Husband sees ME as porn!

Not any more though!!

 

Maybe this is part of the scope of things we don't really understand about the opposite sex. Women, in general, believe that love and sex are inextricably tied together and have trouble reconciling how men so easily separate the two. Masturbation has no real bearing on our feelings or desire for you. Excessive masturbation bordering on obsessive would be a problem but my feelings are most of us do it to compensate for stress (and because we can). I won't say you shouldn't feel insulted, as your feelings are your own but, maybe a heart to heart is in order (if you haven't already had one) to better understand his reasoning and he can acknowledge your feelings as well.

 

The messages and pictures throughout the day let me know that @Nicoftime is thinking of me and open lines of communication of what we would like to try and what turns us on. I look forward to messages.

 

I have apologized to my beautiful wife and Keyholder For being such a selfish ass. She has forgiven me, but I have a lot of making up to do.

My first act is to publicly shame myself so I can feel a small bit of the shame she felt when she opened up in this forum. So, at her request, I posted pictures of my tiny penis in the gallery. Now everyone can see how inadequate i am. Once you see them you'll understand why she is sexually frustrated. It has since been pierced and locked up and I have found other ways to stimulate her. Now I know that she is more satisfied than before and I don't deserve to ever be unlocked.

 

one shot wont do it. You need two to start then a new one every 3 weeks. Disadvantage is that if his sex drive is too low, you lose control because it's no longer fun for him and you can no longer tease him.

 

Hi!

Don't worry, be happy!

Primo. Better that he jerking off on your picture not on the picture of random pornstar.

Secundo: In the current situation, his mistake is a very good and useful to You. You will have all 4 aces and both jokers. You are Key Holder (and i think You will be also Mistress to Your slave) and You will set The Rules. Every mistake will cost day/week/month of chastity. E.g., You can put price tag for every picture that he published, 1 week per picture. he just says "Yes Mistress". Furthermore, You can put price tag for every other mistakes and for very limited number of "good boy" rewards. Mistakes will cost much, rewards little, day vs hour, week vs some hours etc.
After some months Your chaste boy is truly trapped and for him is no way out, he _must_ be obedient ja honest to You, he _must_ obey to Your every whim.

Tertio. Set Your goals. What do You want? How You want to enforce Your wishes? Do You want TPE? How far do You want to go on the path of D/S or BDSM? etc.

Quarto. Look On The Bright Side Of Life!


WBR
john
P.S. Do not mess with shots, the best is to have him in cage with high sexdrive :-D

 

I struggled with a very severe porn addiction years ago. It consumed everything and I could not stop. I needed drastic measures to change my behavior. I ordered DEPO provera from an overseas pharmacy and used it.

I researched what was given to sex offenders for chemical castration and used those doses. I remained on that dosage for six months and then tapered down and after a year stopped.

I have to say it was the best experience I ever had. It freed me from my addiction and gave me my life back.

After I stopped the injections it took a good six months before i even cared to give a second glance at a pretty woman. After a year my libido slowly started to return. At that point my wife (she supported me throughout all of this) helped me to rebuild my sexuality in a more healthy way.

Now, 3 or 4 years later, I'm able to experience a wonderful sex life and share it with my wife. Chemical castration saved my marriage and maybe my life.

I know this was a drastic thing to do and I was taking a risk. It may not be for everyone and probably shouldn't be considered for recreational use. But in the right circumstances I feel there is a right time and place for chemical castration.

 

@Keyholder For CSG , I would love to hear about the conversation you and @CSG in a Pink 18CP had. I have a pretty good idea what your point of view is, I'd love to hear his.