I want you to cum as little as possible

That's a good way of working it out , a quick calculation of my own actions and I think I've probably had 5000-6000 solo orgasms and given the current rate of me providing her with orgasms it would take over 300 years to repay them which makes it pretty much no more orgasms if we go down that route which I'm sure we won't but it's amusing to think about .

 

I really wish there was a LOL button on this site. That is well done!

 

As you might have observed from earlier play reports, she is quite creative in developing discipline, punishment and ruining methods depending on my personal performance and even inflicting them by myself on me. She did it again.

I was ordered to strip and start arousing myself, supported by her looks (leather, boots, gloves) and commands. "Lube it up and start wanking! Go ahead, make him hard and get yourself to the edge but don't you dare to cum without permission!" (As if I would ...) Whenever getting close, I had to give warning and slow down and stay on the edge. Managed to repeat a couple of times. As we all now, that builds up a certain amount of jizz.

Then the evil plan unfolded. She presented a small digital scale capable of 0.01g accuracy, took a sheet of kitchen paper, crumbled to fit on the scale and weighed it, which yielded 2,71g tare.

"Permission to cum. And then collect everything with that paper towel. I'll weigh afterwards and every 0,1g gives you one cane strike. Now, go ahaead! The more you can hold back, the better for you."


So the events took their course and I approached as careful as i could and being cautious but all the edging did its job. Finally I tried like trying to hold back pee, but to no success. The load (or at least most of it) ended up in the paper and she finally squeezed any rest out.

I then made the mistake to remark that there's also some lube in the result but of course that was a bad idea because all of her reaction was a raised eyebrow and a drop of spit also added to the towel.

Finally, we got 4,92g altogether, leading to a result of 2,21g. Making this 23 with the cane. I get permission to clean up and the measures were executed immediately afterwards - 5 days lockup came on top. I'm still in for another day and this exercise was announced to be repeated, giving me future opportunities to train ruining myself with holding back cum and suppressing incoming orgasms. Future results may also influence lockup duration.

cw

 

For me it's flipped. I tell my wife I want to cum as little as possible. When she teases me I beg her to not let me cum. I am disappointed when she does make me cum which isn't often

 

Over the last 5-6 years my kh has allowed me to orgasm less and less. 2021 I was allowed 11 orgasms, last year 9 and so far this year I've only been allowed five. When she does allow me release it feels so incredibly good but I honestly never know when that will be.

 

That's intense. It's a hard no for me (not that my "no" carries any weight in my relationship), but just the thought of it is still pretty intoxicating. Definitely an example of the fantasy being preferable to the reality ... but it seems you are enjoying it!

 

My GF and I have the same view; Orgasm is bad. Plus she loves to tease and deny, and she also loves being really horny.

She says plainly; You'll never cum again. Realistically, it is more; If you cum again it wil be an accident.

So while I may say I want to cum, especially when she is teasing me or we're making love, I really don't want to.

I enjoy how I am feeling right now, after 168 days without an orgasm or ejaculation, and only one this year. The one I had wasn't worth it.

 

On the very rare occasions that I’m allowed out of cage and given permission to cum; it is always followed by a severe thrashing.

 

Just to explain – with us chastity play and anything kinky revolving is mostly really an extra spice in our sex universe, not a long term lifestyle (I think my longest lock up was around a week or so which may sound ridiculous to most of you here).

It's used to vary and influence occasional plays and their variations (we both do switch) in the several described ways (see some of my other session reports). Discipline play influences obedience play influences role play influences spanking influences tease&denial influences collaring&leashing influences pet/beast play influences (hidden) public play. Hey, even the influencing itself is influenced forth and back and criss and cross. Just like above - That described denial and ruining sets up future rules for other opportunities and may entail other followups and/or spontaneous actions and consequences. It's quite an arousing flow.

Have fun everyone
c-w