Any Regrets?
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I don't really believe in regrets. I have confidence in myself to make the best decision I can at the time with the information I have available. It things change in the future, so be it.. but I was still right to do that back then.
I enjoy chastity play, if my partner can't accept or at least tolerate that, then she's not the right person for me. Luckily for me, she can be a part of it.
I enjoy chastity play, if my partner can't accept or at least tolerate that, then she's not the right person for me. Luckily for me, she can be a part of it.
Interesting question. I can honestly say that I don’t regret introducing Master too my desires, it’s been a interesting few years experimenting with chastity and other forms of BDSM. I do often worry that I could never go back to being vanilla, but I don’t think Master and I would even go back to being vanilla though.
It’s a different way of life one that has it’s ups and downs but it can be fun and ups far out way the downs.
It’s a different way of life one that has it’s ups and downs but it can be fun and ups far out way the downs.
Interesting question.
One question I'd like to ask is does anyone have any regrets about serious longterm chastity? Do they ever wish they had never asked for it? I doubt anyone using this forum will say yes, but I'm wondering if I take the step into it will I live to regret it?
One question I'd like to ask is does anyone have any regrets about serious longterm chastity? Do they ever wish they had never asked for it? I doubt anyone using this forum will say yes, but I'm wondering if I take the step into it will I live to regret it?
Hey, Thumper is here. Hi, Thumpie!
No regrets here, although in typically these forums you tend to find people who are rather enjoying themselves.
When my wife and I play, we go for long periods of time, and then we stop for a while before it becomes too routine or too distressing for either of us.
No regrets here, although in typically these forums you tend to find people who are rather enjoying themselves.
When my wife and I play, we go for long periods of time, and then we stop for a while before it becomes too routine or too distressing for either of us.
i agree with owened1, i only regret hiding a huge part of who i am. i just had to find the right partner first.
Howdy back!Tom Allen said:
That's a good point. I suppose those who had a horrible time of it would probably choose to spend their time elsewhere.Tom Allen said:
And I'll amend my first post to agree with everyone else who's said it: My one and only regret is that she and I were married for almost eleven years before doing this.
owened1 said:
Same here. I toyed with the chastity idea YEARS ago, even went so far as to attempt to build my own device. The DIY model wasn't so good and the feelings and idea faded away. I'm not sure what sparked my interest again late last year, but I ran with it this time.
I regret taking all this long to discover being locked up. I haven't been this randy since I was in my 20's.
I bet that guys taking Viagra and such would take this up, they would never have to buy those expensive drugs. Oh, being locked dosen't give you a headache.
I bet that guys taking Viagra and such would take this up, they would never have to buy those expensive drugs. Oh, being locked dosen't give you a headache.
ballbust said:
No.
Far from it in fact. It has give us a whole new aspect to our sexual relationship and our everyday "real life" relationship.
Sexually, I would say that revealing my chastity interest to my Wife was the best move I ever made.
I would say it has brought us closer together in every aspect of our life and was definately the right thing to do.
Sometimes I wish I had revealed it sooner, but then I just wonder if it may have not worked out as well at that time for whatever reason, so I'm just happy I did it when I did.
I enjoy being locked up immensely, but my wife of 27 years is not so enthused. Even though we have *great* sex after she releases me, she is actually jealous of the device and my fascination with it. "I wish you would be as aroused by me without that thing!" I try to explain to her that it is her I desire, and the CB helps me express my love, but she still hasn't really warmed up to it. Also, she REALLY gets jealous if I put it on without her consent. Oh, well.
Definitely no regrets... in fact I still find myself wanting to push her to go for longer times, for more teasing, to be tougher on me...
I guess when it's a lifelong fantasy and you start taking the first steps, it's hard to not want to run all the way there.
I guess when it's a lifelong fantasy and you start taking the first steps, it's hard to not want to run all the way there.
Ditto to you all.
I have two regrets
1) Buying a device and showing it to her before I had discussed it with her
2) Not doing it much, much sooner.
I have two regrets
1) Buying a device and showing it to her before I had discussed it with her
2) Not doing it much, much sooner.
Definitely for my wife and I there are no regrets, it took a while to get started so like owned1 we wish we could have started earlier but because how vanilla the wife used to be she would have rund a mile.