Hello everyone. I would like to introduce myself to this Forum, which I have been watching with increasing interest over the past few weeks.
I have joined today, under the rather grand title of Mistress K, and I hope that my choice of name hasn't 'trodden on anyone's corns'.
Our domestic life has changed over the course of a good many years, from some kind of anarchy, where no-one was in control of the Home, the marriage or anything much else, and things went their own sweet way - which often wasn't all that sweet, if truth be told, to one in which I decided that the Household needed a proper Head, and that it could only be me. Consequently, and for a long time, we functioned reasonably well as a Domestic Disciplinarian and Her mate, which evolved, as these things will, into more of a Dominant/submissive relationship which is where we are now and which seems to be running effectively and happily.
I must, at this point, say that I have never imposed physical chastity on my husband, but I am becoming very taken with the idea and have every intention of doing so in the New Year. I am, therefore, unable to take part in many of the fascinating discussions here on Chastity Mansion, but there is a topic I would like to bring to the attention of the Forum if I may, concerning the use of enforced nudity and partial nudity in a D/s relationship. I would appreciate any comments that anyone might care to make and of course, any suggestions I might be able to incorporate into our day-to-day routine.
The following is taken from a post I made to another Group I belong to, with one or two amendments to adapt it to this Forum; if it doesn't all make sense, please let me know and I'll try to make it more intelligible.
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Miss P floated a very interesting topic in her recent post to the Group, concerning enforced nudity of the submissive in the presence of his Mistress. This is a very effective and quite easily-achieved way of removing from the submissive one of the greatest of his comfort zones, especially if his Mistress is fully-dressed and wearing smart, stylish or even sexually attractive clothing herself.
The almost inevitable tumescence this will bring about in the submissive can be a fine source of amusement to the Mistress and even a degree of flattery, as well as giving her ample opportunity to comment on the submissive's lack of control over his bodily needs and wants, the disappointing size of his genitalia and so on.
Unfortunately, such displays can quickly become both tiresome and untidy - and may even lead to the inadvertant leaving of little 'calling-cards'; again, it can be quite fun to have the submissive deal with these little occurrences in humiliating and entertaining ways, but they do tend to pall after a time.
Oddly enough, total nudity, to my dear sweet boy at any rate, is less embarrassing than partial nudity, provided the clothing he is made to wear is carefully chosen for the maximum effect. From my own experiences in discussing this theme in D/s Forums, I have discovered that a great many males have both a fascination with and a horror of being made to wear female underclothes - I swear I shall never understand what it is that makes a submissive - or indeed, any man - 'tick'! However, as Sun Tzu said, in his 'Art of War','The warrior (the Mistress in this case) uses the weapons that come to hand'.
I have found that my pet, while now quite inured to wearing panties - I always insist the he calls them 'my knickers' - my thanks here to one Miss Pascale, a very efficient Domme - being made to wear them in very 'girly' colours, or with kittens, lipstick 'kisses', ribbons or frills can still make him turn a delightful shade of 'embarrassed pink'!
Bras, panti-hose and in particular, stockings and suspenders, perhaps with a pretty garter can take any machismo and bluster out of him in no time at all and make him a VERY quiet, obedient and eager-to-please boy, as well as providing a wealth of, albeit rather cruel, entertainment for my girl-friends when he acts as maid at my 'gatherings'.
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I do so hope you have found this short introduction worthy and that I, and possibly my pet, might come to be accepted in this wonderful, adult and uninhibited Forum.
Mistress K.
I have joined today, under the rather grand title of Mistress K, and I hope that my choice of name hasn't 'trodden on anyone's corns'.
Our domestic life has changed over the course of a good many years, from some kind of anarchy, where no-one was in control of the Home, the marriage or anything much else, and things went their own sweet way - which often wasn't all that sweet, if truth be told, to one in which I decided that the Household needed a proper Head, and that it could only be me. Consequently, and for a long time, we functioned reasonably well as a Domestic Disciplinarian and Her mate, which evolved, as these things will, into more of a Dominant/submissive relationship which is where we are now and which seems to be running effectively and happily.
I must, at this point, say that I have never imposed physical chastity on my husband, but I am becoming very taken with the idea and have every intention of doing so in the New Year. I am, therefore, unable to take part in many of the fascinating discussions here on Chastity Mansion, but there is a topic I would like to bring to the attention of the Forum if I may, concerning the use of enforced nudity and partial nudity in a D/s relationship. I would appreciate any comments that anyone might care to make and of course, any suggestions I might be able to incorporate into our day-to-day routine.
The following is taken from a post I made to another Group I belong to, with one or two amendments to adapt it to this Forum; if it doesn't all make sense, please let me know and I'll try to make it more intelligible.
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Miss P floated a very interesting topic in her recent post to the Group, concerning enforced nudity of the submissive in the presence of his Mistress. This is a very effective and quite easily-achieved way of removing from the submissive one of the greatest of his comfort zones, especially if his Mistress is fully-dressed and wearing smart, stylish or even sexually attractive clothing herself.
The almost inevitable tumescence this will bring about in the submissive can be a fine source of amusement to the Mistress and even a degree of flattery, as well as giving her ample opportunity to comment on the submissive's lack of control over his bodily needs and wants, the disappointing size of his genitalia and so on.
Unfortunately, such displays can quickly become both tiresome and untidy - and may even lead to the inadvertant leaving of little 'calling-cards'; again, it can be quite fun to have the submissive deal with these little occurrences in humiliating and entertaining ways, but they do tend to pall after a time.
Oddly enough, total nudity, to my dear sweet boy at any rate, is less embarrassing than partial nudity, provided the clothing he is made to wear is carefully chosen for the maximum effect. From my own experiences in discussing this theme in D/s Forums, I have discovered that a great many males have both a fascination with and a horror of being made to wear female underclothes - I swear I shall never understand what it is that makes a submissive - or indeed, any man - 'tick'! However, as Sun Tzu said, in his 'Art of War','The warrior (the Mistress in this case) uses the weapons that come to hand'.
I have found that my pet, while now quite inured to wearing panties - I always insist the he calls them 'my knickers' - my thanks here to one Miss Pascale, a very efficient Domme - being made to wear them in very 'girly' colours, or with kittens, lipstick 'kisses', ribbons or frills can still make him turn a delightful shade of 'embarrassed pink'!
Bras, panti-hose and in particular, stockings and suspenders, perhaps with a pretty garter can take any machismo and bluster out of him in no time at all and make him a VERY quiet, obedient and eager-to-please boy, as well as providing a wealth of, albeit rather cruel, entertainment for my girl-friends when he acts as maid at my 'gatherings'.
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I do so hope you have found this short introduction worthy and that I, and possibly my pet, might come to be accepted in this wonderful, adult and uninhibited Forum.
Mistress K.
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