decided to share my experience going forward in this new lifestyle. Dated for 5 months and decided to tell her about my submissive side. She isn't very Somme so I figured I had just ruined everything. And although she said she was nervous about not knowing what to do how to it, she would give it a try. Fast forward a month and she is sending me pictures of her key around her neck, making suggestive comments, using the dialog we all crave(you can't cum, etc), all and all swimming like a fish with it. Even bought a strap on to fuck her with when I can't(can't wait till she sees it she will love it). Last night she said I created a monster, and said she spent all day reading blogs with dominant females for some ideas. She said she had one and it wasn't on my list of no's. I have a few boundaries. 1. I don't want to be physically injured , so no ball stomping or cuts etc. 2. I am not into potty/diapers etc. 3. I don't want to be a servant butler or chores person. I do my fair share and then some, I just don't get off on it. 4. Not into cuckolding. Don't think watching her get railed by another while I sat and watched would be fun. I didn't tell her I wouldn't be opposed to 3 way but I would need to be involved. 5. She isn't into humiliation or degrading me. I don't mind playful teasing about size, or anything else, but it has to be fun and honest, not just mean for mean sake. So I am looking forward to our next meeting. Every week I am with my son for 3 nights and away from each other. Told her I bought a new lock and key. Didn't want it to be ordinary so I made a pendant. Bought 2 heart pendants and soldered them together. Sanded and polished it to look antique, and hope she likes it. Started this because I looked so hard on the Internet to find some people that were like minded, but every time I found something similar it turned into a maid service, caning, cuck, or permenant denial blog. We are just starting and not sure where she will take it, but pretty sure she is not going there, and is still excited over it.