That is very hot and Im sure you will get your intended result. My wife and I have just started dabbling in spanking and I posted pics from our first time. It hurt so bad and I scampered away but found it made me so submissive and horny after that it blew my mind. Good luck!The spanking schedule, when I get it established, will be more of just routine spankings to keep @Nicoftime in his subby mood, to reinforce my role, and to keep him on his toes. Punishment spankings will be indicated on the calendar too, but those are meant to hurt much more so than the maintenance spankings.
I get 10 maintenance spankings a night with my leather belt.
I think the cane is the only thing I really fear.I enjoy the leather belt. When being punished she brings out the canes. Now those I hate! Talk about stinging!
Harder beatings of course! LolThe only problem I see with that is............ when you actually do something that is against the rules and have annoyed your KH. What is left to punish you ??? More beatings ??
Damn, thats rough manLast night was no maintenance spank, 65 swats and I have a sore red bottom.
Then after I playfully gave her a swat on the butt with my hand, which didn't have the result I wanted...20 more for me!
Monthly visitor is here so wasn't able to play, which sucks because she is always super turned on after giving me a spanking.
So the lesson is, maid service is important to her, so it's important to me. Will try to do better and not blow it off.
I am going through the same situation as I type. My wife had me give it to her this morning and lately since starting the whole chastity thing I almost with absolute certainty cannot make her orgasm with my dick unless I orgasm at the same time. She must have been sleepy, generous, or frustrated and just wanted what she wanted so she told me to cum in her and make her cum too.Well my orgasm came and went pun intended. During my morning worship, she allowed me inside her while she held the wand on her clit.
I hadn't had an orgasm in 28 days and didn't take long before I had to stop. I got out a nice big dildo and used that instead for awhile. After her O, she allowed me in her again. I was at the edge immediately. I told her I had to stop or I would cum, she said I could and came immediately. It was so intense it almost hurt.
Was getting time to get ready for work so I snuck out of clean up duty( thank god cause it would have been a lot). She said after we were up I forgot something...I was like ummm you're gonna have to say something, I need to be told or I'll wriggle out of it and gave her a wink. She then handed me my cage and I said "well you didn't forget the cage did you?" " nope" and then she gave a big smile. I locked back up and went to work.
Spent most of the day in a post orgasmic funk. I've never really experienced it before. Being super horny and on edge for 28 days and then when it's over, I didn't know what to even think about. I didn't send her texts or pics from tumblr, wasn't horny, so nothing really to report. This did not go over well with mistress. Later that night she asked about it again, and again I said that I had just cum so wasn't thinking about it all day like usual. She then said:
Her- maybe you won't get to any more.
i smiled and gave her a squeeze
Her- I'm not kidding, what do you think about that?
I just gave her a yeah right look.
Her- keep smiling, you nervous? You don't have a say anymore
I said I know and gave her another squeeze.
So it might be awhile before she lets me finish again, wish I had some more fun with it before it was locked up again.
Side note, finally got to get hard with new ring, didn't get to see it, it was dark and then I recaged after. She said she really liked it and didn't scratch her. It felt heavy and noticeable to me. I like it a lot.
You've lost that subby feeling...whoa, whoa whoa No more cumming for a very long time
She sent me that text, so who knows.
Wow Nic....that is one hell of a dream buddy!! Could be the boundries being pushed for sure. Our brains are very tricky little bastards sometimes!!It must have something to do with the the 3 week mark that gives me erotic dreams. Vivid dreams that I can remember in detail. Sometimes it takes me a moment to figure out if it happened or not.
This morning I didn't know what to wear... my dream was so real that I had to think back for ten minutes.
My dream revolved around my current hormone problem, chastity, and mistress being very dominant. She told me that from now on she thought of me as a girl since I have breasts and a small penis. I needed to look like one, so I must always wear women's clothes at home.
She then told me that there is no need for me to ever have a full orgasm again. She still loved me dearly but would find a sexual partner that could fulfill her needs since she was not attracted to females. She said we were going to be so happy together, and I would eventually be allowed to help her suck her new boyfriend. She then showed me all my new clothes and how to put on makeup. Then I'm not sure how we got there but we were in a club, flirting with some guy, and asked him if we could suck him off in the bathroom. We did and she took a picture. At home she said that from now on I will do exactly as I was told or that picture would be all over town. I then woke up.
I ran to the mirror, my hair was still short and my breasts were the same. It didn't happen and I was so relieved. This dream was so weird because I really wouldn't want any of it to happen.
1. I have given her control but I would be disappointed to learn that I would never have a real orgasm.
2. Wearing women's clothes ALL the time would be impractical. I of course would wear anything she wanted me to, and is probably the one I could live with most about my dream.
3. Her having a boyfriend...neither one of us is into cucking or want to pursue it...I have told her that if I ever couldn't give her sexual fulfillment I would be open to exploring options. Certainly not looking for it though.
4. Being with another man is not a fantasy of mine. I can see the beauty in one, but have never had the urge to be with one. If she asked me to do something sexual with one I suppose I would, there would be no romantic attraction just a sexual deed. But still nothing I would seek out or feel compelled to ever do.
5. The blackmail. I know I don't want to be forced that hard into doing anything. Maybe playful teasing about it or idle threats, but real life blackmail would be scary and mean.
So basically the whole dream is something I don't want, yet it seemed like an erotic dream.
Last time it went this long my dreams were pretty out there too, maybe subconsciously I just want to push boundaries and submit to things I don't really want to.
Anyway, was just a weird dream, I'm sure they will get less weird over time.
Wow Nic....that is one hell of a dream buddy!! Could be the boundries being pushed for sure. Our brains are very tricky little bastards sometimes!!
I also am closing in on 3 weeks and was dreaming about our yet unborn child and although it was not a sexual dream it was very vivid and crazy. At the end of the dream when I finally got to hold her after she had been missing she was handed to me and she was an apple. I was totally confused and could only see two eyes and a worm hole. I kept asking why is she an apple now? And if that blemish would remain when she grew older. Made no sense but I think it's my brain trying to reconcile all the backed up energy somehow. I don't know. It's all wacky!