What is your reason for chastity? What is your kink?

[PornAddict103]

I have always been interested in hearing the reasons for chastity.
I heard many:
Dominance, castration, feminization, sissification, devotion.
What is your reason for chastity?

I self lock... My original reason to start chastity was to stop jerking off all the time (literally, all the time) and be more productive, but it soon turned into a Tease & Denial fetish that I just couldn't get enough of. Today, self-teasing and self-denial has become an obsession for me, but I'm enjoying every moment of it and I'm having the time of my life. I like to try new things and document how my "experiments" play out for others to read about and hopefully encourage them to have fun with their own chastity journeys.

 

[stevie stevens]

It's my need to be ultra submissive and feminized as a sissy housewife and to have my tiny penis totally ignored.

 

[cogman]

Truth is if I asked my partner if I could stop wearing it I doubt she would worry too much, we haven't had a break from it for years now but its usually me that initiates being locked again. I think us men obsess over it far more than our female partners, but its a simple fact of how we are built.

In some respects its sad to think I have to lock my dick in a cage to help not masturbate. But the result is that it does keep me focused on her and only having on average one orgasm per week instead of sometimes 50, that one orgasm is pretty toe curling. She does recognize it helps keep me focused on her that said I would still love her just as much if she decided she didn't want me wearing it, but id probably start sliding back into bad habits.

This may be the first year where I will orgasm roughly the same amount of times as she does. Presently I think I am 2 in front but I am sure she will deny me at least a few times before the end of the year. I used to habitually (with permission) have a stroke or a quicky the morning after we have sex, this year I have chosen to give that up, but she didn't ask me too, I have set myself a target of her having more Os than me this year.

Interesting how things change over the course of a year (even after more than 10 years of chastity).

Until November 2024 I ended up blowing up the Idea of her having the same number as orgasms as her...being free for our weekend was far far too tempting.

As of November last year the cage has gone back on immediately after use. it has made a difference to us in a positive way, I feel far more devotional, although its actually very hard only having one toe curling orgasm per week, and lately she has been hinting my regular orgasm may be with held soon.

And the other change is .....I do now think my partner would not want me to stop wearing it....somehow its replacement straight away has integrated more fully into our lives...she NEVER forgets to close the key lock.

So the over all reasons remain but I think for me, I enjoy the feeling of being devoted to my partner and she enjoys the devotion.

 

[Rand]

I like the idea that my wife is in control, that I need her permission to orgasm, to have pleasure, even to get hard.
At that point, after 8 months in cage, I would probably be able to control myself and not masturbate anymore even without the cage, but I would miss that feeling of power exchange that goes with being locked.

 

[pokekey]

Free-floating vengeance: It took until about five years after becoming sexually active before I had my first-ever orgasm (vibrator) and another five before I had one during partner sex (oral). Even afterwards, sex would normally end with my male partner having orgasmed and leaving me high and dry. I am not above admitting that I would like someone to stand-in for payback.

When I imagine reasons that M may keep me in chastity, this is one of them. I think a common experience for many woman. So I imagine that M is just punishing me for all male inattentiveness to female sexual satisfaction by keeping me unsatisfied.

 

[Lancerexford]

Good idea. Me too... and I love it because I remember taking out on her all the things women have done to me. And I remember how important it was for my victim to be my ally. Now I am her ally in taking out her revenge on me.