Back into Chastity

Wasnt able to have "sex" with my wife for the 6 month anniversary of being locked in chastity due to that time of month.
"Sex" is always me giving her oral sex. No reciprocation on her part ever.

Last night i was informed in a playful way i would be "eating ginger pie" that evening.
Needless to say i was very excited.

When i came into the bedroom my wife was standing at the side of the bed with her top on but naked from the waist down. She lay back on the bed. I assumed my proper position between her legs while i knelt on the floor beside the bed.

I took my time to get a nice view of her big bush with the lips of her pussy shaved just a little bit. I eagarly but gently started licking.
I spent a little time with her pussy but surprisingly quickly i was directed lower down to start licking her asshole.
Spent most of my time licking her asshole instead of her pussy.
She had a few orgasms while i licked her asshole and i think a little one at the beginning while i licked her pussy.
Then moved back to licking her pussy as she settled down and ended our session.

Me providing oral sex to my wifes asshole has changed from unwanted to tolerated and now appears to be her preference.
I spent considerably more time servicing her asshole than her pussy last night. Maybe next time i will start there and not her pussy, see if im directed back to her pussy or maybe she will just want to orgasm from anal pleasuring? Might not be a good idea.

Either way i am loving this new direction and love to service my wife in whatever fashion she desires.

Oh. Managed to get a little pillow talk done before she fell asleep.
I mentioned that i was surprised how long she has kept me in chastity. That when she said when i was locked 6 months ago " i would be locked up a long time" i didn't think it would ever be for this long. She responded by saying "And its going to be a long time yet".

It was also the first time she spoke out loud about her enjoying me licking her ass.

 

Not really allowed to ask as she sees it as nagging but she has point blank stated in the past that my penis is of No use to her and it belongs locked away.

 

Very mutual.

 

We are in a Femdom relationship.
We both enjoy this dynamic.
Its very much a mutually beneficial situation.
A Femdom or D/S relationship has roles and rules. Some spoken some just understood.

If you want a vanilla relationship sprinkled with a little kink thats perfectly fine too.

 

No idea what this means? Please clarify.

 

NOPE!

Neither one of us would enjoy that

 

"Small" update

Had the cage off yesterday for the first time in over 6 months.
Had a ball escape which has not happened since the cage went on.
I had gone for a swim and i guess the cool water caused more shrinkage.
This is only conjecture but i think the ball escape was a result of my penis turtling down so far that it almost became an 'inney' providing enough room for the ball to squeeze by the ring.

Decided since the cage had to come off i should do a proper cleansing and a real shave.

Wow.....

I could hardly recognize my own penis. It didnt look the same at all.
It was shorter but most noticeably very much thinner.
I would guess it might even be smaller overall than my thumb now.
(And yes i'm sure given time it will regain its normal size) which is why its never going to get that opportunity.

Another thing that surprised me was during the process of cleaning and shaving with all that soapy water it didnt even attempt an erection. I was being careful to not stimulate myself since i wanted that cage back on immediately.

Cage was back on in just a few minutes and securely locked in chastity once again.

I was hoping to downsize yet again soon and it looks like thats going to be a necessity especially if a ball escapes again.

 

Yes in the smallest ring for the Nano.
Ring size is ok but tube too long now.
Going to the Nub next.

 

7 Months Today!!

Other than my one wet dream no cumming. No erections.

Thats about it for this monthly update.

 

Had a weird but fun dream last night.

I was standing in front of a couple of people trying to help with something all the while wearing only a towel.
The towel of course kept wanting to get loose and fall off.

As it would open up my shaved bare genitals and chastity cage would be exposed. One funny detail is the cage i was wearing was bright shiny chrome. The cage I actually wear full time is clear plastic.

Anyways it was an arousing dream. My chastity being exposed in public.

 

Another minor update. Hopefully a more exciting update tomorrow.

Gave me wife oral again last night. Each time its less pussy licking and more ass licking.
She has really taken to it. I am pretty certain she is preferring my tongue on her ass over her pussy now.
I started with her pussy but very quickly moved to licking her ass. Spent the rest of my time there.
Once she appeared to be completely satisfied for the night i attempted to lick her pussy but was quickly dismissed.

