Boxer or briefs (and what fabric)?

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    After years of on and off locking up to a month at a time and several custom cages (MM, SteelWorxx), I'm now 10 days locked in my new BAWR device. It is so comfortable I'm thinking long term wear is a real possibility. I work at a desk job and one thing I've always noticed is that I often get pressure and burning under my scrotum when I sit for a long stretch (sometimes happens in the car, too) and need to walk around and re-lube to make that go away. I've usually worn cotton briefs, but I recently tried some old nylon blend briefs and I need to re-lube a lot less and have less burning under my scrotum. My theory is that the cotton absorbs the lube and the nylon doesn't. Anyone with similar experiences? (I know, not a problem that you sissies in nylon panties have.) I've tried boxers, but I like the support of briefs.
     
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    it not just the panties that better its lots better as well cos of have a dress on and not trouser. cos they make it not comfy as well.
     
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    When locked, I'm not allowed to wear any underwear while out and am always nude at home. I also have a desk job and get the burn. A few reapplications of lube during the day helps.
     
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    I'm no sissy and my wife wouldn't put up with me if I behaved like one, but I wear these and she is okay with it. She likes them. They are comfortable, don't absorb the lube I use and I don't get all sweaty during the summer.
     
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    It is simple for me. Cotton boxer briefs.

    The burn you are feeling may be a gap issue or in my case, sometimes skin folds that become tender as things swell a little during they day (and especially with sitting).
     
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    I stopped wearing underwear altogether long ago. The only thing I wear now are athletic thongs (made by JM) when I'm running, largely to hold it closer and tighter to my body so it doesn't flop around any.

    What helped me with that burning is wrapping a strip of moleskin around the base of the ring. That burning comes from the pressure on the muscle and the perenial nerve that runs along the base of it. So the moleskin "softens" it a bit so there's not so much pressure. I don't use any lube at all.
     
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    “Burning” in the balls is nearly always due to the gap between the cage/ring. When I was in a jailbird the best solution was a horizontal oval ring and slightly larger gap… and used a little baby oil gel occasionally to help as it was adjusting. Over time and with the spot in correct fit, that burn goes away.
     
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    For me it’s briefs/thongs/jocks all the time, nice and tight, and the more Lycra content the better. Boxers are a big no for me, just cause discomfort and irritation as my cage is pushed from side to side all day.
     
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    Dual pouched boxer briefs. They're either nylon or polyester, but they're super smooth
     
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    Very nice! Those look nice and comfortable!
     
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    While I prefer going commando, my go to underwear is the Buck Naked boxer briefs from Duluth Trading Co. The are a mesh nylon that breathes very well.
     
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    Baer?? Let me know something more about this cage
     
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    These are all I wear now. They give me great support when I'm in my cage, my wife thinks they're sexy, and it's six pairs for $20 or so

    IKINGSKY Men's Silky Thong Sexy T-Back Mens Underwear Low Rise Stretch Underpanties https://a.co/d/4YYCjdU
     
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    I wear Jockey's elance men's bikini underwear and have been doing so for the past 3 years. Here's a link. They are relatively in expensive and fit nicely. The fabric is a little thin, so if you leak precum you may need to wear a thin panty liner.

    Jockey® Men's Elance® Bikini - 6 Pack
     
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    separatec everyday boxer briefs - they have a pouch for the balls and a hole for your penis to go through and rest in a separate pouch. They actually work better for me when I'm in chastity. The cage keeps my penis from pulling back through the hole.
     
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    Boxers 100 per cent cotton to keep cool
     
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    I've worn thongs for the better part of my adult life. Off and on for sure. The last 6 to 10 years I've worn these https://a.co/d/70VStzl

    They are super stretchy and provide just enough support. Ive tried the pouch men's thongs and they actually bother me more when I'm caged. Yes the hug is nice but it gets irritating at the bottom under the balls.

    I'm not into the sissy things but these have been the most comfortable underwear I've ever worn. Running, walking, hiking and for 15 hours straight at a fest they fit the bill.

    Also I have a desk job and many days ill add a small dab of vasoline mid day if needed .
     
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    #19 Midnight1966, Jun 27, 2023
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    I wear this brand and style of boxer briefs - the pouch contains my locked package perfectly, keeps it from slipping back and getting squeezed between my thighs.

    I also have a desk job and find that vaseline works well to alleviate the pulling "burn" of the cremaster muscle contracting at various times during the day.
     
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    I am with @Midnight1966 I wear boxer briefs made by Jockey that are athletic spandex type. The keep everything in place without tugging. I work out daily, and am on my feet all day at work and run up to 15 miles a week without any issues. Cotton seemed to stretch at the day went on.
    My wife and I are not into the sissy lifestyle and I dont think panties would do well in a gym
     
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    For me, I gave up wearing boxers or boxer briefs years ago. I only wear men’s bikinis, sports briefs, jocks, and thongs. Before chastity, I could not stand the rubbing against the leg. I switched to boxer briefs in high school because we had pool class and I thought it was taboo to wear tight underwear. Once I got over what people thought in college, it was a switch and I never went back.
    Now with chastity, I like everything to be close and tight. Living in a hot climate, it gets moist down there, but it’s not sticking to my leg!
     
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    As a full time full belt wearer in my BB full system - that is my underwear - it may be steel but its all I need and in fact wearing anything else is very uncomfortable.

    Before this however when I was still using a cage, I preferred sports style briefs rather than boxers as I then don't then sweat as much and it keeps the whole package tighter an "together".
     
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    I wear briefs all the time. I also need to use a panty liner (much to the amusement of Mrs Chaste). No matter how much I try to dry myself, there's always a bit of wee left.
     
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    I wear boxers, but I'm only able to get away with it because I also wear a strap to hold the cage close to my body
     
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