How do you start a chastity lockup? Relieved or Horny?

I find im much more receptive to lockup if im horny, I really struggle to go back in to lockup for a few hours after release, I used to be allowed to wait until the next day but I abused that luxury so I have to go back in pretty soon after and I dont like it lol

 

I generally don't mind going back in the cage horny or if I just got off. I'm rarely told I can wait till next morning after I'm let out to get off to recage. Normally it's ok you know what to do. Clean up and put your cage on. My default has become caged so guess it's just become a non issue putting it on whenever.

 

I really struggle to recage after the post nut drop for a good few hours, requested that she is much stricter with me

 

I was let out for 24 hours for my birthday near end of December. No cage and get off all I want. I kinda struggled putting it back on next day. Otherwise guess I'm just trained mentally to do it. I feel like I spent longer not in it be way harder put it back on.

 

I am just trained to immediately lock back up after I am allowed to be released for an orgasm. After the erection is gone. Beens Mistress keeps me horny as much as possible I would say I’d rather be locked up horny. Keeping me horny keeps Mistress satisfied and both of us happy.

 

Usually being caged right after release doesn't have any noticeable effect on me, so after release I leave the cage off until I get out of the shower and dry off later the same evening and then I put it back on. I literally cannot wait until the next morning to put the cage back on, because I'll be tempted to wank one off before re-locking myself, because lately I noticed I'm alot more sexually active in the morning than in the evening. Hell if I know why... It was the opposite when I was in my 20's and 30's, but now I'm in my 40's so some things kinda flipped around for me physiologically.

 

In a way the post nut drop stops me trying to get myself off in the cage as I know I would be miserable for hours afterwards

 

I came in my cage 3 times in the past 2 months (not intentionally, I swear) and it made my pelvis sore for a few days every time, so I try to avoid it best I can. If I cum out of my cage after being locked up a few weeks, it really drains me, so I wait until my next day off if I'm due for release.

 

It starts when she says to put your cage on. Horny or not.

 

Yeah thats right but sometimes if I grumble I get a bit longer free but shes starting to get stricter and I need to learn to be a better sub!

 

We all need to be better subs!

We have rules here about grumbling, asking to have my cage removed etc. I just put it back on and wait for her to put her security tag on me. Sometimes I don't like it or don't want to go back in but, this is the lifestyle I begged her for.

 

Well spoken.

 

Usually horny and well-edged.

 

Usually very horny ,kh keeps me on the edge ,if i had a cum its often straight back in the afterwards

 

Always horny, just how we both like it.

 

I am usually horny. We are still at the beginning of our chastity and orgasm denial journey. My wife generally orders me to put the cage on when we are already in bed and we have a disconnect in sexual desire: I am super horny and she is not in the mood for sex or adult play. Typically she is tired and trying to sleep while I start massaging and caressing her body. That’s when she orders me to put the cage on. I love it, but at the same time it keeps my horniness up to the roof until she decides to release me from chastity and have sex.

 

Madam prefers me to remain horny so I’m kept focused on her.

 

When I’m let out it’s mostly on weekends when she wants me ‘to hand’ for sex - often it’ll then turn into longer, up until she remembers / decides I’m to be relocked on a Sunday bedtime or Monday morning.

I find the firing squad ‘last cigarette’ makes the cage far more palatable, and have previously jerked off whilst she’s stood watching & practically tapping her foot (with cage in hand) - a memorable occasion she said “you’ve got one minute, or it’s going on anyway” which definitely had the desired effect.

 

The only time I am reluctant to lock back up is if she grants me multiple orgasms within a day or two. Those days have become very rare, it’s usually one full cum and it’s back in the cage and I experience almost zero drop from one any more.
So I’m usually horny when the cage goes back on

 

after orgasm, I give a break during the day and then go back to the cage. over time, it became a habit. my cage has become an integral and everyday part of my wardrobe. and everything goes on as usual.

 

I’m hoping to get to that point myself.

 

It used to be I would get some time out of my cage after a release. As my Mrs began enjoying her control and being my keyholder those times became less and less. Now whether i am allowed an orgasm or not , when she is finished playing i am relocked, horny or not. Just the way it is.

 

At the beginning of a long lock period I am given a full orgasm and then I am locked up. We like how my horniness grows each day

 

These days when my wife is done the cage goes back on. I don’t get to cum when I’m unlocked so by default I’m always hornier going back in.