What to do after a year?

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What to do after a year?

  1. Full Orgasm. Understurbed as God intended

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  2. Ruined Orgasm and then locked back up again.

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  3. Continue to stay locked as gone this far. ( this is my favourite one)

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  1. Slave_m1411
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    So, me and my Mistress are very close to a full year locked and without orgasm. I thought it would be intresting to see what people thought should happen when we pass the year mark. Tbh I probably won't even show my Mistress this but it's nice to get peoples opinions and I might mention it I her if it gets enough attention lol.
     
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    How about measuring to see if any shrinkage has occurred? I'm wondering if a year of lock up can really affect size.
     
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    Do as Mistress wants !!!!
     
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    I'm looking at a 3 month period, probably due to start next weekend, so have some interest in this.

    Personally I like orgasms. the whole build up, the overflowing, intense sensations, the humiliation of the spillage etc, but I also like the denial of not being allowed to cum.

    What state do you get to after a year though? I'd question whether you need to cum at all if you're prepared to go a year?
    Was a year your idea or your mistresses?
     
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    Hey all thanks for the responses.
    As far as size goes I'm not sure if I have shrunk or not. I know I still fill my cage the same way when my clitty gets hard but that's it lol.
    It was no ones idea really but I asked my Mistress to lock me up and because of that I will never ask for an orgasm because it seems hypocritical to me. The months just role on and i love the fact we have got to a year. And tbh I don't really want to cum at all now. I think I would beg to not be allowed. I feel like I have run a marathon and so why stop lol
     
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    One year without release & orgasm is almost permanent chastity
    Once you are allowed all the pleasure, you would want it again & again
    So I think you should just carry on the same status even further and forget about your release
     
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    The obvious and I would think the easiest would be no just carry on compleatly orgasam free.

    Especially if it was just one , I would think you would last a few seconds and then immediately regret it.

    May I as how do you feel, you use clity is this an indication of some degree of girly feelings !.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Actually, though I voted for you to stay locked with no release, I'm not so sure now.

    While staying locked and taking on permanent chastity has it's appeal, with the memory of orgasm dwindling to something half forgotten, the idea of being unlocked and told to orgasm once a day for 2 weeks before being locked for another year also has it's appeal. How much sweeter to be locked away again after such a long time having been given such a strong set of recent memories. Would that make the next year even harder I wonder?
     
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    Absolutely. I am a big sissy. I have no body hair, always have painted toes. My fingernails are always manicured and painted clear. I call it my clitty because it a little girl clit and has no use except sit down wee wees. I honestly have no other need for it, and I love being teases about how cute it is and how pathetic lol x
     
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    Well prior to be being locked I used to sel lock for a couple weeks at a time but otherwise I would usually have daily orgasms lol
     
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    I voted you remain locked as I enjoy finally being permanently caged and I want to see that enjoyment in others. While I am only now approaching 3 months, she wishes to remember on her deathbed that she enjoyed the peace & relaxation of my permanent chastity and I wish to provide her exactly that. Sorry if that sounds morbid, but it's truly the way she has presented it to me in recent conversations.
     
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    So
    So many peoe tell me I am mad but I love being in chastity more that being out. Just feels so right to me
     
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    I read your blog with interest. In my day we did not have the internet and the only place to find a professional Mistress was in the classified pages of Screw Magazine, Village Voice or word of mouth. How does it work with your Mistress? Do you pay a fee per visit or a package price that includes internet, phone and visits? Just curious about how it works in the internet age. I saw Mistress Ely's website and she is expensive. Does she take on slaves and not charge them. Just curious how the whole thing works when money is involved. I could never get myself to pay for sex of any kind even when I was without for long periods. I do not know why but I am the same with having sex. I cannot really get hard with a woman unless I have feelings for her.
     
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    Hello. Firstly Governess Ely is a Dominatrix not a escort. There is a big difference. Secondly, everyone is free to session with her and everyone starts in session as did I. However with hard work and showing dedication to her, I was granted the honour of being on of her personal subs. She is a lifestyle Domme and really lives it. I did pay for my first session but since then I have not had a 'session' I tribute to my Mistress when I can as she deserves it, but she has be wee said to me that I have to pay her so much to keep seeing her. Then as far as feelings go. I love her more than anything and feel very loved back. We have a very select kinky family and I am so proud to be apart of it. My life has never been better x
     
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    I can only say what's happened to me. After a year, my KH allowed me 60 seconds in which to have a ruined orgasm. I failed. She has not given me a release date but did say I could have another try at 500 days. She then forgot about it when the day finally arrived. I have no idea when I'll get an orgasm. I love the excitement of not knowing.
     
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    I agree. I love being locked. At this point wi would beg to bit be released lol
     
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    To not be released *
     
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    Never said to me*
     
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    Hey guys and girls. Thanks for the votes and messages. Keep them rolling in. I thought I would just update this and announce that today I actually the completion of my first full year in chastity without orgasm.
    If you don't believe me then check out mine or Governess Ely's twitter pages haha! X
     
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    Well duh! Lol. Of course it's what she wants hehe. But thanks for the post x x
     
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    I thought the reply said it all.
    Congrats on your one year.
     
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    Thank you. :) it's such an honour to remain locked for so long
     
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    Agree. i am quickly approaching that mild stone. i believe i may go right by that as Mistress does not want me out.
     
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    Hehe. Today Mistress said the first year was just foreplay lol. I can't wait x
     
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    I will be running about 9 months when we come to the date that we have agreed on that she "might" allow me to have the keys. However, I am much like you on the thought of why get out. We will discuss how the chastity has effected our relationship and if she wants to continue holding the keys.
     
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