key holding

  1. ocontop

    I am a Keyholder - (de) Mannheim Germany / life AND remote (online) / male and female - NO financial interests

    Are you searching for a keyholder? I am living in Mannheim / Germany. I do keyholding just for my own kink, NO financial interests at all. Doing remote (control via Webcam / WhatsApp / Telegram / Email / postal services) or life control (Mannheim + 100km) for males AND females (and whatever you...
  2. D

    Best First Cage, advice and recs

    New to CM, long time interests in exploring chastity. This past weekend, I admitted my curiosity to my wife. I was thrilled that she didn’t shot the idea down, and think I’m a freak. I like the aesthetic of metal, but I think it might be overwhelming in the beginning for both her and also...
  3. C

    Michigan - seeking verified female relationship then keyholder

    Michigan - seeking verified female relationship then key holder. Sorry but I am a FLR +1 until I know this website is not a waste of my time. I am a masculine male in my 50's that is seeking a relationship FIRST then a possible key holder situation. If you can't be local we are wasting our...
  4. Hasbaba67

    Seeking mistress/key holder to be part of our journey

    Well here it goes I’m looking for a discreet mistress / key holder to be part of our journey. I’m locked in a tiny metal cage with a urethral. I’m was very curious of the fact of being submissive and owned and tried cages over the past year. Now finally I have been able to wear it for a whole...
  5. longtallsally

    new to keyholding, where to keep the spare key?

    Hi, I've just posted my latest diary entry here. It didn't go as planned last night but I'm hoping that My Pete will soon be locked for longer periods, including when I'm not around. When that happens, there needs to be a spare key at home. He'll know where it is but I want to make sure he knows...
  6. Nicole Smith

    Trans Girl Key Holding Group? Any Interest?

    I got to thinking that unless you're a very lucky trans girl and have a partner who accepts you, most of what you do here is see other people talking about their relationships. So the next best option is paying somebody you don't know to hold your keys. The sounds a lot like a like paying...
  7. Nicole Smith

    [Florida] Trans Girl Looking for Keyholder

    Wondering if there is anybody in the Southern Florida area. I'm not looking to be tortured, or edged, or made to beg, or turned into a cock whore, or anything like that. So if that's what you want, I will bore you :D Basically, I'm looking for a key holder who can take me under their wing and...
  8. Nicole Smith

    [Survey] Why are you a Keyholder?

    What makes you put the effort and time into holding somebody's keys either online or in real life? I came up with a lot of possible reasons. Please check all that apply I'm fishing around for a keyholder and am trying to learn what is what. Nicole
  9. C

    Young German looking for Online Keyholding/Femdom

    Hello everyone! I'm a 19 year old from western Germany and looking for a keyholder/mistress. I'm looking for someone who wants to take control over my chastity cage and hopefully over my entire body. With that I mean, tell me what to do. I have a collection of a few toys, that can be used: 3...
  10. A

    Online keyholder

    Hey guys Im 20 y.o. male online keyholder. I love to lock subs, giving them tasks, train their ass with plugs and lot of other stuff. Im using Master lock bluetooth lockbox for securing locks. If you are interested check my twitter: Alfons003_KH and pm me there or here! Stay locked!
  11. JKisChaste

    Chasing the Chastity Rabbit Down the Hole

    On Christmas Eve 2019, I began chasing the chastity rabbit down the hole, and haven’t looked back. After joining this great site, I decided to journal my experiences here for anyone to read who may be interested in a novice’s journey into chastity. I’d known about male chastity for a long while...
  12. ChastityQueen

    Chastity Queen says hello!

    Hello from Me and My BFF, who I named “Mother Clucker!” I’ve been involved in chastity for years now and wanted to join a forum, where I can pop in now and then and read up on new trends and interesting stories and gain more friends, who are like-minded. I’m a Dominant, who loves chastity and...
  13. R

    New and ready to learn

    Hello like minded people! I am 30yo male with a fetish of tease and orgasm denial. A lot of times the only way I can do it is by chastity. I’m definitely not as advanced as a lot of you. The longest I’ve gone without an orgasm is a month, then usually go off the rails. The longest I’ve been in...
  14. Epicure3375

    How to convince my wife to become my keyholder ?

    Very interested in that beautiful kind of sexlife relationship. A bit scared of chastity but so aroused to give all control to my wife. But at this time, it's still fantasy because my wife is quite vanilla in her mind. I am here to find ways of planting seeds that could grow in her mind and...
  15. jb123

    Punishment Day.

    The Following Story contains themes of CBT, Chastity, and Femdom. My Mind goes places sometimes. ----Punishment Day---- Hubby was doing his normal chores before bed when Wifey came up and tapped him on the shoulder. He turned around and saw a stern look on her face. "Did you by chance...
  16. WonderwomanD

    St. Louis or LA - Muscle Babe looking to Key Hold ☺

    Heyo, Ex Wrestler, rugby player, and all around beefcake looking to KH and bully around some good boys and/or girls in Los Angeles or St. Louis.... I've been kinky and into BDSM for 10ish years and been a occasional key holder. Looking for good boys and/or girls - nerds and jocks to the...
  17. Goddess Linda

    I get a lot of messages asking me to be a keyholder, so...

    OK, so I get a lot of messages asking me to be a keyholder for them. That's fine, I don't have a problem with that, but let's get some things out of the way. Before contacting me, you should: :key: have a chastity device. :key: have worn said chastity device for at least a week continuously on...
  18. J

    From the very beginning.....

    Well here we are, I suppose I'd better start with a bit of background infomation ! Me and my boyfriend have been together for quite a while moved in and a happy household! I have quite a busy job and he runs a small building company, we get on fantasticly and love each other deeply he has had...
  19. pokekey

    When have you used your spare/emergency key?

    I'm considering if I really need to carry a spare key. I've been in a PA device for 6 weeks and so far no problems. I carry a spare key in a tamper evident case. On the surface this seems like a reasonable precaution but it also changes my experience. It would feel different if I didn't have...
  20. C

    Long distance key holding

    I wanted to to know what most of you fine fellows and fems look for in long distance key holding. What kind of interaction and how you'd feel most fulfilled without actually getting physical. Any input helps :)