One other interesting event.
I had a few more beers than i would normally consume in the evening as they tend to cause an erection attempt.
I usually avoid liquids in the evenings to prevent being woken up with pain from the cage.
Well last night i woke up with a very full bladder which i had to get up and empty. I hardly ever need to do that.
The whole time my penis never got hard with an erection attempt.
So even with a full bladder my penis seems to have learned to stay soft.

 

Ok.

Major update.

We flew home from Florida to Canada yesterday.
Normally my wife gets quite concerned about flying while im caged. This time there was no hesitation, no concern at all.
This is a great sign. Looks like her one last reservation about keeping me locked in chastity has disappeared.

So we get to the airport and head to the security check.
As ive said we have flown to a few different countries over the years with no issues. Including Canada to Florida . The metal dectectors never pick up my chastity device. Its a plastic HT Nano with a brass integral lock.
This time however i was directed towards the Body Scanner!! This machine Will detect my chastity device locked security around my penis. Now im really getting those wonderful mixed feelings that come with chastity .
There is fairly good looking black woman who is operating the Body Scanner. As the machine takes a scan of my body she looks up. Makes direct eye contact with me then waves me through.
Overall it all went smoothly and we didnt get detained.

It was very Hot knowing my chastity had been discovered and a relief that nothing came of it.

 

Yesterday was 8 Months in chastity!!

Went by without any fanfare

No erections. No cumming. No teasing. Some pussy licking, more ass licking.

Preparing myself for being chaste the full year now.

 

Thank goodness Another Wet Dream!

Last night i finally had another wet dream. Had my first one around 6 months. This one about 2 months later.
I was dreaming that i was allowed to fuck my wife.
In the dream I couldnt get hard enough and was very small. Maybe 2-3" long.
I could only get about 1" inside and the sensation was overwhelming. I needed to cum immediately.
It was taking everything i had to keep control. After what seemed like about 30 seconds or so my wife got really mad at me for frustrating and disappointing her sexually again. The second she yelled at me i started cumming.
Thats when i woke up.
I was laying on my side and i could feel my balls pumping out the cum. Again no pleasurable sensation. Just relief. I was still half asleep but i was very aware of the pulses. Seemed like a lot of cum. pulse after pulse but i didnt feel the cum.
Then as i lay there still unable/unwilling to move i could feel the cum start to slowly pour out of the tube.
I think i ejaculated while soft. Now the cum had started to pour out of the tube and was dripping slowly onto my leg.
This is the part of the wet dream that is the more unpleasant and erotically humiliating.
I knew i was making a big mess in my pajama pants and my groin would be saturated in stale cum by morning.
Its slimy, sticky and cold. Also quite embarrassing.

I was able to fall back to sleep but was woken up early in the morning by full blown raging hardon. Something that i hadnt experinced in many months.
The tube was full and pulling on my balls something fierce. Ball burn was excruciating.
Had to endure a few more less intense hard ons as i drifted in and out of sleep until i finally got out of bed.

So this morning im experiencing a weird combination of releif but also renewed arousal.
Looks like my wife will be getting some oral this weekend. Need to keep this arousal fueled up.

 

Ive been Bad.

Hooked the TENS unit i use for back pain to my privates.
The unit has 4 small pads.
Placed 2 pads on my perineum. One on backside of my testicles the other pad was removed and the bare metal plug slid down my urethra about an 3/4 of an inch.

All this while still caged. Wife was out with our son for Mothers Day lunch. She holds the key.

The feeling was FANTASTIC!
Overwhelming.
Out of this world.

I stayed soft the entire time.
Best / Worst part was as my cum flowed out it pushed the one electrode out of my penis so the stimulation immediately stopped. I was given another ruined orgasm.
My cage directed all my cum down between my legs and over my ass, as my legs where spread open.
What a mess!

I wanted another but this one was already unathorized and my wife might have been home at any time so i quickly cleaned up the evidence.