My path to chastity

NOthing specifi; I was contemplating doing it anyway and interesting conversation with her helped push me over the edge and actually do it.

 

I wouldn't say I need to be locked; its more of a game to me than a lifestyle issue. A potentially long term game; I've done a month before and am curious about doing longer even up to a year but its still ultimately a game to me.

 

Well that came setup about as I moved away from my partner so was just exploring online (with her permission). Unfortuantely the dynamic you are quoting did not work out. The Domme who acted as my KH was unreliable and unimaginative; it really didn't work for me. So I'm back to self locking now with a little encouragement to stay locked/keep going/ be a better person from some Dommes I know but they are not KHing for me just offering friendly encouragment.

 

I haven't tried one; I have thought about it before. The problem for me is that I do need the cage of for exercise (which I am trying to do everyday). The time of day I do that isn't always fixed so not sure it would work. (And yes I really do need it off for exercise; it is too heavy to run with and physically can not be worn when I go rowing.)

What was the attachment about Joro?

 

No problem. Anyway I know its hardly been on long yet but all good so far. I've also been using a site called writeforme.org to help me feel good about being in chastity; it makes you type out lines that can be setup by anyone who has an account. I've been using the following users tasks as encouragment:

https://writeforme.org/user.php?userID=1602

Shes been very helpful and replied when I completed tasks and comented on them saying she was pleased with my progress which helps. Never thought I'd find writing lines enjoyable or erotic!

 

Interesting, might use it is I ever had a specific KH who just wanted to set private tasks.
The other one I rather enjoyed was this:
https://writeforme.org/writingtask.php?task=9376
Though it did leave me with a very sore bum.

 

Well unfortunately I've had to declare my current cage unfit for use; it's and iron one which was plated chrome and it is rusting and the plating ifs flacking so its not safe to wear any-more. Will have to continue my current denial sans cage. On a more positive note I have ordered a replacement (though it may take a little while to get here) and also because I'm clearly mad a KTB (something saying about curiosity and cats comes to mind.)

 

We'll see; I went cheap again this time because I can't really afford a custom one yet but if this one doesn't work out I will get a custom one that can be 24/7/365 next time.

 

So chastity without a cage and I do not mix. Will restart the denial when I get my new cages.

 

My cages have arrived (and I already hate the KTB I got).
So here is the new plan; tomorrow I start a three week lock up and I made a deal with a keyholder (not mine) to make two guys also go three weeks who normally only do one week or so at a time. Taking one for the team to show some boys what a proper stint of denial beyond the two week mark is like. Hopefully they will show some good behavioural changes after that turning point.
(Oh and the KTB is being kept for punishment only, I have a normal cage for everyday wear).

 

My girlfriends best friend is acting as my KH. She has a dominant side which my gf does not so when I get locked up she usually acts as keyholder or co-keyholder with my gf.

 

No they are not. They're not interested in joining either, this is more my place to chat and explore chastity with others. Its a far bigger fetish for me than it is for either of them.

 

Why Joro? Were you planning to whisper nasty ideas in her ear?