How do I get over my fear?

No one will know. Just do it.

 

I felt the same way when we first started, reality is nobody is going to notice unless you somehow draw attention to it. After awhile you won't even know you have it on, it just becomes a part of normal everyday life. Only you and your K/H will know the secret. Just relax, take it slow and you'll be fine.

 

Just be confident. Same walk, same posture. No one will know. If you try to start hiding, then people will notice a difference in you. I've gone 60+ days at all kinds of events and gatherings......

 

I have worn - cb3000 ( was noticed by my wife in public)
Birdlock hide well
cb6000s hid very well
HT2 small hid very well
Now new super short metal cage hides super well. no one will ever know - I barley know Iam wearing it..
I have worn a cage and butt plug in public shopping know one looks or cares --

 

Try briefs instead of boxers to hold it closer to your body.

Funny story..in my dress slacks, I sometimes notice that the front pulls taut over the cage and you can see the outline of the bars. I hope it didn't happen, but there's a good chance, in a meeting, I might have been sitting in such a way that my crotch was pulled tight over the cage.

So yes, occasionally it *might* be seen. But on the other hand, folks aren't looking at your crotch as much as you might think. Consider how much time YOU spend looking at other people's crotches. Unless it's your hobby, assume about the same from others.

 

Start off wearing it in public places where nobody knows you, when you are out with your girlfriend. Slowly get used to the idea of wearing it around other people. Wear it to work but take an emergency key with you. Only take it off if you think someone has noticed.

You will soon realise that nobody will notice and the fear will go.

 

I think men suddenly get the thought that just because suddenly they start wearing a device every single member of the public they pass
or interact with are fixated on their crotch area and the clothing has gone transparent !!! Unless you walk around with a new 200 mm codpiece
pointing out through an open zip its simple invisible to anyone..........

 

I wear mine all the time to work. I started out just wearing it when I went out to a store or something. Then I started wearing it to work. At first I was worried it was creating an excessive bulge but then I walked past some floor to ceiling windows and saw my reflection. I couldn't tell anything was different. I wore loose fitting jeans the first time. Then I started wearing tighter fitting slacks. The only time it was slightly noticeable was when I was sitting down and the cage and lock were pressed tightly in the pants.

As an aside though... I did kind of hope one or two of the ladies I work with noticed and then I'd have to explain.... but that's not happened... yet

 

Just remember that while you will be highly conscious of it and convince yourself that everyone is aware of it, I can assure that a chastity device is the very last thing your co-workers, friends and family will think of. And in the very very unlikely event that they are familiar enough with them to suspect anything, well they have some explaining to do themselves. Enjoy

 

well it is a bit scary when you go outside with a cage on and special when you am dressed in skirts and dresses but afters a bit you get use to it.

 

as far as I got it, you don't intend to wear a very tight or verrrrry short skirt...
I admit strolling around admiring girl's legs or a nice bum in tight Jeans, but I never ever had a walk in the park looking for the outlines of chastity-devices!
And if you're still afraid: just think of it as the male counterpart to a push-up-bra!

 

Maybe take a short trip out 1st. And increase your time out and build up confidences slowly.

 

With panties on, the cage is held tighter to your body and the bulge is much less noticeable! Give them a try!