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I recently upgraded from my fake V4 Holy Trainer to an authentic V5 Holy Trainer and am having difficulties so was hoping to get some advice. I apologise for the lengthy explanation and appreciate any insight and opinions you have to offer. My fake v4 fit like a glove. It was a size small with...

My MM oval double base ring has arrived and made such a difference to the comfort of my Jailbird, increasing the gap to 1/2" and doubling the ring makes it feel so much more secure, comfortable and I think I'd struggle to get out of it without a key. I've swapped from padlock to security screw...

Hello! I dropped into this world about a week ago, and thanks to my husband's astonishing aptitude and enthusiasm, things are moving very quickly. I planned to ease him into his cage gradually, with maybe a few hours a day, but we're already on our second day of 24-hour wear. So proud! The...

A quick question from a novice keyholder. I'm hoping to agree some principles with My Pete this evening. If that goes ok, I want to lock him there and then, which I'm pretty sure he won't be expecting. I've been trying to think of excuses he'll come up with and wanted to pre-empt them. I think...

I've just done the first version of a set of principles for My Pete and I to talk about. I'm hoping it may be the beginning of a journey and I know he is excited but also has some worries, which I've tried to allay. I've posted the principles here and would be very grateful for any suggestions...

Hi, Have just posted this update on our journey. I'm working late tonight so I can't pursue this for a couple of days at least. In the meantime, any further tips gratefully received. I want to appear firm (which is actually really difficult for me) but don't want to scare him. Also, is it...

Hi, I've just posted my latest diary entry here. It didn't go as planned last night but I'm hoping that My Pete will soon be locked for longer periods, including when I'm not around. When that happens, there needs to be a spare key at home. He'll know where it is but I want to make sure he knows...

Hello folks, I joined this site, nervously, just a few days ago and have had my prejudices delightfully dismantled. Nobody’s lectured me, or indulged in ‘mansplaining’ or been rude or overbearing. I’ve had such lovely, positive gentle advice. So, with another deep breath I thought I’d keep a...

Hello, I have been meaning to do this for a couple of weeks. I am a 51 straight male and am pretty new to chastity and have only been doing it for about 6 months. It is pretty funny how I got into chastity. About a year ago, my fiance made a joke that if I didn't behave she would lock me up...

Hello everyone, This is my first post on this forum and the first time talking about my chastity kink outside of the private confines of my bedroom with my partner. We have only been doing this particular type of play for a short amount of time but we love it and the power Dynamics...

Hello girls/guys, I am now experimenting witch chastity over a year (sometimes more frequently and sometimes with longer pauses). My problem is, that every time I try to overcome my previous record of wearing the cage throughout the day, I fail. It is not that I am not disciplined enough or...

Hello call me what you will, I am a bit new to chastity as a whole and while looking for tips on what I now know is called ball burn I branched through Google and found this site, like I said I'm new to chastity having ordered my first one (which when registering for this site I figured out is...

Hi- I have never been locked in chastity, but gave found a Mistress who will lock me and never give me a proper orgasm again. She will milk me with pleasure less dribbles but will never allow me a pleasurable orgasm. I'm both excited and terrified. Shes wonderful...smart, strong, kind and a bit...

Just a short one to say Hi, recently joined this site, enjoying reading everyone else's stories and adventures. Hope to have some to share myself!