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    am pretty new to the chastity lifestyle, and I would like to get my wife more enthused about it. Anyone know of a site or blog for beginners that won't scare her to death.
     
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    A good resource might be http://brassiered.com/chastity.html The site is dedicated to men who are feminized, sissified, locked up and otherwise controlled by women. There are some good articles on there and even a couple of downloadable books that you might use for starters. Preview the site for yourself before referring her. Once again, "Be careful what you ask for!"
     
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    Thank you, i checked out the site, I think it will help.
     
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    @sd9967

    I would just suggest that you get an idea of what your wife might think of you in her knickers first.

    A lot of wives and GF s have a lot of trouble dealing with the man in their lives suddenly wearing knickers and heels .
    If they have suggested it cool but some will definitely free eeeeekkkk !

    Xx Wendy
     
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    When my wife and I first discussed my interests, she misunderstood and thought that I was either leaving her or was gay or wanted to transition. Once she learned that it was all about my submission to her and that she would be in total control, her attitude changed rather quickly. But those first discussions were pretty emotional and difficult. Tread slowly!
     
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    Thanks, I will.
     
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    I would recommend one that's not infested with locked dick avatars.
     
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    It's quite offputting, not to mention boring.
     
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    depends on what your looking to educate your wife on. IMO most sites that educate women on chastity tend to go bonkers into some wild kinky fetishes such as sissy, maid, cuckold and the like. If you dont think she would be interested in such things or you are not interested in those either then you may have a hard time finding some real vanilla info on chastity. Malechastityblog.com is the most vanilla I have seen, maybe start there.
     
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    Hi I think your wife will find all the info she needs here.
    However I would say be careful when you look at recent activity
    There may be pictures that have been liked in the gallery.
    It's all here for you all you have to do is choose the content that suits you.
    There are some locked dick avatars. I don't really like them however that's freedom of choice I'm afriad.
    Welcome to CM I hope you find what you are looking for here.
     
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    Now that's confusing.
     
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    The op was asking advice about blogs or other sites where the content would not scare his wife half to death.

    It was recommended he found one not infested with locked dick avatars.

    There a locked dick avatars on CM I would not say it’s infested with them.

    I suggested the op and his wife could find all they need here.

    I also warned if you look at recent activity there could be pictures there that members have liked in gallery.

    Why would we want to send a new member to another site?

    Chastity Mansion is by far the best chastity site on the internet.
     
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    I only read that you didn't like locked-dick avatars, but it looked like your avatar was such. That's all. Sorry for adding any confusion.
     
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    Hi I fouNd that using the FLM sites helped my goddess get into this. As these are targeted at an FLM relationship which includes chastity rather than focussing on just the chastity element. There are primer area's which I showed her then let her research things herself. If you just want chastity without FLM then this probably will not work though.

    I am now in week 4 of a twelve week minimum lockdown at the start of our agreed FLM relationship. So this did work for us.
    http://www.aboutflr.com/What-Is-FLR.html
     
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