ive been a member for just over two years and i would like too thank everyone who have posted about there journey into chastity and orgasm denial . i followed the advice that people had posted taking your time , not making it all about myself , letting my wife grow into my mistress at her own pace and thankfully for me it worked a treat . for the last year i have only been allowed five orgasms four of them ruined , but no chastity i have been on the honor method and i have been true too it never having any self masturbation . but today my patience finally gave me a reward mistress has just informed me that i shall be going into a cage for her birthday next weekend so too everyone who dreams about chastity and orgasm denial it can come true it just takes time and a lot of love from a great caring mistress
Way to go! And happy trails to you and your wife. Sounds like the two of you have grown together in a way few would understand. But I get it. Enjoy the cage and lock, but mostly let her enjoy it...come what may. Drop your pride, love her. It intensifies the experience on all accounts. For both you, and her. Best wishes.
Sounds like you've found what you wanted, but remember to continue to make it about her. Also, please keep us posted as you make progress.
This is great to hear you and your mistress are able to start down this road. Taking it slow is always the best way, and can usually have the best reward. Hope you both have an amazing adventure together
just a little update iam now in chastity with no date on how long having tried it in the past we both now know she wont let me out until shes ready even when i start pleading for it to be removed has she has done in the past thanks for the replys and on with our journey
Rally impressive. I hope to have just started .. 1 months and a half bit my wife seems to see some pleasurable point in this stuff
Hi Pulledthem Just read your post on your chastity journey with you Wife and it’s good to hear and reconfirm that there is light at the end of the tunnel but it can be a long tunnel. I love chastity and have in the past rushed and pressured chastity with my wife who with good reason it was too much for her and did not take it on board. However this time as you said I am taking thing much slower. She is holding the key now but this time I am not mentioning anything about chastity to her and letting her come to terms with it in her own time and way and letting her lead. For me this time I have realised my dream and that is that she is holding the key which was her decision, anything from now on is a bonus and this time it’s all about looking after her not about me and my wants. thanks again Notouchy
just another update on our journey, chastity in a cage is now only used rarely and seems to be on occasions when were going some place public or family gatherings no idea why but mistress seems to love doing this iam still on long term tease and denial but with the honour system . like mentioned in other posts this form of chastity i have found out for me seems like total submission to my mistress giving her control over body and mind . i now get rewards off mistress she gives me her knickers to keep with we , unbelievable teasing sessions , mistress has even started making me sleep in the back bedroom in a small single bed .the journey just keeps on going getting better and our love for each other seems to be getting stronger who would have thought by taking one thing away it would lead to so much fulfilment for us both .so for beginners take your time dont rush and push people let it evolve its self and everyone else hope your path is as rewarding as mine
Love to hear this! So great! Glad you were patient enough to wait for it to evolve! My wife used to feel bad about denying me. She's now had four orgasms in the last 5 days, and i've been locked for Locktober and NOvember; now she said she's considering "Denial December." It's all so exhilarating!
not posted in a while so hi everyone little update on my journey and a bit of advice to new chastity starters . take your time don't make it all about you and eventually when it happens just make sure you want it because when a woman gets it in her head about the benefits there is no stopping them . just over a year from my last post i am in permanent chastity denied orgasms for a minimum of 100 days, whipped and now just started down the warring knickers route what another year will bring who knows but i look forward too it so good luck to everyone who starts hope you get what you want and a little bit of what you don't
Interesting that your lady chose to apply the chastity on her birthday as opposed to yours. It would seem that this is a present from her, to her, which is an encouraging view. It's refreshing to hear that she enjoys it.