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I finally plucked up the courage to tell her

Discussion in 'The Tower' started by Naugthy_Trev, Jan 9, 2017.

  1. Hi.

    I'm sorry but I've been a lurker for quite a while on here. My name is Trev. I've never really spoken much on here other than liking posts and the odd comment, Mostly because I was trying to explore the whole Chastity thing in my own mind (isn't a 'normal' kink).
    I was trying to work out if I'm interested in tease and denial, sissification or cuckolding?? I think it's relinquishing control to her. Tease, denial and the humiliation. My fear has always been if this fantasy will transfer in to reality??

    Well anyway. I'm posting tonight because I finally plucked up the courage to share my thoughts with my lovely lady.
    My heart was pounding and my blood ran cold, but I took a brave pill and I showed her a few things online and she quite likes the idea of locking my cock away rendering it harmless. We read a few guides on uberkinky and she suggested we buy a CB3000 and experiment.

    My nerves are still jangling. Be careful what you wish for, right?
    So wether I like it or not, in two days (Royal Mail 48 hr guaranteed service) I'll discover if male chastity is for us.

    Wish me luck. I'm already going aching.

    Trev
     
  2. Hi @Naugthy_Trev@Naugthy_Trev and welcome to CM. Hopefully you will have a fun and enjoyable time with chastity. Just remember to keep open lines of communication to make it work for the two of you. There is a lot information here to help you out with questions you may have.
     
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  3. Once it begins, it doesn't end. I had a similar discussion 9 months ago and I haven't been unlocked much since. Be careful what you ask for.
     
  4. Congrats! It is awesome that your lady had such a positive, open reaction! Welcome to the forum and pls share your experiences!
     
  5. Just go slowly and don't try to do too much, too soon. Start off with just teasing and denial. When your KH is comfortable with that, you can add other elements to your chastity play. The guys who get their cage and try to lock up 24/7 or even every day at first, usually fail. You have to get used to being locked up. Your skin needs to toughen up. You need to get used to being denied orgasms. Just take baby steps and you will be fine. Good luck and welcome.
     
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  6. Thanks for the advice guys. All really helpful. Take it slow and communicate is the recurring theme.
    Tomorrow is C day.
     
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    very well done. Here's hoping you have some fun.
     
  8. Welcome and good luck!