Pain during funishment

[Mr_anonymous]

Reading here it seems consensus is most of the people inflicting whatever form of pain like to see tears, hear stop, or squirming etc. In our case its the polar opposite. She wants to paddle, flog, what have you basically a statue. She wants no noise, no squirming just sit still and shut up. The spreader bar help keeps me in place, I do hop when she squeezes my balls despite my best efforts. The pillow and blanket over my head muffle noise though I still apparently make some. Not a bragodocious thing but I feel there has to be other women like mine just want you to be still and take it.

 

[PornAddict103]

Pain is a deal-breaker for me. I won't sit there and just take it.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

Pain is a deal-breaker for me. I won't sit there and just take it.

That's valid. But if you get a kh one day likes hurting you a little. In return you get all the benefits. You going to say no? Maybe even learn to like it.

 

[PornAddict103]

I'll always have an emergency backup key out of any KH's hands and if they decide they want to hurt me, then i'll tell them to keep the keys and I'll send them the cage with a goodbye letter. As I said, pain is a deal-breaker for me. That's not the right woman for me.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I'll always have an emergency backup key out of any KH's hands and if they decide they want to hurt me, then i'll tell them to keep the keys and I'll send them the cage with a goodbye letter. As I said, pain is a deal-breaker for me. That's not the right woman for me.

Again valid. We all have deal breakers.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I'll never be cucked, feminized, or man on man stuff for example. You're daily teasing is my thricly a week paddling I guess is best way to put it.

 

[Ma'at Rebekah]

anything over 4 swats puck is gagged and secured so movement and noise is limited. i do not like a moving target or loud noises the whole house can hear. beside the red welts a little movement and sound lets me know i am getting through to her. when i use a paddle i do love a red ass and when her barely visible brands show up in a much brighter red than the rest i know my work is done.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

anything over 4 swats puck is gagged and secured so movement and noise is limited. i do not like a moving target or loud noises the whole house can hear. beside the red welts a little movement and sound lets me know i am getting through to her. when i use a paddle i do love a red ass and when her barely visible brands show up in a much brighter red than the rest i know my work is done.

She thinks gags are weird and they are uncomfortable honestly so I'm not upset she doesn't use them. A pillow and blanket over my head seems to do job well enough for her. I need to get better about lurching forward in bar though I've been told.

 

[Ma'at Rebekah]

i would be concerned covering the face could lead to undesirable complications. gag and hood are as far as i am willing to take it.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I'm face down obviously with head turned. I can breathe fine. Worst case we have emergency hand signals.

 

[madams-sissysub]

My Madam is quite similar! Although Madam likes the noises, she enjoys hearing my suffering for her! But she does expect me to remain motionless when she is administering a beating.
We have put restraints on the bed easily as it’s a metal frame. And I got four cheap plain leather dog collars to go round the legs of the dining table to act as fixation points, they work quite well.

 

[NowIveDoneIt]

I was just paddled last night. For us the paddling is all my kink but she obliges so any pain noises are a no no for me- she would stop. I desperately want to get to the point I am begging for it to end yet she carries on- but that day may never come. So what I have done is brought back out the paddle that I hate so dearly. I have asked her to pause after she hits to see me go bak to a rested state from the full body wince, give me a circle or two of rub with it and then hit again. But it really dampens it not being able to cry out a bit.

 

[Queens servant73]

I have to be quiet as we still have our youngest living at home, Wife uses a rubberized plastic rug beater which is very quiet and hurts badly. She gives me little breaks after a handful of swats so I can catch my breath, and she doesn’t mind if I flail my legs a little bit. We had the under mattress straps for a while but she rarely bothered to lock me down, so I just put them away in the toy box.
My Wife isn’t super harsh with the beatings either, but she does giggle as my ass turns red, so she does enjoy it

 

[Lancerexford]

...She wants no noise, no squirming just sit still and shut up. ...... Not a bragodocious thing but I feel there has to be other women like mine just want you to be still and take it.

My wife is somewhat like that when she wants to get some anger out. It isn't about me, and she doesn't want the sight of me to bring up unwanted thoughts of love or guilt.

 

[vinnyD]

Reading here it seems consensus is most of the people inflicting whatever form of pain like to see tears, hear stop, or squirming etc. In our case its the polar opposite. She wants to paddle, flog, what have you basically a statue. She wants no noise, no squirming just sit still and shut up. The spreader bar help keeps me in place, I do hop when she squeezes my balls despite my best efforts. The pillow and blanket over my head muffle noise though I still apparently make some. Not a bragodocious thing but I feel there has to be other women like mine just want you to be still and take it.

