Antonio232´s blog

I want to share an aspect that seems to not sufficiently be given attention:
the aspect of female dominance in a relation where the woman is older than the man... the mature thing.
I am lucky to have had such a relationship. Then again, I´m quite sure by now that such relationships are actually not at all rare. It seems to me that it is not rare that a mature woman can reel in a young guy.
Now the thing is: everybody is looking for a domme. And with the normal role behavior... a woman will not want to be the dominant part in the relationship. But in the mature - young guy relationship, the roles are reversed ! And that makes for a large source of dommes, or of female-dominant behavior, available to men!

To wit: our age difference was 13 years and I was 18. This woman once explicitly said: maybe we should use a chastity belt... referring to my self-gratification behavior... which she did not much estimate (as you would expect). Another remark of her... when she tucked me in (circumstances too complicated to explain) : and the hands nicely above the blanket, will you.

So there really was the female-dominant dynamics ! Which should not be surprising, given the reversed age situation.

Now... we did not develop that further, for various reasons. But as said, it seems to me that little attention is given to this realm of life that I suspect to be not marginal.

In any case: my chastity fantasies totally revolve around this scenario: I´m younger, the woman mom (step mom), auntie, neighbor woman etc., punishing me for masturbation, putting me into chastity, teasing me with various sexual scenarios.

And I think this is available... to younger males, of-course... because I think that a woman in the role of the older part of the couple assumes the role of the leader, ready to control the young male.

This aspect of male-female relationship has never come up in what I read... so I would like to bring that aspect up. Opinions welcome.