An open door

I didn't wash myself for three days down there. The scent is incredible. I told him to lay to the ground. I sat on his face, reverse cowgirl, so I had my ass on his face but not the front shield of my chastity cage. I covered this with a blanket to concentrate his aroma therapy.

I stroked our erect penis. I told him that he has to decide right now. He could either go outside, get our penis flacid with a lot of snow, get caged and I will come out of my belt and go to shower and we will go to bed early or he will follow all my orders till midnight, I will joyfully push his boundaries and he will get a full orgasm.

Do you need to guess, which option he took?.

I bound him to the bed in spreadeagle. I sat on his face again in reverse, offering his my ass. He licked me and I edged his cock When I was close to orgasm I withdrew, I told him that it should take longer and be a bit cruell for both of us.

I brought him to the edge often, he really seem to be able to control it to a certain amount. But I took him over the edge. It seemed that it was a bit cruel to him. Just one drop of sperm came out of him. I took it with the index finger, turned towards him and said, never forget to recycle. He licked it clean.

I put togehter some things I would need later and went back on him. I lubed our penis and put a lubed finger into my ass, direct in front of his face. I put another pillow under his head to give him a better view. Next I sat down with my ass on the boner, reverse cowgirl, giving him a good view.

Just care about your own, I told him. I gave him fast strokes, full length. He was ready to come soon. He tried to fight his cuffs and got a strong orgasm. I kept moving unitl he seemed to be done.

I crawled backwards. What did I say about recycling? I asked him. Open your mouth wide and keep it open, otherwise I will punish your balls. That seemed to overwhelm him, I hit his balls to motivate him. It made some dirty noisess to press out the cum. Now shut your mouth and swallow.

I stood up and got him some orange juice from my mouth. I am proud of you Honey.

I started to clean our penis, it was almost soft meanwhile, just took a bit of snow to make him completely soft. I took the necklace from his neck, swapped the keys, locked him and took it around my neck. I unlocked my belt and sat on his face again, this time facing each other. Now it's your turn to give me an orgasm, I told him and he started to lick my smelly pussy. I grabbed behind me there was an erection again, fithting against the cage. He was licking for his life and I came soon. Well done, now it might be your turn again, I said. I untied his feet and bound them up into the air, to the head side of the bed.

I took on my Nexus senior and he understood that it was pegging time. I entered him and he seemed to like it. But we both knew that we were approaching a strange situation. We trained him to a strange way of pegging orgasms, he get's a full boner and an ejaculation at orgasm. We do this at release dates. But with all heat meat packeged in a tiny tube, he gets completely blocked and an orgasm would be very painfull for him. He asked me not to do this to him.

Okay Honey. Just hold the Nexus with your butt, hold it tight. I will try to bounce my clit against the inner part. I will do this until I get to orgam. Maybe I will be faster than you. So I rather fucked myself than him with the toy and finished first.

It was time to get both of us showered. When we returned to bed I asked him for missionarry with his strapon. We went slowly and both had the same idea. I came at midnight.

Happy birthday, he told me and kissed me.

We spooned and I asked him to remain inside me and cover my pussy with his hand and fell asleep.

 

Thanks a lot.

 

He invited me to dinner at the Olympic tower.

 

You are thinking about an "cross contamination" via his mouth?
I must admit, I didn't consider this?

 

We had a lovely dinner yesterday and a long good talk.
Exactly one year ago, there was the Lovense binge buying event.

We didn't took a taxi on our way home. We bought a bottle champagne to go and went home, took an hour at -7 °C. We had a lot to talk about.

We are on a road together, that we both like, but we are uncertain about the future.
Our chastity schedule works for both of us but we both admit that we want to go a bit further.
We consider ourself on eye level and being vanilla but farting him his own cum into his mouth and swallowing it seems very BDSM to us, each letter was represented.
Our Halloween event wasn't vanilla either.

At home we went to bed and had a Lovense toy party like on my last birthday. But this year he was in chastity.

 

OMG. There is an elefant in the room.
Last night was intense, I hardly couldn't sleep.
I found some advise here, that Ms Elle X might be helpful for us. So we watched some of her videos together yesterday and learnt something about it and ourselves.

My kink involves numbers, counting and the beauty of math.
Tomorrow will be "Male Chastity Day" my sister sent me a reminder about it. But I think, most of us are familiar with a month of chastity.
Valentine's day will be the last day of carnival, followed by fastening period but the more important issue is that it will be a release date at our calendar as well. I didn't have had this in mind, when I started our program almost ten months ago.
I wonder if there might be some kind of an erotic carnival ball to attend.
But there is a much more important thing first. We agrred on a trial month of soft dominance. But now my head is rotating, because I will have to lead the whole thing without making us silly.

But I must admit, I am excited.

 

Husband rerturned from an hour of running, around -10°C outside.
I have rerely seen such a tiny penis. His tube is 65 mm long and usually completely filled. but now, there was a tiny worm imside just pulled in front by the frenum piercing. There was much space around it and it became so tiny that the foreskin flipped over the corona.
I told him to bring it back with Q-tips, I won't unlock it for such reasons.

 

So he did, he will need a second sock.

 

We talked a lot about our idea of a test month.
We know each other for ten years but it took all of our courage to admit that I enjoy to dominate him nd he enjoys to submit to me.
He said that I did a lot of work, pampering him into chastity during the last months. I agree.

I didn't dare to decide about his lockup duration initially. That's why I choosed a schedule and meanwhile we both love this method. I don't want to deny but to control his orgasms, what is more controlling than a schedule? And to him it provides some safety not to be denied permanently.
Additionally we both know that begging or bargaining is flutile this way.

We talked about mutual trust and I assured him that love him for providing me so many things I enjoy and he might have to sacrifise.

We agreed that the purpose of our next month shall be that he focusses on my needs. That shall be understood hollistically, from household chores up to sexual services. He is thrilled as well.
We want to play this seriously, not as a funny game but as an honest attempt to improove our relashionship.

These basic rules will become effective beyond the night to Sunday.

1. Rule: Our bed is a save space. No rules apply here. Everybody may talk (or is even expected to do so) about any topic freely, without jugement.
2. Rule: Outside the bed he will address me as „Herrin“ translates to „Mistress“ and use formal personal pronouns. (It does not translate to English, but „You“ comes in the familiar way of „Du“ and in the formal way of „Sie“) This applies at home but he may extend this to any place, he feels save about it.
3. He must not look at me directly.
4. He has to follow my wishes obediently.
5. He may use a safeword to escape situations. But I expect him to be serious about it. We will break at this point and discuss this later in bed. The saveword is „Palimpsest“.

If anybody knew the meaning of this word in advance, she/he may suggest a talk for him.
It is some funny fetish of the both of us, to know words that's meaning is unknown to most. E. g. Cryptodepression or Moralabfuhr.

A thousand gear wheels are turning inside my head to make this month an impression.

 

That's a nice one.
Since you are already in the topic, I want to offer "Kletzenbeni".

 

We didn't start this today. Finally it felt too artificial to us.

 

We are trying to advance it slower.
From now on he is responsibe that our bed is always made in good condition. We have been lazy about this.
But I must admit, I do not he him doing the whole household by himself, naked, fully shaven and in a maid dress.
At least not yet.

 

I have the pussy, so I make the rules. But it felt artificial to us.

Yesterday at night at our bed we agreed to try to work on our mutual trust. Little secrets, fear of being ashamed or judged, We do not want to talk to infinity. But for the next five days we agreed, that each day, each of us will sugest a specific topic to talk about in bed.