Trouble Getting into Chastity.

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bodman54

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This may not be the best place for this. If not please redirect me.

Anyway. I really want to get into chastity. I've dabbled around with it here or there. Even bought a cage or two. The only problem is that I can't wear the cages I have for to long. The first one I had broke on me. Then I bought another and it works wellish. The problem is that it is very heavy and if I wear the smallest ring to keep it from slipping then I get a lot of pain in my balls and I have to take it off. If anyone has any advice on how to buy a well fitting one that won't break the bank, it would be much appreciated.
 
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Get your measurements related to the cages you have and your measurements. Than go to amazon and look at different cages that fit you. The ring size is important not to get to small that it hurts but not to big that it falls off or doesn’t stay in place. Length wise go shorter than you are flaccid. You’ll find many cages for a few dollars that may work better. I’ve purchased a few this way and have had good luck. Have fun
 
You have to allow sometime to get use to wearing a cage All the Time. Start wearing it for longer and longer times until you don’t know your wearing it ,Like your Wedding ring. Finding the perfect fit may take some time because as you already know, No two men were created equal.
 
To be honest, I wasted a lot of money on all of the popular cages. I ended up with a custom fitted Jailbird and most times I forget it is on and when I wear it, I wear it 24/7; sometimes for a few years.

Chastity is like many other fetishes. If you want the good toys you need to spend the money. You can play around with the inexpensive things but they rarely last long. I think you will find all those that are into being locked up 24/7 for a long period of time will have a metal custom made cage or other high end device.

The stuff on ebay or Amazon is junk and a waste of money other than just trying it on the cheap to see if you like chastity. The best name brand one I used was the Holy Trainer v.2.
 
You may find that with underwear that provides better support, your wellish working one will work wellishlier. Some guys find that panties provide the right support, plus that extra charge you can only get from wearing panties. I prefer boxer briefs with a separate li’l pouch in front. Experiment a bit and you may find you already have what you need.
 
Retired said:
To be honest, I wasted a lot of money on all of the popular cages. I ended up with a custom fitted Jailbird and most times I forget it is on and when I wear it, I wear it 24/7; sometimes for a few years.

Chastity is like many other fetishes. If you want the good toys you need to spend the money. You can play around with the inexpensive things but they rarely last long. I think you will find all those that are into being locked up 24/7 for a long period of time will have a metal custom made cage or other high end device.

The stuff on ebay or Amazon is junk and a waste of money other than just trying it on the cheap to see if you like chastity. The best name brand one I used was the Holy Trainer v.2.
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This has not been my experience. I've been in a chinese A273-small for about 18 months, see my pics, cost about $15.
 
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I suggest trying a plastic Holy Trainer v2 from House of Denial at around £35. I'm pleased with mine and find it comfortable enough to wear all day at work with no problem. No chance of slipping out either. I might even go for a steel version.
 
if you are on a budget get a chinese steel cage and open up the ring with a dremmel(be sure to sand it smooth after) taking off a little material at a time. I did just that but with a lathe i have at work. you could also ask a local machine shop to open up the ring. just the ring and they will have no clue what its to so no shame in taking it to a professional.
I have been wearing a chinese steel cage after fitting it myself for the ring diameter, 24/7 since mid april.
https://www.dhgate.com/store/product/new-chastity-belt-male-chastity-device-with/398882710.html
the above is the cage i have
get a 45mm ring or whatever the smaller ring size is you cant use, and open that one up with a dremmel or a lathe.
 
Rectrix said:
This has not been my experience. I've been in a chinese A273-small for about 18 months, see my pics, cost about $15.
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You are lucky. I needed specific dimensions that only a custom made device could accommodate. I have not come across anyone who has been able to do what you are doing if you read the blogs for those of us in long term lockup. Do you wear it 24/7/365? A lot of guys could be using expensive devices for the same reason some wear Rolex watches when a Timex will do just as nicely. :)
 
Retired said:
You are lucky. I needed specific dimensions that only a custom made device could accommodate. I have not come across anyone who has been able to do what you are doing if you read the blogs for those of us in long term lockup. Do you wear it 24/7/365? A lot of guys could be using expensive devices for the same reason some wear Rolex watches when a Timex will do just as nicely. :)
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Yes, 24/7/365.
 
I've got a cheap knock-off of the holy trainer. It's the most comfortable device I've ever worn.
I had to cut it to make the hole longer as it never lined up for me but other than that it's been great.

You definitely need to get the cleaning routine down though. It can be a smelly one if you're not thorough.

I've been locked continuously for just over 3 weeks and I'm not experiencing any adverse effects.
 
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