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  1. ocontop

    I am a Keyholder - (de) Mannheim Germany / life AND remote (online) / male and female - NO financial interests

    Are you searching for a keyholder? I am living in Mannheim / Germany. I do keyholding just for my own kink, NO financial interests at all. Doing remote (control via Webcam / WhatsApp / Telegram / Email / postal services) or life control (Mannheim + 100km) for males AND females (and whatever you...
  2. J

    five years of chastity life

    Hi all, Glad to join the big family, finally! I was initially a bdsm player and got into chastity play by chance. I was more like the dom role and my partner was the subby at that time. It was probably in 2019 when the htv3 was realized, and my partner and I decided to try something new, so I...
  3. V

    My 35 year chastity journey

    I am 73 years old and married for 52 years next month. I am retired. I married a virgin who never masturbated nor had an orgasm. Never let a boy feel her up due to a combination of a strict disabled alcoholic father who had put his children in hospitals by beating them violently. I met my wife...
  4. W

    Male sub seeking Female Keyholder

    Hello, I'm new to the forum and fetish. Mid 30s, male, streight. Dabled in chastity as well as abdl. I will be loving on my own in TX for a while and hoping to find a Mistress/Mommy Dom who wants to teach and train me. Happy to answer questions.
  5. D

    UK M26 Looking For His Keyholder

    Hello All, So I guess this post isn’t going to be a specific ad, I’m a submissive in my dna an ultimately enjoy pleasing/ adapting to a dominants needs in any relationship or dynamic. Of course I’m into chastity but I guess this is an open ad to a whole range of things from a FLR to a...
  6. C

    Looking for a Master/Mistress keyholder.

    Hello all. I am a single, sub/slave, gay man that is looking for a Master or Mistress. Eventually, I would love to be locked permanently. I enjoy BDSM with limits such as: No scat, blood, permanent marks or anything that would require a hospital visit. Love to test my limits and experiment. My...
  7. Micah Stockton

    New guy here

    Hello everyone, My name is MicahSPH, and I have just started into this lifestyle and it's only been solo show at this time. I look forward to seeing you all and making friends and playmates.
  8. Kiye

    Realizations and a new appraoch- my journal

    Ok- quick disclaimer This isn't going to be exclusively about chastity or even a majority about chastity, this will be more about Female-Led-Relationships from the sub's point of view (specifically the relationship that I am in) but will involve chastity to some degree. I do want to start by...
  9. Pneuma

    BDSM, Psychology & Therapy

    This short life story of mine was inspired by a curious question leading to a series of questions regarding therapy as a fetish. I don't blog as often as I'd like anymore. This one was struck very sudden and powerful and it lined up perfectly with re-re-re...joining CM. I hope it finds you well...
  10. maxthedoc

    Hallo! I introduce myself

    Hi to everybody. I am rather a novice in this field of human sexuality. I am not into sissyfication, CD or similar. I am an active member of the BDSM scene in Italy with a long experience in the USA and UK fetish/bdsm communities since I lived there for several years. I am a dominant on women...
  11. A

    Denver/Boulder looking for keyholder

    Ideally seeking a FLR in the Denver/Boulder area to both learn the dynamics of tease/denial, BDSM, and to provide domestic and sexual service to her. I have never been a part of a FLR But would love to learn how to give everything without expecting too much in return. I expect to be in chastity...
  12. L

    My reason for locking

    I initially locked to focus on my Wife and family rather than myself. During the nearly 15 years we have been together, I was often angry or insensitive. Also, I was so detached from what was going on around me that I couldn’t confidently name even one of my kids’ friends. I eventually hit...
  13. Obsequious

    New Adventure… PLEASE HELP??

    Hello CM community/family, Last night started a new journey with Madame E. Back in July she freed me… saying she basically was done with holding. It was probably due to my being a nuisance to her all the time. Nonetheless, I locked back up a few days ago. I shared that information with Madame as...
  14. toy4mami

    New-ish to Chastity

    Hi, you can call me toy4mami, or toy for short. I'm a tall black submissive male, with a keyholder who is the love of my life, and I can't wait to make my wife. I'm here just to talk shop, share, stories, tricks and ways to make chastity more (or less‍) comfortable. I enjoy being teased, in an...
  15. Autofillchast

    32, central Texas, Chastity sub/slave type.

    32 year old male/fluid sub/slave, college grad in Texas. DIACLAIMER: I am in a romantic, asexual long term relationship. Partner is aware and supportive of my finding a KH/owner(Dom/me) as they have zero interest in anything sexual(obviously). I'm white, 5ft 10, 145-150 lbs, mid-back length...
  16. P

    New here but not to Kink

    Hello everyone, I should introduce myself, I am new to the site but not Kink. Ive been into chastity for a while now and whilst it might seem fantasy talk, I really do want to go fully permanent. Anyways, hello.. I look forward to starting new chats with you all. Speak soon.
  17. longtallsally

    Cage on a leash?

    My partner and I are fairly new to chastity and I'm just beginning to experiment with him. A couple of days ago, he did a bad thing and I gave him a couple of 'punishments'.' Those worked out well. They made his stomach flip and we both found them exciting. I'm just wondering if anyone has...
  18. Kayak

    FLR music playlist

    Hi All, I made a playlist on my smartphone with FLR / DS lyrics. Intro - Tulisa (Female Boss) If ya wanna be bad - Bryan Adams Female - Keith Urban Have you ever really loved a woman? (From Don Juan DeMarco) - Bryan Adams Everything I Do - Bryan Adams Sisters are doing it for themselves -...
  19. C

    Young German looking for Online Keyholding/Femdom

    Hello everyone! I'm a 19 year old from western Germany and looking for a keyholder/mistress. I'm looking for someone who wants to take control over my chastity cage and hopefully over my entire body. With that I mean, tell me what to do. I have a collection of a few toys, that can be used: 3...
  20. WannaLockCock

    Do You Believe A Woman Has A higher Threshold For Pain Than Men

    I would REALLY love to hear from the Ladies/Mistress' and KHs on this one. I have watched quite a bit of porn over the years. I tend to look for the amateur / home made type, that usually pertains to FLR, Cuckolding, BDSM, pain and punishment. After reading, "Are You Guys Really Afraid Of Your...