masturbation denial

  1. M

    Observations on Male Chastity as a Kink and Why This Does Not Work for Me/Us

    As a newcomer to this kink I have studied English language material about it available online for the past 4 months or so. I've dabbled in it myself both solo and with my wife acting as keyholder. I'll summarize my observations and thoughts here. Some men who engage in this have severe ED...
  2. R

    We are locked in now…

    I’m not really sure how to start this thread other than simply saying how much chastity has changed my life in the last few months. It all began when I came across the chastitytraining subreddit and someone had posted this article...
  3. longtallsally

    Coming when caged, without vibe?

    Hi, I'm a new (and rather nervous) keyholder, or at least, on the brink of becoming one I think. I'm hoping that we'll progress from just using the cage for an hour or two of play every now and then, to slightly longer periods - possibly overnight or more. I'm about to draw up some rules for us...
  4. S

    Episode One - Dipping My Toes

    Hello everyone! I recently became seriously interested in chastity because of the negative effect masturbation was having on my vanilla marriage. You can read about this in more detail in my first post here...
  5. S

    I (28M) Want to Ask My Wife (26F)

    Hello everyone! My apologies if you get this all the time, but I couldn't find a general advice thread anywhere on the internet. My wife and I have been married for almost 2 years, together for 3 or so, and we have mostly vanilla sex, once every week or two. I don't think either of us have...
  6. shieldingmatrix

    Ruined Orgasm with Self-Bondage to help in holding off...

    Ruined Orgasm with Self-Bondage to help in holding off... Looking for ideas here. Concept is that in order to give yourself a real ruined orgasm where you begin to cum without stimulation, but then don't rush in to help finish it, because you are too weak to really stop yourself, and of...
  7. W

    Hello, new guy excited to find this place

    Hi! I’m Winterfr3sh, Midwest married male committing to abstain from sexual stimulation by either myself or my wife. I found this site literally today, jumped right into the chat room and have learned tons already, thanks! I measured myself ice cold flaccid and ordered the UTIMI cock cage...
  8. Peter Rabbit

    3 years ago, I had my last orgasm by my own hand.

    Three years ago I had my last orgasm by my own hand. She decided my last had been my final last year. I didn’t realize it was to be my final at the time. My wife gave me both my first strictly-guided masturbation-instruction session, and my last orgasm by my own hand on the 5th of May 2018...
  9. L

    Double Loss of Virginity and Advice Needed.

    Hi all, I am reaching out for ideas and for feedback. I am in a semi-vanilla relationship, going on 7 years, though we have engaged in chastity for the better part of the relationship. It has often been an on again/off again use of chastity in the relationship. We both genuinely see benefits in...
  10. Dominic Young

    My Introduction: Self locking struggling young man

    Hello Chastity Mansion, Just here to introduce myself. Im 25 year old and self locked at home. I've had many stints in chastity, lasting as long as 2 weeks at a time. Here is how I started with chastity: From pretty much when I became sexually active, I had a major problem with erectile...
  11. D

    Anti Male Masturbation Laws

    https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/texas-antimasturbation-bill-fine-for-masturbating-illegal-jessica-farrar-house-bill-4260-man-s-right-a7669866.html Check this out lol!! ( I know it’s never going to go through, and the intent of the bill is purely satirical, but...
  12. MissCarly

    My Hands Free Journal

    5/24/19 Today marked day 7 of my self locking target of one month. Is it a little too soon to be proud of myself? (Seven days being my longest locking so far in my fairly recent chastity experience). Apart from having the occasional urge to masturbate only to touch steel, so far my biggest...
  13. Peter Rabbit

    Infinite Struggle

    “You’re my boy.” “I’m your good boy… Even if it’s a struggle to be good.” “Oh... The Infinite Struggle” I swallowed as her words hung in the air “… infinite? …” “Yes, you need to be good forever.” My mind reeled, and so I held her close. For protection. I hid my nose in her soft breasts...