Hi everyone. My wife has had me on the honor system for a little over a month now. We can't lock up until October. She is pretty vanilla and has been trying to come up with some punishments for me when I break the honor system. (Only happened once). Does anyone have any vanillaish punishment ideas I can bring to my wife? Thanks!
Vanilla Punishments
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Peaking my curiosity…why not until October if it’s not something personal? I’ thinking about this as well. We don’t currently have punishments but I think that just her leering at me and fingering the key around her neck would snap me out of bad behavior. She doesn’t wear it yet but we’re beginning to discuss what the framework of our dynamic will look like. I’ll think about it some more…
Here are some fun ideas:
- Cold showers for a week
- No TV privileges
- Do an overdue project
- Sleep on the floor for a week
- None of your favorite snacks for two weeks
We have quite a few of these "vanilla punishments" on my list. Besides the ones mentioned, i am assigned essays on what i did wrong and how to act better next time, corner time, writing a set of lines, and sitting on the prickly doormat naked (brought into the house). These are effective deterrents for me!
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This is very simple and it can go in two directions... Removal and Replacement.
She is simply removing things that you like... like your TV, internet, etc... or replacing things that you like with things you don't like... food, drinks...
You'll think twice before pleasuring yourself when you have lost your favorite meal and are forced to eat your least favorite. Lock that cellphone away for a couple of days... the Favorite thing to watch, nope I think you are better replacing that time with you washing the dishes by hand with a toothbrush. Shower, no hot water...
Just don't look for a "funishment"... I hope she is on here to read this... I am sure you were looking for us to suggest getting spanked or edged, lol. I see you follow @Lexi James , maybe that is her...
No it's not her! But I did show my wife this thread and she loves the ideas!
My madams favourite is getting me to clean the windows, our kitchen/dining area has 3 large windows then the patio doors and the two doors in to kitchen are those fully glazed doors with 15 individual panels, so they have to cleaned both sides as well. It’s incredibly tedious and time consuming and I hate it!
Madam will inspect once I finish and if there are any streaks I have to redo it!
Madam will inspect once I finish and if there are any streaks I have to redo it!
I have house cleaning punishments too and house cleaning to earn a release. My wife has a list of things to do around the house and if I complete them all by Friday, I got a release.
That way she is getting something out of the deal too, she hates housework.
Wasing her car and filling it with gas it another one.
That way she is getting something out of the deal too, she hates housework.
Wasing her car and filling it with gas it another one.
If house cleaning is a punishment are we punishing our wives every time they pick up a vacuum?
Or due to the amount of housework I complete do I actually have one very cruel mistress?
In reality if my wife did have to pick up the vacuum I would probably hear about it! Not even on the day, she’d save it for when I’m trying to initiate something and tell me I’ve not been good enough as she’s had to do x, y and z.
Or due to the amount of housework I complete do I actually have one very cruel mistress?
In reality if my wife did have to pick up the vacuum I would probably hear about it! Not even on the day, she’d save it for when I’m trying to initiate something and tell me I’ve not been good enough as she’s had to do x, y and z.
Housework is punishment to both of us. My wife is very tired tonight so I asked her what I could do to help (like doing the dishes, etc.) while she rested and watched some TV. She said she didn’t want me to do anything, just to watch TV with her. She is a benevolent Queen!
Well, I screwed up tonight and said something disrespectful to my wife in frustration and she immediately cancelled her plans to release me. She told me that I will only watch tonight as she pleasures herself but I will not be allowed to touch her. I’m disappointed in myself but I couldn’t be more proud of my Queen for standing up for herself. This is exactly the behavior I told her I needed her to be strict with me about. Be careful what you wish for!