vanilla

  1. despita2

    From zero to indefinitely locked hero in 10 days

    I will tell you my story of how i got locked indefinitely after just 10 days of toying with it with my wife. This is not fiction. This is my real story. Where Did We Come From? Me: Submissive 47-year-old male Overweight, unfit, though I used to be good-looking Hypersexual Chronic masturbator...
  2. Valentine

    She accepted the key! A chastity journey starts after long years of sexless marriage...

    She said Yes! Tonight the cage will go on, and from there it will be her authority to tell when it can go off again. A journey starts today, and i decided to write a blog following it, hopefully for long years ahead. This blog is for myself, but it is also for the community here, as I had the...
  3. C

    Hello, cage advice, my experiment and telling my wife

    Hello all, Ive just been looking through loads of the old threads and wanted to say just how helpful they were. It's good to know that some of the problems I’m facing have also been problems for others. So, where I’m at at the moment. Ive enjoyed the thought of chastity for a few years and...
  4. Rand

    My name on a jewel key

    When we discussed fantasies with my wife, I told her that I would love her to wear the key on a necklace. She replied that she would tell people that she was wearing the key to my heart. I want to surprise my wife with the Secret Locktober secret from chastity-shop.com to make it real. I...
  5. SleeplessInSeattle

    Any Games That Reference Chastity?

    I saw these recently and it got me thinking, any gamers out there amongst the locked or locking? I was curious how many other normal (non-porn) games out there reference or allude to chastity? (Kingdom Hearts and Zenless Zone Zero for those wondering where the images come from)
  6. ChasteSusan

    Attention is what I crave.

    I know this is in the vanilla section and I can be anything but vanilla. but my wife is vanilla and I don't expect that to change. She has allowed many of my kinks to a degree just to please me in the past, but I know that she is only doing it for me not for her. I introduced chastity about two...
  7. John&Ann

    Vanilla slowly becoming Permanent

    Anyone who has seen my post knows we are about as vanilla as a couple could be. Ann has almost completed menopause; she has not completely lost her sex drive, but it has diminished a lot. Ann and I have been friends since we were 14 years old, and we have been married for about 10 years now...
  8. HerDevotedOne1980

    A new man's journal, from the beginning

    Welcome to my mind.... I've only discovered chastity within the last 2 months. I came across it by happenstance and found it intriguing, and recognized it as a way to control my habit of self pleasure as well as introducing a new element of spice to my marraige. As many will likely agree, I am...
  9. Chazmick

    Tell vanilla wife what locktober is?

    My wife is rather vanilla but has accepted I enjoy chastity and has even held my keys. She currently has my keys locked in a safe and I'm hoping to do all of locktober. Should I explain what locktober is or just let her know it's my goal to stay locked for the whole month? We are sort of at...
  10. Benjiboo

    Hoping to be accepted

    Hello all, I am hoping that I will be accepted and welcome in this community. My circumstances differ to some but may feel familiar to some also. I am a submissive, married man in my late forties, fit and in good health with a wonderful, loving wife and a daughter now working away. We've been...
  11. Caesura

    Chastity > Counselling

    TL;DR My partner has given me his sexuality. It is a positive force, a "love engine" in our relationship, and makes him more romantic and attuned to my wishes and needs. His "excess" sexual energy brings us closer together. Chastity gives me more freedom and confidence. This is our (or maybe...
  12. Disciplined Boyfriend

    Blowjob

    Yes, you read correctly - a blowjob. And we're in the correct forum and not Fantasy and fiction, although the exact choice could be questioned. So we were chatting, as we do a lot, jumping from one subject to another randomly, some about mundane rubbish, work, kink, sport, food. And the subject...
  13. coyotekill

    50 Days

    It’s been 50 days since I last came. I thought it would be nice to write down why I’m here. We play with chastity on and off. I love it when we do and appreciate the freedom when we don’t. My wife tolerates the cage for me and she does see the benefits and loves them but is still very slowly...
  14. C

    Michigan - seeking verified female relationship then keyholder

    Michigan - seeking verified female relationship then key holder. Sorry but I am a FLR +1 until I know this website is not a waste of my time. I am a masculine male in my 50's that is seeking a relationship FIRST then a possible key holder situation. If you can't be local we are wasting our...
  15. C

    Vanilla Punishments

    Hi everyone. My wife has had me on the honor system for a little over a month now. We can't lock up until October. She is pretty vanilla and has been trying to come up with some punishments for me when I break the honor system. (Only happened once). Does anyone have any vanillaish punishment...
  16. Lckdnpnk

    What are YOU getting out of being caged?

    Exactly what do YOU get out of being caged? What did you expect to get compared to what you realize now? Is it improving your life and improving how you feel, how you love, how you work, how you live life? For me, it is facilitating self discovery and helping my wife and I have more intimate...
  17. Lckdnpnk

    Hello world…again!

    Past member from many years ago returning to see what’s up. I originally heard about the Mansion from Sarah J’s Male Chastity Blog. I am an older guy in a happy vanilla marriage but I’m a little bit of a kinkster and my wife is pretty open minded. We keep all our experimentation in our marriage...
  18. C

    How to introduce…

    Hello all, to set up the atmosphere I have been locking myself for the past year. Only for hours never longer and only alone by my side. I would like to introduce to my gf of 4 year the practice but I really struggle how to tell her things… I also dress myself sometimes when I am home alone…...
  19. LutosFlower

    Hello

    I am new here and am a shy, vanilla keyholder, looking for advice and suggestions… thanks
  20. G

    This s@#£ has just started to get real

    It has been nearly 9 months since L discovered my cage the morning after I first put it on. Apart from washing and release for play or sex, I have basically worn it all the time, day and night since day one. We have been married for over 23 years, I have just turned 50 and L is nearly 43. We...