relationship

This piece by Jan-Willem Van Der Heiden, came to my facebook as I was reading a bunch of posts here about how much attention a chaste guy was(n't) getting. It's off topic I guess, but maybe I'm not the only one this speaks to. If you are like me, among other things chastity is a response to...

Honest question from a guy's perspective. I always considered that a sane relationship is when you go out of your way to improve you partner's life and they do as well for you, doing a myriad of things for the other, sometimes sacrificing things in the process. The more you do, the better. When...

Has anyone experienced remorse for introducing chastity into their relationship? I fear once I speak up and open up to my wife that she will never see me in the same light again.

Hello, can you give me some advice on how to stop contradicting my girlfriend's statements? Sometimes I get the first impulse to disagree with one of her comments or decisions. This bothers me and I definitely want to stop doing it. It also bothers her a lot and she gets annoyed. I would say...

Hello, I've been reading here in silence for over a year and am thrilled by the contributions. I am in a relationship with my incredibly, beautiful and smart girlfriend. She is 24 and I am 26, we have been a couple for three years. I told her quite early on that I like it when she controls...

Hi, I am a normal guy with abnormal interests. And regular interests as well. Seeking a normal woman with abnormal interests to enjoy and explore both kinds of interests. I am masculine and muscular. I try for a healthy and fit lifestyle but am not fanatical about it. But I do try to get to the...

I’ve been into the lifestyle for a while but my biggest problem has always been after I orgasm my brain wants to go back to thinking I’m a man (how ridiculous?). Looking for someone to be strict and frequently check in to make sure I stay locked up like a good girl. Also into other things but...

Michigan - seeking verified female relationship then key holder. Sorry but I am a FLR +1 until I know this website is not a waste of my time. I am a masculine male in my 50's that is seeking a relationship FIRST then a possible key holder situation. If you can't be local we are wasting our...

Good tidings to all my Female Superiors, and hello to my fellow submissive thralls. I’m James 32 from Cardiff (Wales, UK) who’s a very playfully cheeky bratty submissive that functions poorly without Feminine Guidance and a FLR. I’m currently searching for a Soft Dominant Goddess to call my...

Hello, I have been meaning to do this for a couple of weeks. I am a 51 straight male and am pretty new to chastity and have only been doing it for about 6 months. It is pretty funny how I got into chastity. About a year ago, my fiance made a joke that if I didn't behave she would lock me up...

Grateful to be kinky and to have found this amazing site. I live in the greater Palm Spring area for any nearby. I am a submissive good boy and looking for an FLR Chastity experience. I am open to short and long term or just fun conversations with you. So fun to share and be vulnerable about...

Began playing as a couple with some generic knockoff device around two years ago. It was too awkward and ill-fitting to be worn outside of the bedroom (or even over night) and we stopped using it after a few months rather than continue having to remove it well before we (she) wanted. Both of us...

So I am only looking for people who i can interact with irl and are looking for a real relationship not just kink. I live in Denton, don't drive but have my own apartment, so I need someone willing to come to Denton. Outside of kink I am honestly kind of boring at this stage in my life. I am...

Hi new guy here :) some info about me....im 33yrs old, never been caged but have always wanted to. all of my relationships have all ended the same way...once we get comfortable and start to share our 'kinks' i share that i want to be caged...they get scared and leave.. i just hope i can find...

I have always found writing to be very therapeutic as it gives me an outlet to express my views and ease my stress. As a Libertarian living in 2020 I am constantly under stress. As the title implies I have had a fascination with the Male Chastity lifestyle for several years. It has always been...

So my SO jokingly made a comment about getting herself a chastity belt which got me thinking a bit. Has anyone here ever been in a relationship male female relationship where both people were wearing chastity devices. Neither of us have been into this long so I had no idea if people actually...

I guess I should start out by talking about what lead me to getting locked up and on this site. If you would like to know some more about me first though I will say a few things below and separate it by something you can't miss. My long term SO and I were having some problems in our relationship...

ive been looking for a relationship or partner that the women is dominant and enjoys kinky play and especially sissies. just wondering if anyone has found someone and had a long term relationship with that person?

I have been thinking about submission, humiliation and FLR even before i knew if there was such a thing out there. I have no experience and I am not a pushover but I know what I want. I have a type A personality but I need to submit. I am Canadian but I am in South America right now. I would...

I know these posts are a long shot since they're a "cold open", but I figured putting myself out there more will only be helpful in finding someone who I can start this journey with. A little about myself: I'm a 26 year old straight male who has always leaned towards the submissive sides of...