If I release due to a prostate massage, does the count as orgasming? Or being it is not a penile orgasm is it not a true orgasm?
For me, a male orgasm, coming from stroking my dick or penetrating, and a fem orgasm, coming from getting penetrated, are completely different… a male orgasm is straight forward, easy to reach, sudden, and leaves empty, and sexually mostly done. a fem orgasm is progressive, needs build up, it is long and intense, and generally leaves me still horny … Even if my prostate has passive spasm, and some semen comes out, it’s just not the same at all. we do not count fem orgasm, because they leave me in the right state of mind for chastity: horny, grateful, and eager to give my attention to my wife. the male orgasm is quite the opposite: it leaves me not horny, feeling a bit top, not horny anymore, and not really interested in Chastity all that much anymore