Hello everyone, for a fried I am looking for a book. As she came in contact with femdom, female dominance and flr just recently she is looking for a good book about a submissives mind. Trying to understand why he / she (must not be from a males point of view though from a submissives / slaves point of view imght be best) wants to submit, why he is craving to be led and maybe even humiliated. Why he wants what he wants what he thinks, wishes and fantasizes about. Would be great if someone knew a good book he could recommend.
I find "The Topping Book" and "The Bottoming Book" to be excellent, though they are written from a gender neutral standpoint.