Hi everyone

Hey, just signed up. I'm mostly interested in learning about devices and device reviews.

I've been wearing cockrings, glans rings and ball stretchers for thirty years. I was aware of chastity cages, but I'm a CIS AMAB and I had no context for chastity outside of the "sissy" culture.

I found some threads on Reddit about non-sissy chastity. This intrigued me deeply; my wife is having a hard time with menopause and our sex life - while she is dedicated to doing everything she can - has dwindled. I found myself spending a lot of time diverting sexual attention into porn, and I'm just tired of wasting my energy like that.

After reading some experiences and looking at pics on Reddit, I got an HT-5 from amazon. I LOVE IT! I LOVE BEING LOCKED UP! It's all the tightness and heavyness of cock/glans/ball rings, but with the added benefits of restricting erections.

I have a cum eating fetish, so with fewer ejaculations, they'll all be bigger - HUGE plus for me.

My wife has already noticed how much more attentive to her needs I am. She's curious about chastity and supports me in it - I've always been the kinkier/more adventurous member of the marriage - but she already does an unfair portion of the emotional labor in our household and I don't want to press her into any kind of D/s dynamic.

My wife and I have an ENM situation, I play with other men on the side. I haven't played with anyone since I discovered chastity. I'm a bottom anyway, so I'll just play it by ear next time I set up a date.

 

Thanks!

 

Thanks everyone!