wear lingerie stockings suspender belts to feel sexually alluring to men.