So us locked up males are locked for a reason: Too much self help Had an affair For the kink But, why do males do this for the kink? Male chastity makes them more loving and more attentive to their wife’s needs for sure. They hope that the more they do for their loved one, the more they will get… But is that true? I am now caged for 40 days. I would do everything my wife asks of me. But I do not hanker for a cum!! But I will still do it! What mad evil magic is at work here? Lol! I was promised a full cum in June - but I personally suggested a date in July! Are we all just mad or is a cock cage really the Holy Grail of Love and Attention for Women From Their Men ??
Not in my case. I just happen to love enjoying seeing my GF BE as sexual as she wants to be, and I know it's impossible for one man to have the stamina and robustness it takes to fully satiate a woman with a robust libido. I've provided unreciprocated oral to my GF probably over a thousand times by now, with no drive to have it reciprocated or to seek any kind of "reward" in the future. I worship the ground she walks on and I worship her. It just feels like a natural thing to me. I'm not doing it to incur favor of any kind. I do think enforced male chastity is a great way to ensure men in general provide the appropriate level of attention to their women. It's not the be-all, end-all, of course, but it is a great way to get him to focus on her pleasure to whatever extent *she* feels is appropriate before she will allow him to focus on his own. And I have a seen a HUGE number of women write and state in videos that locking their men up in a chastity cage did incredible things for their sexual relationships (Dr. David Ley has written a book about this talking about how it changed his relationship with his wife, as well). Without the chastity, as we all know, the vast majority of men will focus either solely or primarily on their own sexual satisfaction and may or may not care if she gets hers. That is just not acceptable in today's world, IMO. So I don't know if I'd call it the "Holy Grail," but it sure can be a positive addition to a couple's relationship if the woman learns how to implement and use it correctly.
Keeping one partner locked and denied is always going to be a completely different experience every couple, based on so many different factors If it works for you.. great If it does not ....then maybe it's time to either re-evaluate how TTTWD fits in with your dynamic and life-style
Its wonderful how male chastity affects us. Putting my cock in a cage changed our married lives for good; I have gone from a man who masturbated all the time and had PIV with my wife weekly, to a man who never masturbates and hasn;t cum in months- but gives his wife sexual attention daily. My penis has gone from being my pleasure stick, that wanted to cum inside my wife to something my wife can tease as i play with her. I;m 60 now and my cock is as rock hard as it was was when I was in my twenties. My wife likes the new, more attentive, less messy lover i have become.
I think a LOT of women who get into chastity kind of reluctantly at the beginning figure this out if they use chastity correctly, and a great many of them want to continue it. I'm glad your wife discovered its...benefits.
My experience: a powerful method for feminization and control by the dominant. Submissiveness is very enhanced.