ruined orgasm

  1. C

    Last night 1 w/cntyhsbnd

    Just saving true recountings of my relationship so I can enjoy them later Last night: I had started to doze off during a rerun of True Blood. I told her I was tired in the hope we could turn out the lights and put the bed down, she said something to the effect that we could go to bed when...
  2. C

    Advice needed!

    Hi everyone! My girlfriend and I have been into chastity for five years. Currently i will have my next orgasm when I lose weight and smoke less. The rules are simple: - I obviously always have to keep the chastity cage -Always wear pantyhose under my trousers and a containment sheath 24/7 -...
  3. PornAddict103

    Do you think ruined orgasms are cheating?

    I haven't had a release for about 2 months (caged O), and 12 days ago I had an accidental ruin while doing a routine cock cleaning and it made my urge for release even worse... I'm seriously craving another ruin right now. I know it'll only get worse as I attempt to go through Locktober without...
  4. T

    Ruined was glorious

    One morning I was waking up and not had the cage on. I was edging that night and woke up hopefully to another edging session. To my surprise three or four strokes had me over the edge and I was limp. I stopped and felt it coming. Usually nothing happens and I go back to sleep. Well this...
  5. caged4domina

    Ruined orgasm?

    About a month or 2 ago I woke up after a full night of sleep and came. I have many times woken up to the feeling of a stream of pre cum leaking out but this was different. I ejaculated a load of sperm but didn't feel any pleasure and afterwards my energy level was generally unaffected. Does this...
  6. L

    Debating what to do when I can unlock

    So I am on my longest lock up that i have ever had. My goal is 1 full month. I am 20 days in, very horny and excited, but as I have been fantasizing/dreaming about going a full month for so long.... But now I am at a cross road. When my 1 month is up, I really want to experience the mind...
  7. PornAddict103

    Something weird but awesome just happened to me...

    Lemme explain this one... I'm very physically sensitive and recently my body decided to trick me by falsely making me feel a slight irritation under my cock yesterday morning, so I momentarily unlocked myself to check down there. Everything was fine, so I went to lock myself back up and upon...
  8. PornAddict103

    Caged orgasm VS Ruined orgasm

    For those with more experience in chastity, What are all your thoughts on intentionally cumming in your cage VS having your orgasm being ruined either by accident or your keyholder doing it on purpose (also in your cage)?
  9. Alatari Yassavi

    First Successful Ruined Orgasm

    I don’t know if this is the right place to post this. I am so excited that after many attempts over this past year, I have successfully given myself a ruined orgasm! I have been trying to get the timing right and learn when stimulation needs to end. I finally did it! It is both incredibly...
  10. Dmitry

    Ruined orgasm — help please to make it real.

    Me and my wife are experiencing chastity for about 6 years. My longest lock-up was only 30 days. The only technique we use to keep my prostate healthy is pegging and thus a bit of fluids comes out. It looks like, that we may shift to longer lock-ups period. I am very concerned about prostate...
  11. PornAddict103

    Trying something a bit different...

    So, recently I've been trying to go without orgasm for an entire month and my body doesn't seem to want to allow it. The past 2 months or so, I've been getting spontaneous orgasms in the 2 to 3 week range and I've been resetting the clock every time, only to never make it in the end. :( So, I...
  12. Happy chastity boy

    Chastity Goals for 2024

    It's already mid-December, which means it's time to set goals for 2024. This has been a preparatory year for me to get used to the chastity cage, find the right size for long-term wearing, learn to sleep in it, gradually transition to wearing chastity 24/7. The still unachieved goal of last...
  13. Westu

    Caged Prostate orgasm

    I just experienced my first prostate orgasm with zero penis touching … wholly a result of prostate massaging. I remained caged and the whole event was commanded by my Lady C. It was amazing, taking about 5 mins to subside, and the prostate fluid release was significant. My question is, for the...
  14. Westu

    Ruined orgasms - what’s your trick ?

    Looking for any info people want to share on ruined orgasms…. How to give one as a Keyholder/Domme/Dom ? How to get one solo ? Any other info you might want to share ? Thanks in advance !
  15. C

    start of my journey

    Hi all!! I'm 20 years old, I've been fond of femdom for 6 years already. I don’t have a wife / girlfriend, because a lot of work simply doesn’t allow me to spend time on this, but someday I’ll have to .. but for now I will close alone i cum only on bbc or censored pic!!:)
  16. Andylocked

    Partner’s Preference for Cleaning The Pipes

    Ok, for those whose partner really doesn’t like you during “the drop” and would prefer that you have as few FULL orgasms as possible: Does your partner control HOW your pipes are drained? Do they prefer you stay caged with as little pleasure for your dick as possible and drain you via prostate...
  17. bknd90

    Quality vs Quantity training for chastity progression...

    Coming off of my depression/failure from Locktober…I've been having a mental struggle with chastity in terms of duration/quantity. I've been really feeling bad about myself/confidence with chastity, so I started to think outside of the box with my own perception of chastity progression/training...
  18. longtallsally

    Another name for 'ruined orgasm'?

    A rare success the other day (see my journal) giving him a ruined orgasm. But... I don't like the phrase 'ruined orgasm' because it feels so negative. Or at least, I wish there could be another phrase to use instead from time to time, when I just want it to be a positive thing, rather than...
  19. D

    Powerful words

    I have been on CM for a bit. It’s nice to hear and share our experiences. It has been a good year and a half since my wife KH has taken control. Well something new has occurred, while in our kitchen cooking, I am locked and she was hugging me and started to whisper in my ear, I began to feel...
  20. Andylocked

    Ruined Orgasms

    Anyone here strict enough with themselves to believe a Ruined orgasm is cheating? I was wondering what the consensus on this forum was regarding ruined Os… To me, it seems that dicklet would be getting way too much pleasure - if it gets you to the point of ejaculating - which it effectively...