I am a pain pig. I need pain to orgasm and my wife needs to hear me moan in pain to cum too. Both my wife and her ex girlfriend who lived with us for 30 years enjoyed listening to my moans of pain. In fact, the two girls sigh with pleasure when I moan in pain. I have played with a lot of people in BDSM clubs in the distant past and everyone liked to make their subs scream in pain. For us being silent when tortured would not be a turn on but everyone is different. A lot of the fun, as women have told me, is to watch me squirm, scream, try to avoid the pain. They liked to see me dance in pain. Personally I do not find sexually hurting someone arousing if they are not screaming in pain. Might as well whip a pillow.

I can see the attraction some may have to whip someone and have them keep silent because they were ordered to do so but I have not run across that in my life but can see how some may like it.

 

[enslavedbyc]

We don’t do “funishment”, it’s either punishment (which doesn’t always involve pain but will be effective nonetheless or S&M (for her pleasure). If she intends pain she will apply it until I am unable to maintain composure (she can tell if I’m faking to keep things dialed down).

 

[Mr_anonymous]

We don’t do “funishment”, it’s either punishment (which doesn’t always involve pain but will be effective nonetheless or S&M (for her pleasure). If she intends pain she will apply it until I am unable to maintain composure (she can tell if I’m faking to keep things dialed down).

We all know it's exactly that a funishment to 99% of people. Actual punishments are rare in comparison since we want to go there. I'm just calling it what it is for the majority of people.

 

[enslavedbyc]

We all know it's exactly that a funishment to 99% of people. Actual punishments are rare in comparison since we want to go there. I'm just calling it what it is for the majority of people.

Your usage is not wrong and no criticism is intended. But, funishment usually implies a the roleplay of an infraction as an excuse for a sub to receive the spanking (or other thing) the sub desires. In our case punishments are for my occasional lapses (and if they involve pain it’s pain I hate), S&M is purely for kicks no satisfaction on both are parts. Nothing wrong with funishment it’s just not our thing. We’ve done it a handful of times as part of really immersive role plays, and it see its appeal.

 

[denied_one]

I was just paddled last night. For us the paddling is all my kink but she obliges so any pain noises are a no no for me- she would stop. I desperately want to get to the point I am begging for it to end yet she carries on- but that day may never come. So what I have done is brought back out the paddle that I hate so dearly. I have asked her to pause after she hits to see me go bak to a rested state from the full body wince, give me a circle or two of rub with it and then hit again. But it really dampens it not being able to cry out a bit.

Oh geez @MrsLockNkey gets me good with the bath brush here til I'm a blubbering mess.

https://www.spankingtube.com/video/149117/severe-otk-therapy-session

She loves my reactions

This was 20 years ago

 

[NowIveDoneIt]

Oh geez @MrsLockNkey gets me good with the bath brush here til I'm a blubbering mess.

https://www.spankingtube.com/video/149117/severe-otk-therapy-session

She loves my reactions

This was 20 years ago

Oh I have seen your ass whippings and I am quite jealous. It is a work in progress for me. In the last 2 years I have taken a dead bedroom to my wife pegging me, whipping me and asking me to lock all while having sex 4x this month and me worshipping her another 8x. So I am not the man who should complain, but seeing certain things makes me shudder....

 

[denied_one]

Oh I have seen your ass whippings and I am quite jealous. It is a work in progress for me. In the last 2 years I have taken a dead bedroom to my wife pegging me, whipping me and asking me to lock all while having sex 4x this month and me worshipping her another 8x. So I am not the man who should complain, but seeing certain things makes me shudder....

Sir, I cannot tell you the horror that I felt during that one, specifically when you watch and I'm literally begging Her for "no more" and you can see me try to cover my bottom with the blanket underneath me and show throws it off and keeps going....at that moment, I have lost all composure. Talk about a spanking I will NEVER forget. I mean this was happening at the hands of a 21 year old woman. Just bliss.

I can assure you I thank God for this woman and all She is to me and for me.

I applaud you've efforts in your bedroom and wish you further, continues success!

 

[squier]

My lady wants to see and hear reactions, but only in an appropriate way. Loud moaning and screaming, moving to lessen or prevent the punishment, that is absolutely not acceptable. She also talks to me now and then in a calm voice and expects me to respond. I wouldn't notice if I were too loud.