Starting smaller chastity

Yesterday evening me and my wife had a quick talk to spice up our sex life. She agreed with me wearing a much smaller chastity cage to masturbate a lot less and she told me that she also wanted more sex. Now it's once a month. However we discussed that I will have to wear a chastity cage more often. So it will be stimulating her with my hands, toys and tongue.

This is a great development, unfortunately we both got sick this night so we will have to wait now until we are recovered.

When we get better we will also discuss the lifestyle further, I believe she's open to it now. I want her to give me blowjobs and handjobs only with a condom on, so my penis will get less sensitive from porn and we can better fuck each other...
 
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I'm in the minority of smaller isn't always better. I went up a size awhile back and am much more comfortable.
I agree, there are exceptions to every rule. However, in general I think most guys will do better with smaller, rather than bigger cages. Plus, most guys will want to downsize their cage over time if they are locked 24/7 or something close to that.
 
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Yes, you can get chaffed with a cage that is too long. Aim for the same length as your flaccid penis. Ideally get the same design as the longer one so you can seemlessly swap between the two.
 
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Yes, you can get chaffed with a cage that is too long. Aim for the same length as your flaccid penis. Ideally get the same design as the longer one so you can seemlessly swap between the two.
Thanks, I've ordered a CB-X Mr Stubb which is 4,5cm long. That's about my size flaccid and for now I decided to use a plastic cage.
 
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Thanks, I've ordered a CB-X Mr Stubb which is 4,5cm long. That's about my size flaccid and for now I decided to use a plastic cage.
Thats what I did... Once you have the ring size sorted you can switch over to a metal pretty easily.

For your reference, my CB ring size was ring #3.... which for me matched almost exactly the 45mm Ternence hinged cage with the included rubber tubing installed.

Also note, you can buy the latex tubing very cheap from any hardware store.
 
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