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    #26 tom1980, Oct 4, 2014
    ]My kh has started her period but did say earlier she would give me some pleasure with her hand as I've been good but I'm only 4 days in again I don't really want to cum yet, when she's wanking me off should I ask her tease me by bringing me to the edge then stop before I cum or should i let her do what she wants I know this is all about what she wants, but I thought it may be a great opportunity for her to have a taste of teasing me?
     
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    #27 BlueEyes, Oct 4, 2014
    I used to have a saying "That sometimes FLR needs a little helping hand to blossom to its full potential"
    Well... those days are over. "You know - it is up to me to decide", - has become her favorite phrase in all decisionmaking in our relationship - in case I forget.
    And that is by no means limited to the sex and to the bedroom. It is in ALL affairs, - and I love her for taking on this burden.
    Yes, maybe "it is good to be the king" - they say, but it is a huge an demanding responsibility to be the queen :) She manage oh so well, and she is always fair in her judgements. Yes she has blossomed so much:)
     
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    #28 tom1980, Oct 5, 2014
    Wow you sound like a lucky guy, i am pleased for you and also jealous :) how long do you think this change took to occur in your wife/kh was it months or years?
     
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    #29 BlueEyes, Oct 5, 2014
    Well. I introduced her to chastity last year in May, and it took almost a full year to reach at this level. But it was steady rise with very few bumps along the way. When she finally demanded permanent denial - I took it as a sign of her final embrace of the lifestyle...
    I just love her for being in command:)
     
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    #30 Slave to Wife, Oct 6, 2014
    I shouldn't be giving advice. My keyholder wife decided last night, while being angry about other things such as our day care provider quitting, that she doesn't want to have a chastity relationship anymore. She threw my keys at me when I politely asked her to calm down. I think she was taking her frustrations about other things out on me and not in a constructive, sexy way at all. It sucks. Now I am out of chastity but have not ejaculated. Still horny. Planning to save it.
     
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    #31 jemima, Oct 6, 2014
    @Slave to Wife don't be sad please, cos Ladies do that sometimes and it cos they angry for a bit.
     
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    #32 tom1980, Oct 6, 2014
    Yeah don't panic too much, I'm sure she will come around, she probably just wanted to hit you where it hurt, if I was you Id try not to bring it up for now and see if she does, my partner says things to me she doesn't mean when she's angry, sometimes takes a day or so for an apology to come my way, just bring it up again in a few days, i can imagine how frustrating it feels for you being faced with this. Hope she changes her mind
     
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    #33 Slave to Wife, Oct 6, 2014
    She has calmed down but says she is lying to herself when she says she likes the chastity. So I don't know where we go next. I will find out tonight. If I am to be out if chastity, I hope she wants to fuck a lot because I am not wanting to go back to jacking off all the time. Chastity combined her low libido with my desire for slavery and being dominated quite well. But if I am to be out and not dominated, I need and crave pussy. It is like pussy either needs to control me or just let me fuck it, no in between kind of maybe but probably not but sort of yes ok though wait no I dunno bullshit.
     
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    #34 Slave to Wife, Oct 6, 2014
    Jemina: You are a saint. Thank you. And nice legs.
     
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    #35 I LOVE my Choice!, Oct 7, 2014
    Just signed contract with my wife... I am never to ask for sex.

    That's the way she wants it and it makes our chastity relationship work for us both!

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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    #36 tom1980, Oct 7, 2014
    Sounds like a fun idea, are you still allowed to come on to her without asking. Or does she have to initiate anything sexual?
     
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    #37 BlueEyes, Oct 7, 2014
    Welcome onboard! - She demanded that some time back, and it was hard in the beginning, but now being on permeant denial, makes it so much easier... Still she makes good use of me:) I feel lucky.
     
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    #38 I LOVE my Choice!, Oct 7, 2014
    Hey buddy!

    The contract says I am never to ask for sex....

    I can be affectionate and loving and anything along those lines.... I can try and seduce her with any means possible!!!

    But I can never ask for sex. If my wife wants it... she'll take it!!!

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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    #39 thundar, Oct 7, 2014
    Hey J. Hope it all works out for you. (Don't worry, get the magic size jewelry you know where and she will ask you)
     
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    #40 I LOVE my Choice!, Oct 7, 2014
    Ah my friend..... you KNOW I already have it!!!! :D

    For you - I offer my ABSOLUTE kindest regards! ;)

    J.
     
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    #41 tom1980, Oct 7, 2014
    This sounds like a great idea, i will ask my kh if she would like to try this, hopefully she will be up for it
     
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    #42 kkeeiitthh, Oct 25, 2014
    My wife loves when I ask things like that. Even if the answer is no, it excites us both
     
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    #43 mikeDsub, Oct 25, 2014
    I am not allowed to even mention sex except in an email. See my post about our rules. Apparently it annoys my wife but long ago, even before chastity, we followed some popular advice for busy couples and made dates for sex each week and have been doing that for a few years now. We were always finding excuses not to get together for sex and then masturbating instead, so this date thing worked well for us. I think we heard it on a Dr. Phil show.
     
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