The Wife Files.

Perfect so far....

Tomorrow will mark on our first full week of lock up... I can't express how happy I am with him. His behaviour has been nothing short of exceptional and I can already feel the effects of lock up.

We had friends over on Saturday night for dinner and drinks befor we went to the local bar to play pool and celebrate my birthday. When we had a quick second alone he asked if I would unlock him while we're out.... I think I just laughed and asked why. He told me it would be easier for him to use the washroom. I said no. I didn't even think about it. I wasn't about to open him just so he could stand at a urinal, I told him I would come with him for a walk outside if he had to pee. HE ended up using the urinal anyway.

WE had such a great night out. I have learned how to not get to drunk these days .... it think... and We talked earlier about how he wasn't allowed to have shots of a certain alcohol that always turns him stupid.
MY best friend got wasted and emotional so I went to take care of that... she's such a good girl and wonderful friend and it seems her and I often swap the roles of being the one who's to drunk.lol.
So I packed her up with her soon to be husband and went back to finish the night.

EVerythgin was perfect except for my father who was there being his usual self ....long story... but him being around always effects my mood.
We left out friends at the end of the night and walked up the hill to our house.
Where our other friend left and things got heavy...

We really are incredible together... I know I say that a lot ...

I took a place up on the counter and away he went showing my just how much he loves me.
I knew he wanted me to pee on him so bad... he begged me too.... he even laid on the floor naked begging me ..... :O...how do you say no? I had thought about it but we we're both to much under the influence and as fun as it would have been I didn't want to at that time .... things were just getting going and it was going to be a long night...besides I'm waiting for the right time... as he says I have a master plan, silly boy.
We ended up making it of the kitchen floor and getting to bed where he took it good in his bottom...Untill I came to a wonderful release.
And I still haven't got any cum from him but prostate.
And he took it for a while.

With the kids being gone it gives us an empty house. We took full advantage of it.
I have never her that boy be so desperate... so wanting ... he was so desperate it just made me want to use him more.

We will see what one week brings us to. I can't imagine things will always be so smooth. But I am going to enjoy it while it is.
The love we both have in this relationship is incredible. And I think we both really understand each other.
I really enjoy putting in. Our routine to tell him everyday how much I love him and how he fills my heart with pride.

 

It's been two weeks!
My sweet lover boy hasn't been feeling so great or sexy. And the other night we had a little tiff over how things are going... he had shared with me about how he thought he would be out of his cage more to be played with. This defiantly ticked me off. I gave him the key and said if he want to be played with to go play with himself.
He set it on the floor beside him and the talk continued... but it was more just me being angry. I remember yelling at him that this is not fun and to just take the dman thing off...
Befor Christmas he got upset becuase he wanted to have an orgams and be a man... so I gave him the break..
So after changing the way I was doing things to try to accommodate his feeling more, but some how I once again felt like I was wrong.

Last week I took the time to write things out for him, expectations and ways to get free time from his cage.
Things like wearing a plug for an hour earns him one minute towards his freedom, wearing panties all day will earn him five minutes of freedom... simple and fun things. And with his freedoms he is allowed to get intercorse ,without and orgasm unless I say otherwise, or time to try and reach an orgasmfrom anal.But he didn't want to put the effort in. I told him if he wants to get out he has to earn it! I'm not just going to hand it over.

It really botherd me that I was trying to make it work and be fun and loving and he was just blah and had expectations...
So after I absolutly lost my shit I left the room for what felt like and eternity. When I cam back my key was back on my side table. And he was feeling very sorry. He apologized and reassured me I was doing good.
We made up and I got a lovely orgasm

So for the last week I have had a plan for his two week reward...
I sent him off to work and couldn't wait for him to get home... I wanted to go to sleep early but I couldn't sleep and I was so horny... it has been weeks since I had felt anythgin inside of me... so I pulled out my big boy... and took very good care of myslef. Only taking a picture to send him... I knew if I didn't feel satisfied I would use him for things he didn't need to be used for yet. And that was not in my plans for the night.

When he got home I sneaked out of bed and told him to go fetch the big towel I had just washed. He layed it out on the bathroom floor and got naked. Off came his cage and down he layed... I think he had a bit of a clue what was going on now.
I told him that my penis would be getting a nice shower.... after squatting over his erect penis and a few giggles it started to flow.
I was so turned on and he was watching and moaning and groaning.
It felt like it went on forever ... when I stood up over him. I let more out... it might of been the biggest pee ever... he was soaked an so turned on .... he cleaned up and I told him he now was going to sit on the toilet and masturbate while I watched him and he looked and my sweet lady bits.... and he had to spurt into to toilet bowl.... it took him not even a full minute to finish....
as he bet over to get all his cum in the toilet I was so happy with him rubbing his back. Telling him how good of a boy he is.
All I wanted to do was hold him now and love him.
I told him to lock up again right away.

I think it was a very special gift that I loved giving him. And everyone I expect it will be easier. And I will remember all the things I want to say.

Now to turn him into my little subby boy again.

 

Thank you every thing I share has happened exsactally the way I tell it.

