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New for me to being locked. Trying to help my wife with her insecurities. Has anyone had luck in this area? Is it true that your dick will get smaller? Married 20 years have never cheated she had a health scare and insecurities had started hoping this will help any advice appreciated
 
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Welcome to our community. Good luck and enjoy. i have gotten smaller, but believe a majority to that is due to aging. Most folks say any shrinkage from cage is temporary.
 
Bottomone25 said:
New for me to being locked. Trying to help my wife with her insecurities. Has anyone had luck in this area? Is it true that your dick will get smaller? Married 20 years have never cheated she had a health scare and insecurities had started hoping this will help any advice appreciated
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I am down to 4.5" from my normal 6.5". For us it does not matter as my wife is only into women for sex but me for marriage so we got into chastity which limits my wife's need to deal with a penis but allows her to have lots of orgasms by her vibrator.

My wife was not into it at first and we had no sex for a year after we moved away from her girlfriend. Chastity was a good solution for us but after 15 years of locking me up, she has grown to enjoy teasing me sexually and not having to even touch my penis most times. She only cums on her vibrator so chastity works out well for us. I love being teased and denied and she loves not having to be penetrated by me. 35+ years without any penetration sex and our marriage is still great even though my wife does not find a penis sexually arousing.

You have to talk to each other a lot and work it out so that both of your needs are met. Lots of discussions and we change our "rules" all the time if they are not working or become boring. An example is that for my birthday next week I will have my hands bound, wear a hood so I cannot see or smell my wife and wearing female lingerie so my wife and pretend I am her female girlfriend. I get the sexual submission I crave plus sexual pain which has always been my mainstay. We both get what we want sexually so it works out for us.
 
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