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It's already mid-December, which means it's time to set goals for 2024.
This has been a preparatory year for me to get used to the chastity cage, find the right size for long-term wearing, learn to sleep in it, gradually transition to wearing chastity 24/7.
The still unachieved goal of last year is to reduce full orgasms to zero or at lease to minimize it.

So my three main goals for 2024 are:
NO FULL ORGASMS ENTIRE YEAR, only caged/ruined milked or wet dreams;
Get used to the taste of semen and eat every drop that comes out of my body;
Learn how to milk myself: stretch anus a little bit, learn to ejaculate only from anal stimulation.


Maybe someone has some advice about my goals based on their own experience.

Also write your own goals for 2024.
 
My goals would be to continue supporting my wife as she grows in her comfort and confidents in be the dominant one in the bedroom. To continue to communicate with her that I am getting a lot of pleasure form this and it is more than OK that she has more orgasms than I am allowed to have.
I want to get my new BAWR cage in and wear it 24/7 and it be unlocked only with Her permission. I want to get relaxed enough to take her strap on dildo and continue to slowly extend the time between full orgasms.
 
An orgasm free year, focussed on what is important. The pleasure and desires of my wife who I love so much,
This is a new step for us (about three weeks in right now) but our 2024 goal is that. No more orgasms for me. We're both realistic enough to accept that somewhere in that time period it might happen unintentionally, but we've come to undderstand that our entire chastity journey (4 months now) was really about leading me to give up my orgasm. There are a host of reasons that are discussed in the semen retention thread. Oddly, the 2024 goal doesn't involve staying locked. Come March, I'll probably stop wearing the cage. And unless that has become so imprinted in my brain that I'm unhappy without it, we'll probably retire it. But regardless of whether I'm wearing it or not, my orgasms are toast.
 
Well my goal for ‘24 isn’t as intense as you guys, we dropped my full orgasms from 90 in ‘22, down to 21 this year, and I’m hoping my Wife will continue pushing me and drop them to 1 full cum every 2 months in ‘24. She enjoys giving me ruined handjobs every couple to few weeks, and keeps me guessing when they’ll be granted.
But ultimately I’ve given up all control to her, and sometimes she likes to make me cum. So I’ll just continue to obey her.
Spring of ‘24 will start year 5 of chastity for us, each year getting more and more strict. The last 2 years I’ve maybe had a total of 2 weeks of freedom from the cage. She’s seeing the benefits of not just orgasm denial but lately erection denial as well, pushing me into deeper submission.
It’s been a wonderful and rewarding 4 years, really excited for 2024!
 
Only real goal I have in regards to chastity, is to try and make it interesting and fun for her and of course be the best partner I can be for her.

My last years goal for her to have more orgasms than me failed miserably (and it was really my goal not hers), she is too generous....OR thats what she wanted which is also fine :) We had a very busy and complicated year to be thinking about denial games.
 
My goal for 2024 is total lockdown and no orgasms as I want to live in constant chastity and reduce the size down and go inverted I dress as a girl and want to be a girl so I must live as one and no longer have access to to male appendage I hope I can complete my target this coming year
 
Well my goal for ‘24 isn’t as intense as you guys, we dropped my full orgasms from 90 in ‘22, down to 21 this year, and I’m hoping my Wife will continue pushing me and drop them to 1 full cum every 2 months in ‘24. She enjoys giving me ruined handjobs every couple to few weeks, and keeps me guessing when they’ll be granted.
But ultimately I’ve given up all control to her, and sometimes she likes to make me cum. So I’ll just continue to obey her.
Spring of ‘24 will start year 5 of chastity for us, each year getting more and more strict. The last 2 years I’ve maybe had a total of 2 weeks of freedom from the cage. She’s seeing the benefits of not just orgasm denial but lately erection denial as well, pushing me into deeper submission.
It’s been a wonderful and rewarding 4 years, really excited for 2024!
I love your denial of erections and I want that too I need to find a mistress to deny me that but not one that charges excessive amounts you are so lucky to have a wife do that for you xxx
 
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In end that's really up to her. Personally I'd like to do longer average lockups without going nuts towards end. Nothing crazy maybe two or three week cycles instead of 7 or 10 days like we're doing now.
 
I'm not the one who sets those kinds of goals in our relationship. She's kept me locked up for well over a year now, and given that she's gotten me to cum by doing me with a strap-on and herself gets off on the fact that she has my cock locked up, I don't foresee that changing in 2024.
 
2023 was the year that we moved from long-term chastity to me being locked up pretty much 24/7. 2024 will be interesting as there are going to be some developments. In February I will get circumcised for medical reason. I'm also looking into getting a PA. My wife has wanted me to get one for a while now, and we agreed that it will happen after the circumcision. Along with that I assume that my wife will probably also want me to get a new cage to lock me up securely with no way out.
 
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I’m locked down until March, that’s not negotiable. After that my goal is simple: accept any decision my wife makes in regards to moving forward.

Should that be no removal, further really long periods locked up or really short ones and lots of pleasure… the decisions will be as equally hard to accept.

I pray for a happy medium.
 
My chastity goal is to help my wife realise the power that my chastity and submission bestow upon her.

She accepted my submission and enforced our first long term denial period. She already recognised the benefit to her sexually, knowing she need feel no guilt about using me selfishly for her own pleasure. She's starting to find out that the devotion to her that she has engendered within me can influence more than just her bedroom needs and desires.
 
Oh my God I have been given another goal yesterday which blew me away. My wife says she wants me permanently in the cage with no let out time for PIV. We have a Vixskin dildo I use with my Meo strap on but she said she finds PIV generally uncomfortable these days and would prefer PIA if I can find a smaller thing to strap on. It must have taken about a minute to order the smallest Vixskin there is and she says it’s perfect. Before we moved into chastity she knew how much I loved it around them back and this is the ultimate.