 

Thank goodness for the end of two weeks of afternoon shift...
My boy and I never get to see enough of each other and I feel like all though he's the locked boy. I'm the one begging for attention.
The last two weeks also decided to hand us the man flu... not just a cold the flu. I'm not even sure how he made it out alive. Maybe it was the second orgams he got this weekend?
He really has been the saddest boy. In 12 years of being together I don't think I can ever remember him being that down. EVER. The cure for this was obviously a lot of loving. So Saturday night I let him cum in my bum ... hehehe I always think it's fun to say that. I should add that it was more exciting than just him sticking it in my bum and spurting it out. I was filled both holes! He was in my bottom while one of the toys was filling my other sweet hole. It was heaven.
Something I have always thought about but nothing we have ever tried. And we already know how this part ends.

Now Sunday was my favorite day becuase he decided to put on his sassy pants.
Now I don't take claim nor have I ever said that I am the best house wife ever but for him to tell me I am the worst house wife ever was completely uncalled for. And I know he was grumpy and sick but he has a real problem with not knowing when to filter what he says. I do my best to not put him down, even if I think he is doing something stupid. But I know that if I would of said something like that to him I would oh put down his man hood or some crap like that.
Thank goodness for chastity becuase befor I locked him up it would of taken days to get over this kinda stuff. It only took him about 30 min to come back and apologize. A record I would say.

So this is a problem I have decided to to take care of.
From now on when ever he puts me down or makes me feel shitty over something I have done it will be punished with a spanking. Over the knee spanking.
If he wants to act like a brat I'm going to treat him like one. So that night he layed over my lap and he received his spanking. I think it was a good. But obveously not enough to shut up his sassy mouth.
I feel confident in my choice of when to give him spankings. He really doesn't do anythgin worth giving spanking except for this one thing...oh and when he tries to snoop through my electronics.
His spankings will alwyas be over my knee, and I have moved my wooden hair brush into to bedroom cupboard,as that's my favorite spanking tool.

A few days ago my boys cold got very bad he has asked me to get him some cold meds from the pharmacy and a bottle of Tylenol.
I ended up getting him Tylenol cold and flu. Thinking that would be sufficient brought it home to him only to get my ass chewed. And not a good ass chew.
There was no thank you ... but I did get informed I'm always fucking up and making stupid(his words)choices. This brings us to the nobody is perfect line.... we all fuck up does that mean we have to be put down becuase of it ?
So I told him He was ungrateful and how I made an hounest mistake becuase I thought what I got would be good enough.
He spent 20 min being an asshole and angry about this. But I didn't really care. I already knew this was getting punished. I think he knew right away too.
He told me I could give him a spanking becuase of it , thanks for giving me permission but it was already set in my mind .

 

Don't worry he's not sick anymore.

 

Well, I can say hubby is back to the subby hubby I have been dreaming of.
Last night he came home early from work! What a surprise. As I was feeling lonely and that feeling of wanting to be apart of him becuase I missed him so much was setting in.

Since we now had time I waxed his bum and we cleaned up all his other hair.
Such a sexy man.
I have a rule that if he want me to take care of his bottom he better make sure it is presentable.
Now that he is all cleaned up. He will be reciving his spanking tonight.

 

I My boys rules

Always call me my Queen, mistress or by my real name. Anything else will result in a slap in private.
This is to show me respect and that I am the one who is in controll, you are my boy or my pet.

Do one (at least) one romantic thing a month. This choice is all yours... I want no part in planning.

Keep you bum hairless. IF you want to have it played with I expect it to be presentable.

Worship my bottom at least three times a week.
On you knees for 5 minutes.
Kissing, licking, telling me how much you adore me should be included.

Make time to shower me once a week
Washing and conditioning hair.
Washing my body and rinsing the soap off.
Drying me and wrapping my in my towel.
Brushing my hair.

Kiss me as soon as you wake up or get home from work
Forgetting or neglecting this rule will result in a lose of three minutes of your free time.

I will let my penis out once a week for a stretch.
Your hand will be tied and you will not be alowed to touch unless I tell you to.
I am also allowed to edge you during the stretch.

Failing to ruin an orgasm will result in a punishment I seem fit

Share at least 4 time a week a new porn imagine or video for me to watch.

watersport will be used every 1-2 weeks. It will be a way for me to show you who is your Dom. You will like me clean and talk you after.
You are also responsible for cleaning the mess up after.

I will always treat you with the respect you deserve as my boy and lover.

You will always be giving choices.
Choosing selfishly will result in punishment. You will present me with choice of punishments you think I will find suitable . I will make a choice when ready . Could be a day or a week.

Choosing wisely will alwyas be rewarded.

You will always have choice to have an orgam. But it will be alone and it must be into the toilet. As that's where selfish boys deserve to spurt.
The other choice will always be something to please me sexual or not.



FREEDOM
This list is always open for change.
Completing task will earn you free time out of your charge. I will not ask you or reminde you of these task. They are yours to choose to do.
You can have up to one hour of freedome and no less than 20 minutes at a time.
This freedoms can be used for anything but masturbation and anal.

Wearing plugs
Small earns 1min/hour you wear it
Big earns 5min/hour
Panties
Full day wear /5min
1/2 day wear /2.5 min
Making the bed(once per day) 1 mIn

Completing writing tasks will earn you time as well.

 

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