Subtle Signs of Chastity in Public

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    #27 Nicoftime, Jun 21, 2018
    She has her key on her necklace, I have a heart shaped lock on my collar like necklace.
     

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    #29 MistressFionas, Jun 21, 2018
    Fairly standard I guess, my Mistress wears on pendant. She always wears a pendant when going to work, or out. Keys are just another pendant, one symbolic, the other the key. On first day wearing in the office a colleague/friend asked what they represented.
    It's her fav one to wear if we go out.
    Yes pic attached is her with keys
     

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    #30 DonnaSue, Jun 22, 2018
    In answer to the original post. The FLR relationship involves some very, very personal interaction between Mistress and sub and those subtle little glances, innuendo, and even seemingly casual little motions are, to us, a big part of that relationship. When out in a vanilla crowd, nothing has to be said - just a look or a glance can communicate volumes of judgement, appreciation or displeasure on my actions and demeanor. This is, to me, a wonderful thing and it is such a pleasure to have Her direct and guide me in this way.
     
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    #31 Breathe, Jun 22, 2018
    This is one of My favorite elements in our dynamic, too. The eye contact we share (coupled with some knowing smirks) is a delicious way to effectively communicate without saying a word.

    Pet also has a way of throwing out a clever double entendre every now and then, and the only thing that could possibly give us away is the way I laugh or grin... can't be helped, though. :) I've got a sharp little pet.
     
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    #32 El Guapo, Jun 22, 2018
    @Breathe
    I love this post!
    We have particpated in a few threads around about what can be noticed in public.
    Once you learn what to look and listen for, you pick up on it with increasing frequency.
    Once you pay attention to bird calls in the woods, you hear them everywhere.
    And so it holds true for the subtle signs of Domme/submissive & chastity.

    Great contributions from everyone!
    A few triggers for me ...

    @Truly Tasty
    I am pretty certain my wife has her friends over in part becuase they notice I wait on them. I'm positive no one elses husband makes them cappuccinos and stays on top of cleaning up after them.

    @DonnaSue
    I like the idea of constantly adding reminders.

    @Allen1987
    Yup, the kitchen is mine.

    @Breathe
    'positive effects of thorough training'
    I didnt see it happening when it started - but I was being conditioned by a Pavlovian appraoch.
    Now I can smile that I was a successful science experiment.

    @DommeLP
    'Subtle hints'
    Absolutely! That was what I am talking about.
    Keep those eyes and ears open!

    @beck
    Tattoos ... damn. Never thought of that. On the list now!
     
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    #33 Sissycaitlin77, Jun 22, 2018
    nice little thread here Miss Breathe :) thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas. I've enjoyed reading others public chastity ideas to.!!
     
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    #34 Mash2214, Jun 22, 2018
    It’s funny you would say that. When ever I text my wife it’s Ma'am or Mistress. Other people sometimes see her texts and have commented on it. She simply says it’s the way I show respect for her.
     
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    #35 Muzzo4you, Jun 22, 2018
    In vanilla situations, a specially shortened key hides behind her necklace of her favorite flowers, while in other locations the more obvious necklace might be observed.....

    orchids.jpg key showing.jpg
     
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    #36 Neckscarf, Jul 2, 2018
    Mistress wears the key to my chastity cage on a long necklace along with a heart pendant. She often texts me a picture of her neck and cleavage when she is at work - it's such a tease seeing her choice of silk scarf (my major fetish) and the key dangling there for all the girls in her office to see! I often wonder if any of her workmates have put two and two together!
    She has a few scarves she likes to wear to wind me up with a key/keys in their pattern.
    She also has a football style t-shirt she wears to the gym with the word "Mistress" across the shoulder blades....ever so slightly less subtle!
     
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    #37 Retired, Jul 2, 2018
    My wife has a nice key and lock pendant from Tiffany that she likes to wear. Wore it last night when she was out with her girlfriends. To tell the truth most people do not notice much. They are either looking at a phone or lost in their own world. I carry a gun and I can see it under my shirt but not once in 45 years has anyone noticed it. People just do not notice things. These days locks and keys are mainstream to mean key to my heart or whatever else they sell those plain keys for. Out of all the fetishes I have been in, never met one into chastity in real life and probably will not in my tropical paradise of old people. :)
     
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    #38 Lucy, Jul 2, 2018
    @Breathe when I got married these were my cufflinks along with my leather corset, I also had my collar on like @knightservant . I haven't worn my collar for a while now and I do miss it. If someone asks I just told them I wasnt allowed to take it off. If it's a message then the tattoo saying property of d###### sw## is a lot more obvious.
    Hugs
    Lucy x
     
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    #39 sissy_connie, Jul 4, 2018
    I am surprised that none of the women who noticed said anything.
     
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    #40 b_quark, Jul 4, 2018
    Pretty subtle, but... I've bought my wife various pieces of jewelry (anklet, toe ring, Pandora charm, etc.) all featuring lock & key designs. I think it would be great if she wore my actual key on her neck, but it's actually a pretty boring looking Masterlock key and wouldn't be attractive or very practical.
     
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    #41 Breathe, Jul 5, 2018
    I know this 'struggle'; I do not like the thick plastic that surrounds many of the small Masterlocks. That's why I've selected locks based on key appearance first and utility second... Heh.

    Does this make Me 'key shallow'? :D oh well... :rolleyes:

    My part of the chastity 'gear' is on full display and his isn't, after all. I like the key I have now but definitely plan on getting something customized for My 'pendant' in the future.
     
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    #42 Neckscarf, Jul 5, 2018
    @Breathe

    "Key shallow?" - not at all Ma'am, you're in charge of that cock so you can lock it in whatever you like!
     
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