New here. My wife and I started playing with chastity and BDSM. Now she asked for permission for a boyfriend while I'm away. I agreed to it with very few limits. I just want her happy, and it's a turn on that she is sexually active and desired by others
Basically only safe sex. Mostly for her safety. STD's I'm worried about. Not a friend or known person to us or friends. Only when I'm away on job. And I begged her not to find someone that she will leave me for. This of cause we never know. But she should try just make it for the sex and attention. Not for relationship.
This topic is not easy.. it exposes my insecurities and shortcomings.. while i am contented and accept my wife as the leader of the household.. there are inevitably boundaries being pushed in some areas and others retreated.. that my sexual ability has been inhibited by chastity.. it should not impede the sexual exploration of the wife..and if by design im unable to satisfy the wife with the male organ.. wouldnt be unfair for her to derive pleasure from oral alone..? If she yearns for penile satisfaction.. am i overbearing and quick in unleashing the typical male ego in restricting her freedom…? When all this moment she has been sacrificing her oppurtunity as a home maker and earning a living instead for the family… as circumstances dictate..