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Hello, I have been wearing chastity devices now and then since a few years, however, my flaccid penis is at about 4 to 5 cm. Now I have a cage which is 9 cm long, too long to feel good in my pants.

Should I buy a cage which is 4 cm to get it right fitting, not bulky anymore in my pants and to adjust more quickly to wearing full time?

I masturbate too much and my wifi isn't happy about that. She is not really dominant.

Any advice?
 
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The smaller the cage the better your penis will adapt and and it’s much more comfortable wearing full time under your clothes and the wife likes to see the gradual size reduction. 5cm or 1.95 inch plastic resin cage seems good for me now but hoping to go to a 4cm or 1.6 inch soon. Good luck with your smaller cage.
 
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77banditone said:
The smaller the cage the better your penis will adapt and and it’s much more comfortable wearing full time under your clothes and the wife likes to see the gradual size reduction. 5cm or 1.95 inch plastic resin cage seems good for me now but hoping to go to a 4cm or 1.6 inch soon. Good luck with your smaller cage.
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Thanks for your input! How does it feel when you get horny?
 
Why are chastity cages actually that expensive? I was looking for a small cage but not to small and saw the CB X Mini Me but costs about 129 euro's... The thing is I want a cage with ring that is open so it is more convenient to put it behind my balls.
 
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I use the Ternence hinged ones (with the supplied tube over the hinge) …. About $35 from Amazon
 
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Having a smaller cage reduces the painful discomfort of an erection attempt. Why? Because your penis is still in the soft and squishy state when it's flaccid. When it gets in a harder, more erect state, the skin is stretched and more easily damaged by any hard edges of the cage.

But there still is discomfort from an erection attempt in a short cage... it's a different type of discomfort. It's the woeful ache of a suppressed erection that can't be realized. It's a mental, emotional & physical discomfort all balled up into one ache. It's that ache that Charlie Brown experiences everytime he tries to kick the football and Lucy pulls it away at the last possible second, only his is a bit more short-lived and intense. Some people might refer to it as "blue balls" but in my case it's a "blue" penis. Sad, woeful, and desperate to stand tall.
 
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77banditone said:
I’ve been happy with these plastic resin cages off of Amazon $26 many different sizes and colors available !
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In know there are lots of them but I prefer an open ring or hinged because a closed ring feels a bit claustrophobic. It will be just me I suppose 😅.
 
Ok I bought this one and it's very comfortable....is this what you mean? Very inexpensive
 

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But when I buy another one an a couple months, I am going. To try this one, I like the top of this one better than the one I have, for urinating purposes

These are from Amazon
 

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chastitymale85 said:
Should I buy a cage which is 4 cm to get it right fitting, not bulky anymore in my pants and to adjust more quickly to wearing full time?
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If you want to wear a cage full time, a cage no larger than your flaccid state is usually the most comfortable. The smaller cage may take some time to get used to.

Remember to stay open with your wife about this, even if she is not dominant. Just don't push her. Tell her you are doing this to avoid masturbating, which would probably please her, since she does not like you masturbating too much..
 
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That's the cage I have been wearing for over 2 years.
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It's a real winner....

But look at the opening of the second picture I shared ...it's more of a longer narrow opening.

Might I ask are you cut or uncut?
 
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